Originally posted by: Pinecone
yes she witnessed how he was disturbed all along, she felt like he had something for her too- thats why she was gonna very easily melt for him when she learned he called off shaadi to Ruhi until madhav told her to hold out
but this past reveal has made her very scared and insecure,and hurt too
Armaan always sacrifices for people and can do something big impulsively. he gave up on Ruhi for Rohit. He came for his teacher and married Abhira for a dying promise to his guru. he is that guy who will do something really BIG out of a sense of obligation. so she is scared that this love for her may be stemming from guilt because she has no one except him.
obviously once she calms down it will occur to her that if he dumped Ruhi whom he used to have feeling for, then she is more important in his life. but for now after past reveal her immediate reaction is like this and its normal.
she may also be insecure that if he dumped Ruhi whom he tagged as "perfect" fit for him and his family and had feelings for at some point, he may tomorrow with family dispute and all decide to dump her too. he already divorced her on very bitter terms in anger because of his family.
She is not privy to all the interactions of Ar-Ruhi. many of them happened behind her back .but all she saw is that they were very close. and now knowing that it was because they had feelings for each other and not just BIL-SIL or dosti waala equation- it will hit her hard.
when she saw them dance- no matter who dragged who, she was hurt because she went with him as +1 to the event but he forgot about her and started dancing with Ruhi initially just to be polite but ultimately he danced till the end fully losing hosh of Abhira ke whereabouts. But she didnt say much thinking ok dost hai. and she also wasnt in love and all. but today if she has a FB of the same thing she will think- those were 2 exes close dancing and clearly had residual feelings for each other. I dont think him running to check on her when she fell down negates the inappropriateness of that dance with Ruhi.
Abhira's whole issue is this- he was kind of stringing both women along. his ex became his dost whom he didnt properly maintain distance from and gave hope to that they may be together after his deal shaadi ends because Rohit was dead and his zimmedari became much more than that and Abhira felt their growing closeness and their bond- emotionally entering a space of spouses which made her feel they could be together for real. so thats why she says you have latkaoed both women. that is true. he has been a pendulum for a long time. its only now that he has clarity of love vs infatuation.
Abhira asked him why he told Ruhi about deal and he said- he was disturbed, she was there so he told. but now she realizes he told her because she was his chitwaali all along.
We as audience know Ruhi was manipulating Armaan but he was unable to firmly push her away. He didnt initiate anything but he always let her get away. she cornered him many times doing inappropriate things like ironing clothes, fixing button, doing nazar teeka, choosing a shirt for him, asking him for beech raasta, telling him point blank she cant stand him and Abhira together, dancing, hugging, cornering him in mussoorie asking him to divorce and marry her after Ab was gone, shiv shakti, cornering him in ganghor calling him handsome etc. he didnt start any of this- but he watched it all happen and didnt tell her - NO. I WILL NEVER BE WITH YOU. he just kept on going with the flow. When he was angry with Abhira during Charu kaand , instead of venting alone, he kept seeking out Ruhi calling her acchi, sacchi. He knew the immoral intentions of that woman but he kept on seeking Ruhi out. that was inappropriate.
Abhira does not know the details or the exact dynamic Ar-Ruhi had all along. I dont think she is implying that Armaan slept with Ruhi or had a serious affair with ruhi all this time behind her back. her issue is - how could he give so much leeway to his ex. And until today he had fooled her by telling her she was his BFF. but now she knows the truth that it was MUCH more. they were clearly more than friends and he didnt put Ruhi in place- thats why Ruhi was behaving with so much haq - and that is reason enough for Abhira to feel hurt, angry and insecure.
And Armaan is only now realizing the blunders he has made along the way and is finally redeeming himself. I feel bad for him but I think what he is hearing or facing now is kinda long overdue.
The only thing is that Ruhi is getting away for now but I am hopeful at some point she will also get her due. Because she is even more to blame. but right now the focus is only on Armaan-Abhira. Abhira isnt bothered about Ruhi perse. she only cares about why this truth was hidden from her by Armaan
Ye kisi ki sagi nhi hy she is for the streets 
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