Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 51 - Page 150

Originally posted by: shanakanj

The problem in TMD is that they have been adding MUs but none of them is getting revealed and if revealed then brushed under carpets. I do not think freelance project will be revealed. After all MUs the final decision was by sahiba for divorce. So now the main issue for triggering divorce is Slap and rest whatever has been done by Angad is burried. Same happened in proposal track. Sahiba will be continuously blamed and will not utter a single word against angad.

What i see Veer kaands will be revealed and thats the only khulasa will happen as they have to whitewash Angad.

Veer - Keerat opened about thappad but why she did not disclose about the molestation. If she can open mouth abut veer then why not about his heinous act. The only thing i can see is sahiba blame. I hope either veer karname should get revealed fast or he does the kaand bcoz i am not interested to see same old blame and hall drama and also the nok jhonk of sahan. I want to se eonly tashan no nok jhonk non sense.

I get your point Shanakanj ji. But revealing about molestation is not as easy as telling someone about the slap. It's kinda difficult. That's a very private thing right... As in these people touch you.. And you feel dirty inside out... It's a weird feeling... The shock stays on for days.. And then it scars you... You have to slowly build up the courage to expose ur perpetrator.

Bold: True. And even now he is not fully aware of what he's done to her.

Originally posted by: Anu_02

realistic kya h 😂😂😂dhoka dekar Bhai k sath bhaagne waali k sapne kon pura karta h agar real hota to us waqt angad ko seerat se pyar dikhaya gaya tha jab seerat isko mili tab ye sahiba ko divorce dekar ussey shadi kar leta

Nahi balki jab fraud ka pta chla tha usi waqt inko jail Kara dete naaki shadi

Ye h reality

Garry jail mein hota or veer k against complaint file hoti or bhabhi k shadi shadi announce kon karta h beta shadi shuda hotye huey bhi 😂😂😂

Or sabse badi baat itne kaand karne k baad bhi MU saamne aane par ho seerat jaise ko ghar se out kar diya jata nakai puttar beti bana lete 😂😂

Ismein sirf illogical cheezey h reality kuch bhi nahi

Bas criminal nd evil ki jeet dikhayi jaati h or FL ko itna abuse Kiya jata h vo bhi bina kisi logic k sach samane aatye huey bhi sab but banke khadey koi kuch nahi bolta angad k hath mein sab h vo sabke faisle karta h jo MU is show mein dikahyi h vo real mein koi bhi baat karke solve kar leta h usi waqt log poochtye h tum wahan kyun Gaye or kya kar rahey they anagd sahiba ko follow Kiya usi waqt lawyer k office mein jaakr sawal karta

😂😂😂😂

Ismein ek percent bhi reality nahi h

Warna anagd or uski family jail mein hotye

Hahhaa, agreed on the drama quotient they show - that is far from reality, aise sab ulte kaam sirf aise serial mein dikhaate hai, but I was more talking about the mental and physical abuse they are showing. The reactions of Brar family are similar to what happens in some families - saying that thappad galti se hua and all. Baaki sab is of course fiction and just for drama.

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Move to next EDT plz

Originally posted by: Athz

Maan... I don't get this show. If you look at it without any expectations... With a cleared mind... Currently, Barring a few stupidities, and if you take just Angad, Sahiba and their families , it kinda depicts an average Indian household. So, from Angads and familys POV they are right.. And they are no villains.. Just like how many of the husband and in laws think. Now Sahiba and family is going through horrible things and from their POV they are right... And of course they are the better lot. So they aren't really giving a context for morally good or bad people here... I feel like they have left it for us to decide 🤔🤔... But then are they trying to justify Angad... I am so confused... What do you think?

Today when I watched Ajith's part when he said ke yeh log apne beto ki galtiyaan kabhi nahi maante, And Saheba's quite reaction to it was so true. This is indeed a story of an average indian household(SOME) where ML & in laws believe that they are never wrong especially when they belong to an upper strata of society. Where a husband can mercilessly beat his wife anytime because he thinks it is his right too.

The same thing is repeated here Angad slapped Saheba because he feels he is an alpha male who can never be wrong, and it is his right too. It is clear that Angad's characterization has completely changed. He does not even care about Saheba, love nowhere comes near.

He was shocked with the slap as he lost control in front of the entire family, but he has always abused her in private. He does not have any regrets and I am sure we might get more justification of the slap by Angad and his family in the upcoming episodes.

So now I am watching this show keeping my beliefs aside that Angad-Saheba are Rab ne banadi jodi and he would protect her or love her, So keeping these thoughts aside and rather believing what my eyes see that Angad would rather blame Saheba for that slap, accuse her with his regular baseless accusations, mentally torture her and may be slap her again. In my opinion Angad is now essaying a role of a typical wife-beater, who can physically abuse his wife any time, slap her or beat her with his belt, berate her, throw insulting remarks on her in front of his family. And only in that case I am able to detach myself from this violent show and would manage to finally quit watching the show.

PS : I am not instigating anybody; this is my just my view after that slap and Angad shifting the entire blame on Saheba of wanting the divorce whereas he was completely at fault. Furthermore, Angad kept quite when his family blamed Saheba for hiding about the divorce and doing all those rituals where in real it was Angad who wanted to hide and Saheba wanted to reveal the truth.

Now if Saheba goes back to BM, more abuse will happen, may be now Manbeer will also slap her along with Angad, as the whole family has a criminal mentality.Colored Text

Originally posted by: N_n_n_n

They r justifying molesters, abusers, criminals and crimes.

I get ur point of avg Indian household where sons are always right and daughter in laws are always wrong. family and specially mother in law only favour son no matter whose mistake it is. that's average. but what it doesn't make average is showing crime like kidnapping, child trafficking, women abuse, molestation, ema between family members and domestic violence. they are not part of avg Indian households which is depicted in this show

Yes.. Yes. I was talking about the current track mainly. But yaa makes sense. As I confessed before.. my judgement is clouded by confusion now.

Average toxic household Anupama main hai. Shahs. Saari bahuon ka jeena kharap kar dete. Aur toxic upbringing ki wajah se sab bachhe bhi toxic.

Another exaggerated one, Saathiya. Kokila had same yardstick for both bahus and Ahem bhi Kokila ka victim tha.

Agar jyaada realistic representation chahiye toh Mann ki awaz Pratigya , Maryada, Nimki Mukhiya dekhlo.

Itv shows real life nahi hoti. Lekin agar hoti bhi toh nothing realistic about Seerat jaisi behen and the love Bears have for her, especially the respect she gets from a man she cheated, Angad.

But if we draw comparison to real life.

Gul shows show a man abuses woman due to mu, changes with time and loves her dearly.

However realistically if you tolerate abuse the abuse will only get worse which is exactly what is being shown in Tmd. Angad has become worse and worse because yeah a leopard doesn't change its spots.

And my whole issue with focus on slap was yes it gives perfect cover up for all other terrible things Angad has done to Sahiba, apologise for one thing and instant whitewash for million other things too.

Originally posted by: hellodona

I view Angad as an abuser not because of slap but because of back to back countless things he has done. Especially him throwing out the woman who got him his home , got him out of jail , dragging her for divorce and countless other things he did. Not just this (which is very wrong but not worse than the things he did before). But is being used to whitewash him.

I doubt makers believe this is how normal families act. Because no normal regressive family would Suck the life out of one bahu after she helps them so much while act like the other one is Mukesh Ambani. I don't think any sane man exists jisse kuchh samajh nahi aata and usska blame goes onto wife.

Idk I can't justify anything about Angad's character even if draw parallels to real life except the fact that he is a morally bankrupt man who assaults wife and is thankless. This statement would remain true had he not slapped Sahiba too. (However one thing that stood out apart from Bears being trash is Angad asking Garry Keerat about their hug, mind you he has hugged his ex bhabi as a nasamajh jeth 60000000 times ) .

Anyways I expect fictional heroes to at least have a moral standing. He has none. Like someone said he only does right thing when he has exhausted every possible way of doing the wrong things.

Be it how he treated Sahiba pre and immediately post marriage, be it letting Sahiba go to school only after he burned her shop, be it abusing Sahiba for his client being a harasser, be it letting a kid Simran get abused by mom and bhabi and defending them, be it hiding every illicit encounter with bhabi and accusing wife later, be it his behaviour since Rumi got arrested till he saw a way Sahiba could acting help him out of mess of his own doing, be it his absolutely thankless and despicable behaviour from getting his house back till now. 0 moral backbone, not a single quality worthy of being called a hero.

Hmmm makes sense.

P. S: Don't get me wrong.. Wasn't supporting Angad from any angle. After watching yesterday's episode I have started seeing him as a conservative Indian husband with truckloads of ego, superior complex and gaslighting ability. I don't see him as Angad Or the hero anymore. Even if I want to.. I'll not be able to. Before I used to cringe when he stood next to Seerat, now I cringe when I see him and Sahiba together. Specially when he held her hand and pulled her... I was disgusted. He still thinks he has a right over her and can manhandle her. These kind of men will never change, specially when they have a mother like Manbeer, who encourages them to be what they are.

Originally posted by: Nia_d

Indeed, they've made a caricature of Angad's character. One would think that a successful businessman like him would have reasonable acumen, open mindset, analytical mind, proper reasoning, and a balanced view - but his kneejerk reaction is mostly about doubting anything that doesn't match his truth. However, when Sahiba does present the truth, he hardly ever believes her unless there's some solid proof; so much for his 'bharosa' on her.

And he tormented her for an entire track saying she never trusted him. Seriously?!

Originally posted by: Reader17

Today when I watched Ajith's part when he said ke yeh log apne beto ki galtiyaan kabhi nahi maante, And Saheba's quite reaction to it was so true. This is indeed a story of an average indian household(SOME) where ML & in laws believe that they are never wrong especially when they belong to an upper strata of society. Where a husband can mercilessly beat his wife anytime because he thinks it is his right too.

The same thing is repeated here Angad slapped Saheba because he feels he is an alpha male who can never be wrong, and it is his right too. It is clear that Angad's characterization has completely changed. He does not even care about Saheba, love nowhere comes near.

He was shocked with the slap as he lost control in front of the entire family, but he has always abused her in private. He does not have any regrets and I am sure we might more justification of the slap by Angad and his family in the upcoming episodes.

So now I am watching this show keeping my beliefs aside that Angad-Saheba are Rab ne banadi jodi and he would protect her or love her, So keeping these thoughts aside and rather believing what my eyes see that Angad would rather blame Saheba for that slap, accuse her with his regular baseless accusations, mentally torture her and may be slap her again. In my opinion Angad is now essaying a role of a typical wife-beater, who can physically abuse his wife any time, slap her or beat her with his belt, berate her, throw insulting remarks on her in front of his family. And only in that case I am able to detach myself from this violent show and would manage to finally quit watching the show.

PS : I am not instigating anybody; this is my just my view after that slap and Angad shifting the entire blame on Saheba of wanting the divorce whereas he was completely at fault. Furthermore, Angad kept quite when his family blamed Saheba for hiding about the divorce and doing all those rituals where in real it was Angad who wanted to hide and Saheba wanted to reveal the truth.

Now if Saheba goes back to BM, more abuse will happen, may be now Manbeer will also slap her along with Angad, as the whole family has a criminal mentality.

You've conveyed things so beautifully ♥️.

Bold: Same same. Even if we wanted to we won't be able to view Angad as Angad.. U knw what I mean. For me he is just another entitled and spoilt rich brat who is making his wifes life a living hell. The precap was disgusting... And I didn't see a guilty or sad Angad. I saw a villain there.

Originally posted by: hellodona

Average toxic household Anupama main hai. Shahs. Saari bahuon ka jeena kharap kar dete. Aur toxic upbringing ki wajah se sab bachhe bhi toxic.

Another exaggerated one, Saathiya. Kokila had same yardstick for both bahus and Ahem bhi Kokila ka victim tha.

Agar jyaada realistic representation chahiye toh Mann ki awaz Pratigya , Maryada, Nimki Mukhiya dekhlo.

Itv shows real life nahi hoti. Lekin agar hoti bhi toh nothing realistic about Seerat jaisi behen and the love Bears have for her, especially the respect she gets from a man she cheated, Angad.

But if we draw comparison to real life.

Gul shows show a man abuses woman due to mu, changes with time and loves her dearly.

However realistically if you tolerate abuse the abuse will only get worse which is exactly what is being shown in Tmd. Angad has become worse and worse because yeah a leopard doesn't change its spots.

And my whole issue with focus on slap was yes it gives perfect cover up for all other terrible things Angad has done to Sahiba, apologise for one thing and instant whitewash for million other things too.

He hasn't even apologized... And I don't even think he will. His mumma is supporting her Raja beta too. And if he was really sorry, he wouldn't touch Sahiba again without her permission. But yaah.. hed be whitewashed soon.