Originally posted by: AreYaar
I'm not defending the way they show him going back to Arshi each time....that's a major irritation for me in the story as well and I usually tune out when Ani returns to Arshi ki ghulami zone.
But from what I've gathered - they are trying to show that Ani puts on the appearance of moving on and following what is expected of him by society/family by being with Arshi....but he is never really able to accept another woman in his life other than Jhanak. Yes, despite him living in the same room with Arshi, they have shown from time to time that he is uncomfortable with her trying to get close to him, he has been shown feeling awkward with her hugs....he may give her the public label of his wife but he hasn't really moved forward....this was again confirmed with his recent monologue in his room where he said he tried to move on with Arshi but wasn't able to because he isn't able to look at any other woman than Jhanak.....
His struggle has been between what he thinks he will be able to do and what he is actually able to do.....he thought his practical side will win over his heart but ultimately his heart didn't let him move on and maybe taking on that very pressure has made his heart cave in now.
He needs understanding and guidance but no one in his life stands with him to give him that.....he needs Jhanak with him first to even stabilize a bit.
That is what I want to highlight...trying to 'move on' when in reality you're not at all ready to move on will not help you in any way..He needs to understand that it is him who is at the centre of the storm who is taking the maximum hit from all the sides...
J was smart enough to realise that Ani will choose Arshi when time comes and she decided to leave for Mumbai..She decided to move on in life exploring other important things...not with other man...Ani made the biggest mistake here...J se gussa hoke usne apne aap ko Arshi ko saup diya! And it proved to be the biggest blunder of his life! Now see what he is facing and what he will be facing... legal dispute, image and reputation damage and all those things he feared he had to face due to J's accusations will now be brought to him by his side called adhi biwi Arshi...
No girl will accept a guy's love when he repeatedly shows that he is in love with other woman..in this case, the other woman is Arshi with whom he shared a 7 years relationship..whom the Bose family has accepted as their bahu...untill and unless he wins J's trust that he will not leave her for Arshi, it's not possible for J to develop faith on his love..
I really was pissed off when makers gave J the monologue that main janti hu aap mujhe apna dil de chuke hai...under the current scheme of things this is absurd! She should have rejected him purely because it's not possible to trust him after so much PDAs, his half marriage and rejection of paternity claims..
I hope this time makers allow them to have a sane conversation...without any CAs and third angles..
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