Originally posted by: Ohgod!
Agree! But if both are lost and confused, the expectation from a father figure is to be there emotionally AND offer practical advice on what needs to be done, especially if his agenda is to bring them together! Now here Madhav hasn't shared his true intentions with Abhira, and my bigger problem is he is also not asking her what she wants? You don't want to let them talk sure, but atleast lead Abhira on the right path of thinking! And so the same for your other child Armaan too! He may have a house full of people but no one can do the job of such conversations like a parent and Madhav knows Vidya may offer him support but she's anti-Abhira for now so he needs to have atleast one conversation with Armaan and tell him what has really upset Abhira!
They're going to have these ansty moments one way or another and I get that all of this is to create conflict! But usmein bhi tho sense ho? Like for me, Abhira's hurt is justified and even if I let her comments on him two-timing pass, what I cannot understand is her allowing KP and Ruhi to manipulate her, and worse feeling sorry for Ruhi the same way she feels for herself!! I didn't even like that she used the same inference if Aaj koi kal koi aur again today with that random couple! If they want us to to ship a couple, don't put one down so miserably. They've been giving meaningless dialogues and scenes to Abhira including that temple scene and expect us to be okay when the next minute she lands up at PH! There could have been 100 other ways to get her in, but no.. let's choose the laziest and most questionable method..
Anyway! I don't watch any show from one character's perspective, and in any case, the writers always white wash most characters and atleast in this show, historically they always have. This expectation that one character has to be repeatedly called out for mistakes while the other can be given a leeway with whatever excuse is what I'm not okay with! Madhav to me, cannot be right for 1 thing he does right because there are 99 other things he does do wrong. Neither are Armaan AND Abhira many number of times. But if we consistently judge characters based on their past actions and never call out mistakes based on their current, I think the growing up needs to be on our end just as much as theirs!
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