Super episode!!
Today I feel a bit vindicated for all the nonsense writing and decoding I doโฆ๐๐for this serial
I can only say a bit becos Leena can always do a number on usโฆ
For all those wondering why Ani wonโt verbalise the relationship with Jhanak
Imv It is simply this - he wants her to own up for himself.
The day Jhanak calls him her pati he will be her pati until then he will be Rishtedaar, well wisher,etc
He will do his damnest best to be in her life in any shape or form but he wonโt claim her. She will need to claim him as her lover for herself or as a Pati ( personally I donโt think he feels confident that the forced wedding conferred any rights so unless Jhanak accepts it he wonโt) this is the classic gridlock which I have referred to in the past but baby steps have been taken so I am fairly confident some more baby steps will be taken in that journey to break that gridlock.
She came to claim him as the father of her child It was a claim but still it doesnโt mean anything in the scheme of thingsโฆAlso that claiming happened in a way that the claim itself was under a cloud but while that cloud may have liftedโฆhe doesnโt feel any sense of elation( pfc her health doesnโt permit him to think anything else) that she came to him with the truth. When the deed didnโt confer any legitimacy why will the baby do?He wants Jhanak to choose him for herself no strings attached
Jhanak rani will have to liberate Aniโฆfrom this insecurity of not being chosen for himself but for deeds he does for her or did for her. He doesnโt want her worship him or feel grateful he wants her love pure and simple
Kab? Pata nahinโฆ.and wait a minute where does that leave Arshi? Pata nahin
Once I get my thoughts sorted I will write on that
That is what Anirudh is all about.
He doesn't force relationship on her.
The birthday night he spoke of how he remembers the marriage... How it was special for him, how he cherishes it.... The moment she said she doesnt want to speak about it he stopped. He didnt force her nor did he speak about it further .
The kashmir confrontation by Jhanak, the moment she spoke of haq.. He said haq mango Jhanak... He is expecting her to ask for it. Not that he will force it on her .
The annulment he wanted her to stop, why , not because he cant fight for it.. Or because he wanted to marry Arshi and live happily ever after!!!.
Its because Jhanak signed it.. For him its always that the marriage was circumstantial, the consent of both of them were absent in it.
And how can he force Jhanak in such a relationship. He tried his best to know her feelings. Directly, indirectly before she went to Kashmir for her exams.
But Jhanak didnt accept the marriage to him nor her love. So he didnt have anything to fight for their relationship. For what and for whom would he fight. Its a one sided relation in his understanding....
Later they both started doing things for them , but never ever did the marriage, husband, wife tag come in between them. He can do things for her and fight the world for her but he wont force the relation on her until and unless she accept it herself.
Like he said today, if Jhanak can stake her dignity in front of the world there should be something in that. He trying to understand her itself is a grace as he can now relate to all her words of " I couldn't stop you that night " ... And that their relation is now that of a husband and wife. Now when he needs to sign the paper I so hope he signs it has her husband connecting the dots that she accepts him as her husband.
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