Anu kyun nahi luta ti pyaar Adhya pe? - Page 2

Originally posted by: carecar

Yeah but every kid has a parent figure except Adhya. And every kid is still getting anupamaa's affection except Adhya.

Already pakhi and toshu are ruined because they didn't get good upbringing from anupama , and now adhya is on the same track. Adopted or own , every kid deserves to be scolded whenever they do something wrong , otherwise they tend to continue as uncivilised humans.

Jahaan parents ka pyaar hota hai wahan daant bhi padti hai. Adhya isn't even OK with being scolded from anupama , how on earth can she expect any other form of parental interaction from anupama's side.

I dunno that is for a mother to figure out how to love her child well and be parent to her. A mother daughter bond is visible, their chemistry always catches attention. Anupamaa ne jab Adhya ko bachaya tha where is that kinda onscreen proximity vanished. And its not about hugging and being close, its the unsaid thing that one feels right away between a parent and a kid.

Example : Ishita Ruhi

Anuj Adhya ka dikh jata hai. Anupamaa Adhya ka nahi dikhta. Issliye I said anupamaa kyun effort nahi leti to bond with her kid.

Babe you adopted her, no one forced you. Just because your two kids were losers, you can't be ignorant towards a child you decided to be reponsible for out of your own damn choice.

Originally posted by: carecar

I dunno that is for a mother to figure out how to love her child well and be parent to her. A mother daughter bond is visible, their chemistry always catches attention. Anupamaa ne jab Adhya ko bachaya tha where is that kinda onscreen proximity vanished. And its not about hugging and being close, its the unsaid thing that one feels right away between a parent and a kid. Anuj Adhya ka dikh jata hai. Anupamaa Adhya ka nahi dikhta. Issliye I said anupamaa kyun effort nahi leti to bond with her kid. Babe you adopted her, no one forced you. Just because your two kids were losers, you can't be ignorant towards a child you decided to be reponsible for her out of your own damn choice. example : Ishita Ruhi

When anupama can't even freely scold her like a parent then why is she expected to have any 'chemistry' as well.

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

When anupama can't even freely scold her like a parent then why is she expected to have any 'chemistry' as well.

Because she is a grown up and Adhya is a kid.

And what about being 'I am a mother.'

Don't go preaching mum, when you are hesitant being one.

Adhya always weaponises the fact of her being an adopted daughter and today even threatened to leave the house , is this how a child is supposed to behave towards parents. Adopt kiya hai , par koi karz nahi liya hai adhya se jo itne tantrum jhele anupama.

Originally posted by: carecar

Because she is a grown up and Adhya is a kid.

I guess adhya is 14 year old , not that young either.

Jab bachche nahi sunte then parents do stop interacting wholeheartedly and resume only when kid starts well behaving. And in this case adhya is already a spoilt brat that too adopted with full on support from her adopted father.

She is a traumatised teen what do you expect. Jo bache ko parents sar pe bitha ke rakhte jo unki khud ki aulaadein hoti hai woh tak isse bura karti hai. Why are we holding Adhya to the same bar as the oldies. Adhya comes in kid category.

Originally posted by: carecar

Because she is a grown up and Adhya is a kid.

And what about being 'I am a mother.'

Don't go preaching mum, when you are hesitant being one.

Toh maa hi hai , at the end of the day she is a human. Jaan dede kya anupama ab uss adhya ke liye inorder to be hailed as a mom

Jaan dene ki zaroorat nahi hai jee le bas Adhya ke liye zara sa.

Originally posted by: carecar

She is a traumatised teen what do you expect. Jo bache ko parents sar pe bitha ke rakhte jo unki khud ki aulaadein hoti hai woh tak isse bura karti hai. Why are we holding Adhya to the same bar as the oldies. Adhya comes in kid category.

The way adhya argues and retorts back she appears as if she is of the same age as dimpy , pakhi .

If she is really a kid then why she doesn't behave like one , listens to her elders and doesn't mind being scolded.

Jahan daanta wahan she threatens of leaving house. Anupama was saying suri suri to this spoilt lady for just scolding her when she totally deserved to be scoldedin the first place.