Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 53 - Page 14

Originally posted by: hellodona

How does it matter if he gets accused of drugging her. He can just explain why giving her drugs was necessary the same way he is explaining why slapping her was right.

Can you please quote him saying where he explained why slapping her was right ? Because he never said anything like that.

Infact he pretty much owned up his mistake from the get go. Yes he didn't do anything after admitting his mistake but even Sahiba didn't want to talk to him or see his face. So what exactly is he supposed to do ? If you may suggest.

Also , he didn't say anything when family members were blaming Sahiba only for divorce because he still believes that it was Sahiba who wanted to break their marriage first. They never talked with each other or communicated to clear the MU and that part is both of their faults. If a couple doesn't talk to clear air of course people like Seerat will take advantage of the situation.

Sahiba khud bhi to kehe sakti thi , that it's Angad who filed for divorce and made her sign the papers. She could've infact used that chance to say she doesn't want to divorce Angad . That's all the sign he needed .

His family and mother kept bad mouthing her even after he brought Sahiba back. But Angad knows their marriage is practically over , signed off and everything, all that is remained is a mandatory formality period . So it shouldn't affect Sahiba right what his family members say ?? They're not her in laws anymore.

As long as they leave her alone ( which they'd every intention to do if Seerat hadn't done the entire drug drama ) what they think or say about her doesn't affect her life anymore. Manveer infact said , " We're not interested about her." It's not like they were harassing her in his absence. They were pretty much ignoring her existence and would've done so for the next 6 months.

So basically the only thing that could stress her at this point is Keerat and Veer matter , which he was trying to solve. He was pretty much the only one.

after whats happened between Veer and Keerat theres no question of solving the matter or reducing the stress of Sahiba because her sisters marriage is anyway broken, her sister will now have that broken marriage label on her forever and life will be difficult. So its immaterial what Angad does. Unless he once again forces Veerat marriage despite what has happened like he did in Gary Seerat situation.

So, by logic , Angad is wrong in keeping Seerat inside the BM, but Sahiba isn't for repeatedly drinking the water Seerat " especially " brought for her and exclusively delivered to her , even after she started showing symptoms?? 🙄

She knows well what her sister is capable of doing and how much she despises Sahiba , but she's not at fault for trusting her blindly ( because uski badi behen hai ) , but Angad was at fault for not immediately believing Sahiba's words over Veer's without any proof ?

All I'm saying is , of course Angad is a flawed character but we also have such exaggerated and super human expectations from him while having no expectations from anyone else . Because of his flaws , others should not have a leeway for their lack of decisiveness and inaction.

Even if they don't have his power ( money or manpower ) , his position of authority and his level of trust and love from both Brars and Mongas, they can still work at their level.

No one needs Angad's level of money or power to contact the hotel for cctv footage or file a J.D . All they need is a good lawyer and the willingness to punish the wrong doer. No one needs his level of power to call a cab and go home when situation takes a steep downhill turn, all they need is an ounce of common sense , which I admit, ITV FLs always lacked.

Heroes are egoistic, male chauvinistic and jerks , heroines are world changers, nosy , egoistic and dumb .

It was so during the K telly soaps of Ekta days . It is the same now.

each time Angad has owned up to his deed- he says it was "uintentional" which is basically him making excuses. An apology or repentance is not genuine and means nothing if it comes with excuses and disclaimers.

Uske fake sorry ka kya achar dalegi Sahiba?!

even if Sahiba forgets the slap, theres enough else he has done which is completely unpardonable.

Sahiba refused to sign divorce papers but he FORCED her to sign and then he stayed quiet when she was accused of initiating everything. why should she bother to defend herself to people she doesnt care about. She has returned only to serve out the 6 month court order.

She has not even been given basic dignity - and made to live in servant quarters but she has accepted it because she just wants to get it over with.

Never in the entire history of the show has Sahiba meted out the cruelty she has been served by others in her life. She has always forgiven, been the bigger person and tried to maintain peace.

When she first left, she made it amply clear that it was because of Seerat but Angad still allowed Seerat to parade around as his +1 and redecorate his room as per her tastes and berate Sahiba in front of him and interfere between husband-wife and this time also she begged Angad to understand her motivations even if he doesnt agree with it. She wasnt expecting him to forget everything, but she just wanted him to stop raging and let things go instead of letting his anger cloud his mind and affect his mental and physical health. but he decided that his wife is his slave who needs to do his bidding and he was manhandling her because she had her own opinion.

When Angad lets off criminals- its fine and its his dil ki acchai but if Sahiba does the same- then Angads gussa is valid and she is stupid- what kind of argument is that?!

Sahiba has done her level best to communicate with Angad but he always shuns her, abuses her but then suddenly one fine day he will decide he wants to talk and Sahiba has to be there to accept that. why?!

Before the Seerat MU, Sahiba begged him to trust her instinct and trusted him to handle it because he said so, but he failed her.

During the Gary MU now, she begged him to listen but he shunned her and accused her despite knowing that its because of Sahiba he wasnt languishing in jail and he had a roof over his head. If she hadnt taken Gary's help they would be on the street. So his fake bravado that he can handle things is all BS.

he has the power even now to ensure that Gary has no claim on property, business and get him arrested. He can throw Seerat out- she's no longer bahu and he knows she is upto no good, he can expose Veer's kaand to his own family first instead of pretending to be very insaaf-pasand, he can speak up about the fact that it is HE who initiated divorce proceedings- but he wont do any of that because he doesnt have the courage to own up to his decisions.

Sahiba is the one who has lived in store-room , tolerated drunk misbehavior and now slap, money being thrown at her face, being taunted for her looks or status, barred from working, had her shop burned down, had her own sister plot to end her marriage and now her life, had her parents make her bali ka bakra when Seerat screwed up, tolerated a pscyho stalker and is now living in servant quarters and is being drugged

Angad on the other hand has been treated as raja beta. The only respite audience has had to see him punished has been the time when he was assumed guilty for Sahiba being dead and Sunny sood kaand and then he got some joote-chappal, police ki pitai. But otherwise his image has been of raja beta who can do no wrong. Even in all these situations where he has "suffered" some punishment he has always had the support of his family and of Sahiba too whereas Sahiba has always had to fight a lone battle. Whenever Angad has been on sahiba's side also he has made her do all the heavy lifting and walked away with the credit and Sahiba with blame. Everytime Angad has stepped up to "help" Sahiba it has actually been to save his own ass or his own image. It has never been genuine except the Simran hospital track where he genuinely looked like he was in love. but that was so long ago. Everything he has done after dilutes the impact of that track because a man who loves his wife would not mistrust or disrespect her to this degree. He saved her from Rumi but his own life was on the line- if Sahiba wasnt saved, he'd never prove himself innocent.

Angad is so inhumane thats its impossible to understand or justify his "majburis" to do crap.

Originally posted by: hellodona

Mongas are not doubting Keerat. Angad should have exposed his brother to his family who doubts Sahiba but I guess not a big matter for him. Obviously Veer neither slept with Seerat nor did he throw money on his mumma.

I get it..when Angad can forcefully try to sleep with Sahiba and never apologize why should rules be harsher for his baby brother. When he sees nothing wrong with slapping Sahiba and not trusting her even now , obviously Veer gets coddled by Angad.

If he'd exposed Veer in front of the Brars first , they'd have protected and defended Veer and believed his version of the story. So what'd that achieved ? Plus all these is happening very fast , it's not like many days passed N he showed no intention to reveal to his family.

Mongas could just go the Brars and tell them see this is the truth of your son. Who's stopping them ? It'd have put Angad in a situation where he'd be directly under cross fire and must pick a side . But they didn't. Ofcourse they didn't.

That's what I meant when I'm talking about lack of initiative and indecisiveness.

Angad was drunk and heart broken when he tried to sleep with Sahiba N it happened ages ago. Lots of water passed under the bridge since then and both of them went through a lot for eo and had changes of heart. It still doesn't make it right but it is not at all the same thing as what happened to Keerat.

If my sister was standing with a match in her hand and my husband was trying to stop me from diffusing such a situation and infact escalate it, I'd have thrown him across the room without a second thought. He asked her to stop many many times before that.

Originally posted by: DanmeiLover

All I'm saying is , of course Angad is a flawed character but we also have such exaggerated and super human expectations from him while having no expectations from anyone else . Because of his flaws , others should not have a leeway for their lack of decisiveness and inaction.

Even if they don't have his power ( money or manpower ) , his position of authority and his level of trust and love from both Brars and Mongas, they can still work at their level.

No one needs Angad's level of money or power to contact the hotel for cctv footage or file a J.D . All they need is a good lawyer and the willingness to punish the wrong doer. No one needs his level of power to call a cab and go home when situation takes a steep downhill turn, all they need is an ounce of common sense , which I admit, ITV FLs always lacked.

Heroes are egoistic, male chauvinistic and jerks , heroines are world changers, nosy , egoistic and dumb .

It was so during the K telly soaps of Ekta days . It is the same now.

@bold couldn't agree more, if every show them perfect how will they run Daily soaps??? I guess some how these days Writers/ creative teams are just lazy to come up with balance tracks.or Lazy to execute what they have written with strong note not to jump into another one.

they started very high notes and ended up leaving loopholes because of channel / PH's greedy nature for TRPs.

Sahiba doesnt know she has "symptoms". she must also be thinking for the few minutes she is lucid that she is just too stressed out and thats why she is feeling abnormal. she has not been lucid for long enough to actually realize she is being drugged or that she may be sick and she needs medical help.

And why would she think her sister is out to kill her?! she knows Seerat is selfish but she doesnt think she'd want her dead especially when divorce with Angad is already happening and thats what Seerat has wanted.

Why should Sahiba bring evidence of assault. She was merely there to end the marriage of Veer and Keerat and then figure out next steps. The decision of whether to file a complaint would have eventually been made but before that she has been slapped and divorce drama is out in open and Keerat has decided not to pursue anything. So when marriage is over and Keerat is not pressing charges, why is Angad doing nautanki of finding truth and forcing Veer to apologize?! uss seh kya hojayega. marriage is still over- both Veers and his own.

If he's going through all this trouble of so-called truth hunting then he either should genuinely support truth coming out in front of all and victim getting justice or do nothing! whats the point of a half assed attempt which is going to achieve nothing.

People have always had expectations from only Sahiba in the plot. but when we see Angad become a hardcore villain, a wife-beater and that is called out, suddenly the defense is that arey,but everyone else also is problematic. so why keep expectations only on Angad.

Originally posted by: arnavkushi14

for this crappy episode, they have delayed episode airing. Anyway, get ready for the downfall of TRP. What a crappy writers and creative team they have 💦💦💦who are high on drugs while writing and executing episodes

seerat has to get punished this time Whoever gave drugs has to get the punishment this PH writers team have let the molestation issue lightly by diverting to leads slap/ divorce and now Hallucinations. What a tremendous cheap team they have 💦💦no morals ethics

They trivialized the matter entirely. They could have sent a good message by showing the victim and her family taking some steps on their own . Getting a written medical record pf her bruises ( it should be done immediately and is admissible at court in a case of SA. ) , filing J.D, going to lawyer.

Bit look at every one talking about the matter as if do bachhon ki fight huyi ho .

Angad has done enough crap that Sahiba has no reason to trust him or talk calmly to him or count on him to handle the situation

She had one agenda- end the marriage and walk out with her sister. thats it.

and he didnt accidentally shove her aside, he deliberately slapped her with so much force.

And now his regret is anything but genuine.

he has crossed all limits of physical and emotional abuse meted out to his wife.