Originally posted by: sanfan
Super episode!!
Today I feel a bit vindicated for all the nonsense writing and decoding I doโฆ๐๐for this serial
I can only say a bit becos Leena can always do a number on usโฆ
For all those wondering why Ani wonโt verbalise the relationship with Jhanak
Imv It is simply this - he wants her to own up for himself. Has this not been obvious already. Both in fact...they both want eo's love acknowledgement even if they wont act on it...J we know why at least until she left - moral. Why Ani did not leave Arshi - because J did not openly claim him is no reason to deceive Arshi still.
Based on the episode today; what I've been waiting to understand...what Leena seems to be alluding to - is because J wanted/asked him to. While I partially buy this; Ani listening to J with such Shiddat and selflessly/ sacrificially is something i find hard to digest...though probable. It fits with the story... hurting, crucifying J while honoring her own ask for her sake; even when she seems to asking for a reprieve...is too intense. Leena is very smart....comes back after drama and high toxicity - with a justification that barely scrapes the characterization or prior indication but is there.
The day Jhanak calls him her pati he will be her pati until then he will be Rishtedaar, well wisher,etc
He will do his damnest best to be in her life in any shape or form but he wonโt claim her. She will need to claim him as her lover for herself or as a Pati ( personally I donโt think he feels confident that the forced wedding conferred any rights so unless Jhanak accepts it he wonโt) this is the classic gridlock which I have referred to in the past but baby steps have been taken so I am fairly confident some more baby steps will be taken in that journey to break that gridlock.
She came to claim him as the father of her child It was a claim but still it doesnโt mean anything in the scheme of thingsโฆAlso that claiming happened in a way that the claim itself was under a cloud but while that cloud may have liftedโฆhe doesnโt feel any sense of elation( pfc her health doesnโt permit him to think anything else) that she came to him with the truth. When the deed didnโt confer any legitimacy why will the baby do?
He wants Jhanak to choose him for herself no strings attached.
Not only choose but verbally spell it out. But where I am still unsure is and we have no clarity is even if J did that he would have dumped Arshi...I know he said it in his monologue but his actions have said otherwise. Maybe his performance has always been too good.
For her too - she wants him to give haq to her because he wants to; not because of a sense of responsibility. I always felt if J was convinced Ani's love for her was solid with no second thoughts or distractions she would disregard the moral dilemma of Arshi. this is because she would prioritize true love between Runak and marriage without love with Arshi...on a higher ground than home breaker. Again not a popular thought process with most viewers...but its how I read the story. As you said classic gridlock.
Jhanak rani will have to liberate Aniโฆfrom this insecurity of not being chosen for himself but for deeds he does for her or did for her. He doesnโt want her worship him or feel grateful he wants her love pure and simple
J will not accept Ani without Arshi's blessing. Ani not so sure. His sense of guilt, J's health; threat of AK; his inability to live with Arshi...all may push our Ani babu over his threshold to claim J as wife and damn the consequences:) It will mark true return to his og characterization.
Kab? Pata nahinโฆ.and wait a minute where does that leave Arshi? Pata nahin
Arshi will have to accept to herself and publicly that she is not Ani's #1 priority. its an insult to her. A line was crossed with this episode that cannot be ignored. She cannot in BH publicly put down J with any credibility. Ani destroyed her today with his kulaasaas...dance, reason for their marriage...he destroyed her image as wife in Bh. He clearly showed his closeness with J - in the sense that behind Arshi's back - his deep emotional relationship with J, to the extent he asked for sacrifice for Arshi and J did it. It seals Runak relationship more than anything. Ani did very wrong to didi today...he stripped her bare of any dignity...She did incite him to it; but we also have to remember all of Ani's grovelling to Arshi as well. She did not stay without encouragement; she was given false assurances and deceived. She can either playact to be sacrificing and later again prey on J's didi love and Ani's guilt OR outright hold Ani to his commitment. Somehow because they are not legally married; Her hold on him is not strong...unless another area like BH finance etc opens up holding Ani on the basis of their marriage commitment unless Ani himself wants to stay is not goingto happen.
Once I get my thoughts sorted I will write on that
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