Originally posted by: sanfan
Hey Mayaโฆ that sentence in bold was Priyaโs point. I was responding to it which caused some confusion and I wrote an explanation post but as Priya said she still needed Sohini to understand my point to her that the opposite was being felt by others. I was trying to tell Priya that just like she felt Adi will be made negative to whitewash Ani.. others feel the opposite. Yesterday and Today is not my good day it seems ๐๐๐๐ I really need to work on my writing skills
Actually, I was writing in a ghuma firakar way to make Priya see my point.. ๐๐
In fact about Ani I want to sayโฆ the makers I hope havenโt forgotten that Aniโs jealousy had some nuance. He was jealous about Rahul but his jealousy about Rahul wasnโt the crazy kind.. he had reconciled to her liking Rahul and was even prepared to get the two married. For him her consent matters so much so that even when she was marrying Tejas in Kashmir , he didnโt impose his will but asked to clarifyโฆ
Today his jealousy - I still donโt like to call it jealousyโฆ itโs his fear that Adi is not up to any good. From a broader perspective some lines are being crossed but for me this is how I read Ani even now
I havenโt seen todayโs episode.. I still think Ani is being kept intact but viewers arenโt reading this well maybe due to dialogues nonsense perhapsโฆ. I havenโt watched the last 3 episodes so I can comment properly only after that. Have some thoughts
Diii...the way I look at Ani at this point in this track,
I believe it is a mix of so many emotions ... Mixture of protectiveness, jealousy and disappointment....
"Protectiveness" is the first and foremost emotion he feels definitely...we all know that he doesn't trust Adi around Jhanak.. Considering his past knowledge about Aditya Kapoor and his ways & past encounter of him finding Aditya in her room....he doesn't trust Aditya and his intention at all. And when he sees Jhanak accepting his advances he is getting irritated with her...Woh toh hai...her safety and dignity is first concern definitely
Anirudh had said before that he always had certain expections from Jhanak...and if she contradicts it , then he goes mad and irrational..For him Jhanak has been always the symbol of purity and strength who knows when to say ' no'.and put her foot down..and his assumption regarding Rahul though made him jealous but eventually it went with the image he had of Jhanak..of a woman who loves his friend and can't forget him .and that friend also loves & cares for her enough to give her wings to fly after marriage...and will care for her safety So no matter how painful he felt but he accepted it and decided to get them married.But this AK thing is contradicting that image of Jhanak..in his mind...
He keeps saying, " kya Maine tumhe galat pehechana tha"... I remember in the Tejas Kashmir wedding time, he looked into her eyes saying her to clarify so that he doesn't lose his faith in humanity as Jhanak is a symbol of that for him...and he still feels the same...but in Tejas track he had faith on Jhanak that she can't agree to marry Tejas on her own ,he could guess the reason as well but with Aditya he is not sure..why she doesn't say "no"..soo he is simply too too disappointed...First time also her inability to put her foot down is what disappointed him
Jealousy is there as well...
Bcz if I observe him I can see two main components in this phenomenon of jealousy:.the experience and expression of it with him... His experience via thoughts ( for example, trying to estimate whether...she really is interested in ADI) and Emotional reactions (for example, worrying, feeling insecure, or feeling sad or...depressed).Jealousy in relationships depends on our beliefs and expectations about ourselves and our partners...I
Now in my opinion, Aniruddh is also comparing himself with Aditya.. Aditya for him is a man who is openly praising her, who is asking her openly to sing with him, they are shopping together, Jhanak is travelling in his car...He is doing all these things openly, These are the things that he could never do bcz of his circumstances though he always wanted..He is igniting his insecurities by constantly reminding him what he could never do for her even when she was his wife....he is remembering their marriage which means he also realises that they had a relationship yet he couldn't do most of things for her that he should have but Aditya is doing them for her...soo his insecurities are triggered...these insecurities are making him weak mentally blurring his rational thinking ability to some extent...
When he tried in the initial days to help Jhanak by being around her with good intentions only.. Jhanak had only rejected his offers for her own reasons obviously that always made him angry..I still remember his drama when Jhanak denied to sit in his car .But here Jhanak is accepting his offers happily according to him even after knowing him for a short while...specially When Jhanak knows that he dislikes Aditya....which makes him believe that her bond with Aditya is probably deeper than her regard for his words...
So he thinks may be Jhanak is really interested in him and is moving on assuming that he also has moved on and is happy with Arshi ...so that is troubling him that when his life is at standstill,... emotionally exactly where it was before they were separated...then how can she move on so easily!!!.
He is finally accepting to himself that he is not married to Arshi...It is a good thing....
Her consent is important to him..... probably he is now suspecting her consent that to for a wrong person...so for him Jhanak moving on with Adi is the issue for sure but Jhanak moving on from him is also an issue for him
Bas I hope he realises that he was not bold enough to do the correct thing at the time of wedding with Arshi..I hope he does it now...be bold enough to atleast talk to Jhanak about it straight and her answering him as well...noo gol gol baatein...
But then how will makers stretch it then!! Let's see... I am hopeful that good things will happen only
Edited by asmitamohanty - a month ago
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