Originally posted by: rushi1981
I would like to disagree with this.. You are more than welcome to dear, we live in a world where we are entitled to our own opinions, as long as I don't push my opinion to you and you don't to me! All we can strive to do is give our 'take' on how we perceive a certain matter to be 
the problem is not about anii not remembering anything abt that night..The problem begins right there,coz a period of time has been completely wiped out from memory! And his character has been questioned. He has not been shown to be a casanova, womaniser kinda person, but has always maintained safe distance , barring a couple of occasions where he bhavnao mein baho'ed !
or having a relationship with AK..
the problem lies with anii character assasinating jhanak after getting the news..
Keeping the blame game aside and who is more right or who is more wrong here, qki iss discussion ka koi aant toh hai nehi, I can safely conclude that - pyar koi khel nehi !
So if you treat it as a game of ego and one-upmanship, you will never be together coz your premise itself is so wrong!
And that is what both of them have done - Ani with his Anishi PDA and then J with her subtle PDA with AK !
If we have followed Ani's character from the beginning, he is territorial when it comes to his J! And I have said this before n I say this again, insecurity and jealousy comes naturally with unrequitted, one-sided, ek-tarfa pyar. He has been shown to be mis-trusting of J always, and it will unfortunately be the case be it 1 yr or 10yrs, until a proper love confession happens between the two - his 1st bout being when he came to know about Rahul from Shrishti, to the AK fiasco in the hotel! Every single time J chose to not clear his mis-conception ,on the contrary have said things like ha jo meri marzi main karungi, good on her, I agree, why should she offer an explanation?
The down side to it though is, Ani Bose as a character is lame when it comes to judging people. Ise insaan o ki parakh nehi hai ! So although he apologises for his mis-behaviour after the hotel incident, the apology is not at a result of his MU about AK and J relation being cleared!
Ani Bose is plain insecure of any living young adult males around J ! Usse lagta hai, either J is too naive and will fall into their trap or simply she can do with out such male attention !
Toh Rahul se shaadi bhi dil pe patthar rakh ke fix ki thi coz he thought J loved Rahul ! Woha bhi J did not clear his mis-conception and almost shaadi ke mandap tak jake hi J said clearly - I do not love Rahul , word by word by word - loud and clear !
Then in Mumbai, Ani warns her repeatedly that AK's intentions are not good, stay away from him ! J asked him to get out from her hotel room and said her rishta with AK has "badlo'ed" , Ani sees them together and concludes "mujhe samajh mein aa gaya hai ki Adi ne meri jaghah puri tarhah se le li hai" .
Despite hearing maine aapko million times thukraya hai, he runs to tend to her, when he hears she has fainted, only to find J telling him that AK can apply the band aid and if I need anything AK is there to support me. You can get out! If one thing Ani cannot stand, it is him not being able to take care of his J, while some one else does the honors in front of his eyes !
In short, there is no smoke with out fire. Now one fine morning, she comes and claims that Ani is her child's father, he is using the information he has in front of him, to clear up the puzzle pieces ! Coz J has convinced him to believe that she is in a relationship with AK , with her words! Ek haath se taali na bajti !
And J's subtle PDA with AK , is coz she is abhimaani, she cannot bear to hear Sirji link any one else's name with her - so this is her way to protest and avenge Ani's idiocy ! But isse gaddha zarur aur deep khoda hai!
Not to forget AK's manipulation of Ani's mind where AK projects he will now win J !
There is one solution - if J tells him on his face, that she loves him, things will change for the better for RuNak, but that's not gonna happen !
One other solution - J concludes Ani is not the right fit for her (qki what we want would not matter, what J wants would- her life after all), J genuinely moves on and basayos her ghar with Ak. Team Jhaadi zindabad ! But RuNak kamine itne hai, ki yeh bhi na hoga inse ! Do no jalte rahenge, aag mein sulagte rehenge, mann mein izhar aur muh parinkaar karte rahenge but aise hi ladte marte saath pare huye paye jayenge
As for Ani and all the sufferings he deserves, is mein bhi haar do no ki hogi ! And ek ko suffer karte dekh dusra khush nehi rahe payega ! They are weirdly do jism ek jaan !
And best we leave them to it , aapas mein nipat le, meri bala se ! In ki apni alag ajeebsa tuning hai, where they understand eo on a different level. How else did she remain in love and was so jealous of Anishi during Arshi's ashirwad ceremony? Right after the CA that he did on the road , after the AK - J modellig hotel fiasco?
not once he tried to ask jhanak what happened that day..how it happened n tried to recollect.. J did a complete run down of what happened that night between them and why it happened. He was not in a state to process , neither her accusations nor her recount, his mind was too fogged !The other encounter where they met one on one, Ani offered J a ride back home, J denied and the tussle ensued , itne tu tu main main mein suljha huya baat kaun kahe aur kaun hi sune !
He directly started accusing jhanak of trying to frame him with such a big thing..he has lived with jhanak for 1 year..doesnt he know jhanak never lies..let alone framing anyone
J never lies? Really? On the contrary, she is lying about the biggest truth of her life - the fact that she 'loves' Ani. With maine apse kabhi pyar nehi kiya hai and apko million times thukraya hai ! When you are not even imaandar to your own self, reason could be , you are worried about the home-wrecker tag or whateva, how do you expect RuNak to be ever built? You have neither intent nor interest? But you are rightfully jealous after pushing Sirji to Arshi didi. Woha bhi you are not honest, honest hoti toh dono ke liye khush hoti, jealous nehi
But this Lalon situation, could draw up a parallel in Ani's eye, may be Leena brought this in here, to show Ani the mirror- who knows ?
Moreover, the audacity to think Jhanak must hv crossed line with ak..even after staying with jhanak for a year..doesnt he know that J has never let him come close to her even after they were married to ak ko kaise allow karegi..???
True, in the same breath it is unbelievable for him , to think that J crossed the line with him, when he was not in his senses ! He cannot fathom J doing it ! It is impossible for her ! She has never given him any reason to think, that she could crave for his intimacy, ever!
Ulta she has given him reason to think, J craves to spend some alone time with AK , which is why she had asked him to get out of the hotel room and the grapevine is ripe with AK and J moving in and living together ! AK has stated he had be elated if J moves in with him !
This felt like the same fire incident where he actually though that J might be responsbile for arshi fire accident..Jhanak tried to kill arshii..No one who knows Jhanak well like choton, bodomaa, appu n jehtu had a doubt on Jhanak..nut aniii didnt showed any trust on her.. The said characters do not have a stake at all, when it comes to the matters of the heart ! Usually people behave the way they do, based on what is at stake! I could argue that I have seen the same Ani, never feel an ounce of jealousy or insecurity when it comes to Arshi ! Jaha pyar nehi, woha insecurity kaisi? With pyar hudd paar, comes the other aspects !
So yes we all know Anii loves Jhanak..but love also demands trust n respect n thats where anii falters majorly 'Love' and 'Trust' are two separate things - only when you have a good mix of both does a relationship thrive ! A big reason, why RuNak is where they are, due to both their love and trust being weak !
It gives a third person and a fourth person, to jump right in, manipulate / kaan bharo and toy with them ! A love and trust this weak, will never stand the test of time ! Which is why I call them the Jhand Couple, apne aur humare life ko jhand kar di 
It will take a sea change, huge character development from both these characters, to overcome their shortcomings and build RuNak up !
Dibya and Jiya, I have tagged you two here, as wanted to respond to all your responses to my post at one go
....bs leena ab or koi kaand na krde iska bhrosa nhi kr skti mein ek din jisko positive dikhati dusre din usse hi glti krvake villain bna deti
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