Originally posted by: Dibya_C
I posted a somewhat similar analysis on the contradiction of Ani and J's feelings towards each other yesterday or a day before that..For J, getting recognition as Ani's wife is more important than his love...she knew that Ani has fallen for her since a long time... that's why she used Arshi didi ka jaap as a dhaal against Anirudh's romantic advances...and I think it has some things to do with her mother's status in society...her mother never got a wife's status...so she is afraid that Ani cannot give her a wife's respect in front of his family and society...
On the contrary, for Anirudh, getting J's love is more important than being recognised as her husband... because again and again it is shown that consent matters the most to him, even above any rituals...His biggest pain is not that J has declined him as her husband, instead it is her rejection of his love and the portrayal that she does not love him and may be she loves someone else, not him...
The moment Anirudh is able to assure J of his intention to give her social recognition as his wife, J will completely surrender to his love.... Similarly, when J can make Anirudh believe that there is no other man in her life and it is only him who she loves, not because he is her pati, but for the sake of love only, Anirudh will completely trust her and will never doubt her having affair with any other man...
....and Runak will reach a point where they will fight for their relationship..
Jhanak using Arshi didi as a cover was to an extent valid until she had physical intimacy with Anirudh.. From there on she using Arshi name to hide her feelings was irrational... And since her mother never got the status of wife in front of the society she should have stood up for her rights and not sign the annulment.. Why did she chose the route which will end up in same status as her mom. The after effect of a physical intimacy as a girl would or should have alerted her... Still she chose to cancel her valid marriage, strange... Home wrecker tag is already there, the moment she came in between Arshi and Anirudh peacefully life she is being labelled so. Now after pregnancy drama, she herself named as one...
I feel for Anirudh its her acceptance that matters, be it love or as pati. He needs to be recognised by her. The moment she says he is her pati he would fight the whole world for them. Even if she says she loves him, he will be able to fight the evil gang...
Its Jhanak and her validation of Anirudh is the one in her life and not anyone else will make him fight for them. She needs to give him that assurance. Ultimately its Jhanak happiness that matters for him .He didnt like Aditya as he knew about him as a playboy and then the anger popped up ..I still can feel his pain when he asked is it Aditya....After her rejection even though he was broken he came in terms with Aditya being Jhanak's man. He even recommended him for the ad shoot. Rahul too, when his marriage was about to happen, he wanted Jhanak to be safe and he couldn't come up with anyone other than Rahul. As for him Rahul will give wings to Jhanak..
So its all about Jhanak and her happiness...
The assurance can make him do wonders for their relationship...
They both need to accept the love for each other, so that their story can progress..
Edited by MayaFruitbae - 2 hours ago
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