Not negating anything you are saying hereinβ¦but a question that I haveβ¦ would the love between Jhanak and Ani be negated if Arshi wasnβt so? If I were the writerβ¦ I would be concerned on this perspective as well!! I would think a narrative that tells us that all things moving in specific directions causes an eventβ¦
At no point in the story did I feel that Ani fell for Jhanak due to his issues with Arshi. I would think the writer has a clear path for conflict resolution!!
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No... I don't think Aniruddh and Jhanak fell in love because Arshi was the way she was.. because I think this show has explored the concept of perception vs actuality of love...
Ani and Arshi were in a relationship...yes..They must have done things that we are supposed to do in a romantic relationship socially...but Aniruddh never understood or felt what love is before meeting Jhanak..He is a passionate man... jealousy, possessiveness, restlessness is his style of love...and the fact that he doesn't feel any of these for Arshi tells me that though they were in a relationship...may be there was likeness..but he was not " in love" with Arshi..Just ticking boxes for eachother...and they were not expecting anything more...
In Mumbai there in a episode...Arshi assumed 'blue' as Aniruddh's favourite colour...but Jhanak knew that his favourite is white.." sirji ne kaha tha white unka favourite hai" or something I don't remember correctly you though...Matlab in such long relationship.they didn't even discuss such things....she doesn't even know this much....
It's Jhanak who made him aware of so many colours in his personality... otherwise the image " Aniruddh Bose" is anyway too proper but ultimately is a facade only...He gradually embraced himself being open to be himself with full honesty around Jhanak...From Arshi's side also it was not love as there was never trust, understanding or respectful conversation from her side towards Aniruddh...
Biggeest example is RuNak even after going through such life altering storms, that would have been deadlock in any relationship...still there immensely in love...but in case of AniShi , Jhanak was probably the first challenge and look what it did to their relationship
And if Arshi wasn't as bad as she was...it would have delayed them falling for eachother probably....Bcz there was noone around Jhanak who would protect her or empower and uplift her,thats why Aniruddh had to understand that he is her only "Apna"., ..He kept becoming more and more protective...The emotional intimacy would not have been built the way it did if Jhanak wasn't so lonely or so much in trouble...he made all his existence about Jhanak bcz there was never anyone else whom he could trust with her...If Arshi would have been different and more compassionate and loving towards her cousin-sister,then probably Jhanak wouldn't have stayed in BH only.... Aniruddh wouldn't have to fight sooo much for her...
Their journey would have been different....and thank God it is the way it is... Inspite of Arshi being like this, both of them are living with so much guilt...If Arshi was actually better, toh kya hota hamare
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