Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae
I am not opposing her fight ....
But it could have been avoided if she had not become Mahan by signing the annulment after intimacy eth your husband and quite bad that it was she who said " kal subah Sirji will forget" ...
Mayaโฆ not signing the annulment wasnโt an option for her at that stage of pda charam seem ( even if self induced) ๐๐
So if she was not pregnant , she was ok with this incident ....she would be happy in life thinking she sacrificed for Sirji ...That being shown and now making her think Sirj cheated her and making him look like a culprit is bad for men too .
Hmmm Actually if I recall she was confident that Sirjee would accept the baby so her aggression actually came after the unfortunate โDonโt talk to meโ and subsequent micro aggressions from Aniโs side too..
Chalo , now what happened cant be reversed . She came for her baby right . Good , that has to be done. She has to gight for the baby. Then make him remember infront of everyone the incidents why show him as he cheated her. She is the one who knew about his fever .
Here I am completely with you. The dialogues arenโt at all sensible for either especially hers. She knew he may not recall or letโs say she misunderstood, wouldnโt it be more sensible of her to goad him to recollect the night of fever so that other mahanubhavs can put 2 and 2 together instead of this Haq business.
What do you expect as a reaction from a man when you insult him in public and give him lectures about acceptance ,validation , and I rejected you so many times, suddenly comes up and claims I am pregnant . She has done his CA several times in the past when he was taking care if her. The worst she has compared him to Tejas a womaniser. So cant he think she is trying to frame me ,defame me . He is trying to defend himself . His dignity , his self respect. Why is he being blamed???
Here I slightly different perspectiveโฆ yes she has used words that have been provocative on several occasions. Most of them justified in the script (except that safe one) because she hadnโt cottoned on to what Sirjee was doing for her. She was very conflicted by his words and deeds and used to lash out to make sense of whatโs happening. Also her own heart falling for Sirjee also had a part to play and so a lot of what she used to say would naturally look hypocritical. But if you see gradually she understood and her acceptance grew and she became more stoic and by the time she left for Kashmir they had a beautiful understanding between them with both pining for eo but in uniquely different ways. Her biggest transgression happened after she came to Bh from Kashmir recently. She neednโt have threatened Sirjee into staying with Arshi leaving it to his judgement so those words looked so out of place ( woh kis side bhi shaadi kare ya nahin kare tumhe kya but wohi baat hain she may have been worried about her reputation) but the cross to bear would be Ani still as he is the one committed to Arshi not J. As for her harsh words at the party, we can differ on why the need for a set of words and the reaction. He flew off the handle so did sheโฆ.For me Ani flying off the handle on a spilled plate was pure genius of writing ( even though when I first read the update I was livid) He was so controlled throughout though internally seething and like a pressure cooker he blasted offโฆ ( not justified but understandable) I found writing for that scene by a person who has understood Ani really well. Now coming to Jโs reparteeโฆ well that was reaction to that silly outburst but we know she was reacting to Aniโs private outburst to her within that public domain; she knew he was angry with her about Adi and she chose to go for the jugular with the million times speech. Was it justified? Hmmm strictly not as the the private meaning of their spat wasnโt public yet she chose to publicly tell him off not for the outburst but for past and present grievances as she has by then had it with him and his shenanigansโฆ leave it people to decide who stands whereโฆ.
That is where I have an issue . Its shown as men can be subjected to anything , just because its a man !!!!
Important point and I have explained this below in greater detail
And she can stay somewhere else and come when the time she can do DNA test .Why is she staying in the same house and taking all the insults, why is she taking decisions and involving in their family matters ...
Fight for the baby in a dignified way....I am not against her haq ki ladai , but the way shown is that men cheats or used girls .Men do have their self respect and dignity same as a female .
The entire plot can be written and execute much better showing both of the subject to the situation and not just making female lead shout and play victim card . Men also need empowerment when they are targetted.
Not against women who fight for their rights in real life too.
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