Originally posted by: pyar-ishk
What is a definition conventional shaadi, that it excuses someone to lie to you for months
If we to accept the marriage wasn't "Conventional" then why lie and the secrecy. Why claim
it's over with chitwali, but then tell unconventional wife, don't tell my family you want to leave after
a year but tell the other woman. That doosri aurat, use it to taunt you every chance she get, then
you lie again and said she's best friend ![smiley39](/smileys/smiley39.gif)
Unconventional wife or not Abhira deserve to know a secrete that involves her.
.which had 10 months to tell the truth.
You're right they're all in this mess cause of Amaanza, by allowing that secret to be out there
he allow KP, to use it to her advantage and I'm glad he accepted it was fault
Lies and secrecy bec he had to look after his family situation not just win abhiras trust for some xyz unknown reason (i cant figure out a reason also ) ....Ruhi was not only his ex but now his brothers widow. And he was still married to abhira.
I believe the only reason he should've told abhira About ruhi is that he genuinely wanted to be with ruhi ..only then ..if his true lub was ruhi , then he should've told abhira & abhira would've got out of his life much earlier , n not fallen in love with him & there would be no abhiman.
Yes , he did tell ruhi about deal shadi bec at THAT time he did not love abhira.... He was praying for a good husband for abhira all along , calling her zimmedari . Toh woh bhi sach hi tha , ye bhi sach hai ke with ruhi, post rohits exit , it was pure guilt that was driving his thought process
Yes. Abhira deserve to know a secret that involves her but this secret did not involve her. This secret NOW involves her. Abhira was never in the equation , she was there as a zimmedari deal shadi jisko Arman ne 1 saal baad chodna tha , so why should arman involve her in this complex problem?...arman ko help leni thi ya sympathy ya apni problem ka solution ? Abhira ka trust lekar kya karna tha Jab abhira ne rehna hi nai uske saath in future ? ? .... She cannot complain why ruhi ko humare beech aane diya coz there was no humare beech. Haan , arman gave ruhi a lot of leeway, no denying .
Arman sa ki galtiyan count karane ko there r plenty .... I'm not denying Arman ne saara raita phailaya but , dono ladkiyan bechari toh hai nahi.
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