lol noโฆ I am just trying to see both sides and trying to again look from their shoes. I just like to explore their emotions regardless of rights or wrong ! I have even done that for charasi ๐ once ! They are just amusing characters, Ani out of all !
Ok gotta sleep now !! Gn girls
Is this write up inspired from my own where I was disappointed with him which in turn triggered you to write about babu moshai in a sympathetic manner??โค๏ธ
Poor guy thinks Arshi needs him ! ๐ lol
When I see the other side of the aisle putting aside everything even Runak, just his thought process, he is so damn innocent to think Arshi actually needs him or he is the only one for her! She does not value anything he is doing for her. Because of this exact thing, doesnโt matter he has hurt jhanak he is going to continue down this path of paying for the mistakes that arenโt even mistakesโฆ like helping jhanak , brining her into their lives .. itโs that stupid through process where everyone unfortunately around him making him think whatever happened to arshi is somehow his fault. Just because jhanak came into their lives and Ani brought her. I pity him, the amount of guilt he is carrying and what all itโs making him do ! Whatโs going to happen to him when Arshi fires back at him for doing this unnecessary favor to her ? I think he will be heartbroken ๐ if Anything he considers her a good friend, some imp part of her life, and is going to the extent to make her the life .. and when that person doesnโt even recognize or see what you are , it gotta truly hurt !
Tough days coming for Ani Bose but everyone need to grow up sometime in life . And I hope all these teaches him to make right decisions, he is already a gem of a heart , thatโs all we can hope for !
That was the rubbish reason they could project from Anirudh's side ..
Is she an orphan , she is already an established dancer , she said today I train my students for such shows ....she has Tanuja and her whole evil gang behind her . They love her more than Anirudh..
They made him say she has only me !!!!
Arshi who was telling I cant stand even in Mumbai gave such a confident , arrogant speech.
Hope so ! He deserves that much if itโs in the montage
Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae
Fingers crossed Vira dear...
I am even ready to cry along if they show proper reason for his behaviour at the moment ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฅบ๐ข
Not a simple sorry monologue
She is under depression maya samaza Karo ๐
Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae
That was the rubbish reason they could project from Anirudh's side ..
Is she an orphan , she is already an established dancer , she said today I train my students for such shows ....she has Tanuja and her whole evil gang behind her . They love her more than Anirudh..
They made him say she has only me !!!!
Arshi who was telling I cant stand even in Mumbai gave such a confident , arrogant speech.
Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae
When Jhanak declared her love for Anirudh and her lose ,Arshi and Shristi should get hint that something is a miss. Still she gave that attitude .. Win is a win and I WON...omg , felt like hitting her with that trophy ...๐ ๐ ๐
My husband was simply to taunt our Jhanak. Why is Anirudh not given a proper dialogue to show why he asked for this. With a sorry they will now move to Jealousy track. How is jealousy even valid ? What a pathetic story telling.
Arshi perhaps knows about aniโs involvement! Going by her nature, she does not like her ego hurt.. sheโs very proud of her talent and would not accept defeat from her nemesis Jhanak, an untrained dancer added to that! Nor would she have liked to accept a win because the other deliberately lost!! So by making or lettin Ani go ahead with the plan, could only mean two things
- to crush Jhanakโa confidence or fame even before it got to her
- to make Ani fall in Jhanakโs eyes - betrayal of a kind!
She thinks by letting her ego take a backseat she succeeded in the above goals ๐
Arshi perhaps knows about aniโs involvement! Going by her nature, she does not like her ego hurt.. sheโs very proud of her talent and would not accept defeat from her nemesis Jhanak, an untrained dancer added to that! Nor would she have liked to accept a win because the other deliberately lost!! So by making or lettin Ani go ahead with the plan, could only mean two things
- to crush Jhanakโa confidence or fame even before it got to her
- to make Ani fall in Jhanakโs eyes - betrayal of a kind!
She thinks by letting her ego take a backseat she succeeded in the above goals ๐
Both these are in her favour only..makes more sense now...
Originally posted by: asmitamohanty
Hiiii...
I understand.... your frustration and rambling.....we all feel the same...and you are not alone....
About the relationship of Ani and Arshi....
If you see the episode you will realise...the way Arshi was in Kolkata and the way she behaved in Mumbai is hell and heaven difference.....Arshi played the act of this depressed person who severely lacked in confidence and gathered his sympathy...only to show her true colours when she is in Mumbai in front of Jhanak....
Ani was worried for Arshi bcz according to him she was depressed and on medication and if she loses it anything can happen to her... May be she might self-harm as well..But the Arshi we saw on stage today...is she like that? depressed and low in confidence?
Noo.Looking at her today i can say that..she did manipulate Ani for these years into staying in this relationship. Anyone who thinks this was some mutual grand loving relationship should be able to see clearly by now that she has always been a calculative/manipulative woman who puts on a mask of "innocence" and "bechaargi" to milk sympathy from people and get what she wants from them. She wanted Ani on any terms, that is why she manipulated him for these years and convinced a detached guy that he was supposedly in love with her and that they should get married...
Ani didn't know himself enough to see through it....
thank for your support and beautiful comment, I love your posts, Asmita, right?
Indeed, I believe Ani did not know better relationship with a love interest than what Arshi gave him or tricked him into. I recall he said to Arshi in Calcutta after he brought Jhanak to BH that Arshi you were different, you were kind, understanding. Thatโs why he was hoping she will understand him. I feel he still loved her during those times. She was indeed coming across as a good person mostly in Kashmir, then with time she revealed her true self due to insecurities and problems in their lives. I do not blame Ani for helping Arshi or staying with her when the situation required. Itโs the right thing to do. But he needs to learn to respect Jhanak, talk to her without manipulation. Even if they are not together by the end of this show, I would love to see they show him to give it back to Arshi when she humiliates Jhanak or other people like Chotton, Appu, Bodoma, Jethu. I do not remember he spoke up for other family members and showed Arshi her place. That is why I think he is shown as weak husband of Arshi by makers while he has potential to grow into a leader who chooses justice. In this track due to emotional distress of Arshi he has to do this and I accepted that. But after this track I hope makers will show this growth in his character, I believe love is based on respect, let him learn the to respect Jhanak and tell Arshi that he is not happy with what she says against Jhanak or other family members who are weaker than her. He knows Arshiโ true colors and she is not sick anymore. She got her career back. So, he doesnโt need to be nice with her if she mistreats people.
Sorry I am not so articulate as you all are, but I hope you can understand my concerns about Aniโs character ๐ ๐
I am hoping after the attitude iof Arshi ANI won't never even think of asking a sacrifice for her who doe snot value the sacrifice and his effort. Now she is back to her confidence no need to butterify her . He can be himself now.thank for your support and beautiful comment, I love your posts, Asmita, right? My name is Laila. Indeed, I believe Ani did not know better relationship with a love interest than what Arshi gave him or tricked him into. I recall he said to Arshi in Calcutta after he brought Jhanak to BH that Arshi you were different, you were kind, understanding. Thatโs why he was hoping she will understand him. I feel he still loved her during those times. She was indeed coming across as a good person mostly in Kashmir, then with time she revealed her true self due to insecurities and problems in their lives. I do not blame Ani for helping Arshi or staying with her when the situation required. Itโs the right thing to do. But he needs to learn to respect Jhanak, talk to her without manipulation. Even if they are not together by the end of this show, I would love to see they show him to give it back to Arshi when she humiliates Jhanak or other people like Chotton, Appu, Bodoma, Jethu. I do not remember he spoke up for other family members and showed Arshi her place. That is why I think he is shown as weak husband of Arshi by makers while he has potential to grow into a leader who chooses justice. In this track due to emotional distress of Arshi he has to do this and I accepted that. But after this track I hope makers will show this growth in his character, I believe love is based on respect, let him learn the to respect Jhanak and tell Arshi that he is not happy with what she says against Jhanak or other family members who are weaker than her. He knows Arshiโ true colors and she is not sick anymore. She got her career back. So, he doesnโt need to be nice with her if she mistreats people. Sorry I am not so articulate as you all are, but I hope you can understand my concerns about Aniโs character ๐ ๐
Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae
How can we pay back someone's help which was given at the most important time of life.Its very important to get help at the right time . After years we can say I can pay you or I have done this in return for the help you did for me.
But is that ethical or moral. I always feel to get helped at that particular moment is very very important . Because many a times I feel if someone had helped me , I could have done this ...For any human being. May be if that person was not available or didnt raise his or her hand for help we might not be in a position later to say I can return your favour .
So for me , I believe favour or help in a life taking moment can never be repaid. We remain committed to the human being who gave us the wings to live .
I saw a lot of people telling now Jhanak is free of ehasan. For the beautiful soul she is I dont think she will feel free from his ehsaan.And also him saying I dont want anything for myself shows ,how he consider that whatever he did to her was selfless not expecting that in future I will ask to return it. He too remains committed to her for saving his life from Tejas . He asking her to lose the competition is disgraceful to him and I dont defend him in this at all. But regarding helping when it was most needed , my thoughts are different .
Mayaโฆ
That dialogue by Jhanak was very intentionally placed thereโฆby the writers. I will try to explain this as best as I can..
This is the time for progression for the titular character and the deliverance from the moral dilemma will largely come through her only largely
Yesterday, one of the forum members asked an interesting question about Jhanakโs volte face from the didi jhaap and I wrote that these is one of the layers peeling off from Jhanakโs mind.
The narrative had to get her to the stage where she is confident in refusing something asked of her and thatโs what she is at now. No way could she have done this while at BH, she had to feel confident in her own boots to be able to do that. Jhanak has confronted Arshi in the past also giving her honest answers including when asked about does she love Sirjee. Accepting in all but the most direct way that she loves Sirjee. Yet, she always understood the maryada of their relationship and never felt she could cross it. Some boundaries were crossed in Kashmir in the heat of the moment but Jhanakโ was steadfast in her belief that peace would be destroyed if anything came of it. However Jhanak wasnโt expecting Ani to throw that relationship at her face in that manner especially after the confession in Kashmir. Jhanak knew that Ani loves her and had known for a while and so this vehemence in Ani upset her. Yet she stayed on in BH in that state of deep sadness and got in the end nothing but pain from the evil clan but most importantly her Sirjee.
That she owes nothing to Shristi and Arshi which was imposed on her through their relationship was brought home by her final departure from BH. Yesterday she proved through her words that expect nothing from me if itโs for her/them.
However , I donโt think many made the connection that Jhanak clearly made the distinction between Ani and Arshi in this request. Also not many made the distinction that Ani himself never said yeh main apne liye maang raha hoon kyunki Arshi meri biwi hain . Sochega padiโฆ both have kept Arshi as a separate entity even while calling Arshi Aniโs biwi? Yeh rishta kya kehlata hain?
I know your post is about can this be considered a quid pro quo? No, it is not but as Jhanak has no other relationship of claim with Ani itโs not wrong entirely of her to say that if thereโs a way I could help you I would.In matters of the heart one canโt keep scores and this will be more and more evident as Jhanak and Ani will continue to do things for each other.
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