Originally posted by: rysohini
If actions were to be the only judge, there were enough actions that showed J , the lengths Ani went to, for her ! So if she is eager to read too much into the PDA, she should learn to judge every other action that Ani has taken for her ! I think this is the moral conflict at play - it is Jโs cautiousness of not getting the home breaker tag, and making her convince her own self, that Sirji is not in love with her !
Aap yeh sabb keh rahe hai, qki aapko bukhar hai ! Who the eff is she kidding? When she heard the I Love You, she knew BHโs taana of J bhatkayoing Ani has taken shape - hence her monologue โapko bhi pata hai, agar aap apne life mein shanti chahte ho, toh aapko mujhse dur rehna hoga. Main aap dono ke beech ana nehi chahti, apke life mein toofan lana nehi chahtiโ
And then does just the opposite, accompanies Ani to BH, at a juncture of an impending marriage of Sirji and Arshi didi!
J follows a โin theory this is correctโ so I will stick to theory, while sometimes my dil comes in between and makes me do just the opposite in practical ! She has that one hope, deep seeded, that she has never been able to fully uproot, the hope that Ani will be hers and give her, her haq and wife rights- it is this hope that brings her back to Ani and keeps her Ani ke ird gird , time n again!
Its not only the fear of home breaker tag Sohini, Ani never followed through any sign he gave her. Every time he showed his interest before J could register he would retract.
Outing day after getting her clothes and food, he said he did that because she asked him for clothes and their pics mattered nothing to him and tore them.
After the shoot, coming back and intentionally pda with Arshi in his bedroom and dining table doing everything to show his love and care for Arshi...the number of times he waved the honeymoon crap in front of her.
Bday dinner, after all the flirting he came home and said he wanted to do something acha for her before she left BH and that she would never come back, so it was a one off. He promised BH that she would leave in a couple of days.
After the ILU during bukhaar night he denied it completely the next day, he held her to he promise and did not let her break it and took her to BH where he said he invited her to their wedding, and to BH because she did not have anywhere to stay, like she was some charity case. Did not support her after bringing her home then tells her it is all up to her what to do next. Also everytime its never J I love you completely you are my love...its half of my heart is hurting. When she asks him during bhukaar night - but you love Arshi didi - he says - but I cannot live without you....he never denies loving Arshi ever. Its only right for Jhanak to leave him happy with the other half.
And saying Anishi is like a well rooted tree is J's swipe at him, as she knows he will never leave Arshi, and no toofan even her can get him to do that, so his asking them to go away was not practical as he would always go back to Arshi.
Just the sheer number of times he has run to Arshi worried that she would cancel the wedding and pleaded for her to listen to him and his ILU Arshi.
For every time J may have considered Ani may love her - he has shot the theory down almost immediately with his actions. Finally the nail in the coffin is when she sees how beserk he went when the fire happened. He could not even tolerate a conv with J. We all thought he was trying to protect her ... but no - he really thought she could burn his princess...J truly believes Ani loves Arshi....no influence of her home breaker tag here. And Ani is the one who gave her this belief - with all his pda and support for Arshi always.
J is not perfect. She has made mistakes but right now in the story Ani is the one with unforgivable blunders, esp to one he claims to love.
They both made mistakes - no one is overlooking J's mistakes, but the reason he is getting abuse from the viewers. - is he made most of them and he could have done better because he did not have the helplessness J had...no money no support...never ending insults and hard work. One month of very slight torture by Arshi and the guy looks so unhappy, J dealt with much worse from so many people over much longer. Getting boxed in by BH is a choice for him. For J she did not have any other place to go or people to support.
Now she is in a place where she can start her life again after paying all her dues...let's hope he at least is decent enough to stay away. He has made his bed, and if he had any ounce of selflessness, he should leave J to lead her own life and disappear.
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