Originally posted by: DiLaila
I respectfully agree to disagree with you about the respect in this particular situation. I donโt believe Ani knew for sure Arshi will not go with him to Mumbai. There is 1% Arshi could agree, he asked her 4 times (1 time in the room and 3 times in front of the family). His family could ask Arshi to go with Ani, but they didnโt help him here because they know that Arshi will be insulted by this request. For Ani he doesnโt think that asking Arshi to come with him as his partner, Jhanakโs sister is insulting. Rather he wants her to have some humanity towards the relative of hers who is an orphan. He is not planning to deceive Arshi. In yesterdayโs episode it was her choice not to go to Mumbai. If she chose that, why to blame Ani?
Now when it comes to Aniโs feeling himself as being Jhanakโs husband, I think realization of him having this pati ka haq over Jhanak did not come back to him when he got the phone call from Adi, but it rather started to occur to him that he has very close connection with Jhanak when he was confronted in the courtroom by everyone. He said that he made a promise to Jhanak but he couldnโt keep it. He did not say what his promise to Jh was. But it hit him in the moment that he promised Jhanak his protection and his saath. It doesnโt mean he thought of himself as her husband just yet. The way Arshi said that you are beiman, dhokebaaz, this triggered Ani to say that I am not going to bhasana ghar with Jhanak, because this is Arshiโs insecurity and fear that Jhanak and Ani will change their current relationship to marriage. Ani was confronted by Arshi several times in their room about the same, so he knows her worst fear and he just voiced it sabke samne.
So, I donโt see this as him giving dhoka to Arshi.
In todayโs episode after Ani having been confronted by Adi about the exact name of his relationship with Jhanak, he finally admits to Jhanak that she is his biwi. But ghar basana abhi bhi door ki baat hai. Jhanak declined to accept their relationship as pati and patni now. Ani may hope that Jhanak will allow him to be her husband.
But given the circumstances with Jhanakโs health and Aniโs current emotional state, I cannot blame him for not calling Arshi and saying that he believes Jhanak is his wife now. Aniโs priority is Jhanakโs life in this very moment. He is not thinking about Arshi. Also, he told her if she is not happy with him, she may leave and be happy without him.
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