Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika
True, the lack if empathy towards the trauma of a child is truly astounding. To the extent that people wish ill for them.
It is truly astounding that the other adult's actions as a consequence of a similar trauma have resulted in lifelong damages which is not even recognised.
The extent of support for the lead is astounding that despite knowing how bad the character has grown and impacted every other character, every other character will be bashed unabashedly with a consolation line for the root cause of ALL these.
Forget adhaya trauma because of anupama leaving in general
Kids nowadays are unable to handle the pressure at home and school
expectation to get 90% marks is too high from paents
Above that tut ions, swimming class, tennis class etc leaves them no time to play
Nowadays majority kids are traumatized unlike kids who were born before 2000s
Atleast till 2000s kids had some time and freedom to play or do what they want
Nowadays parents just give kids a mobile or ipad and assume they will be ok are always busy in work and socializing
kids who have ran off from school or house
or who have attempted suicide for small things like parents scolding for watching mobile is common news nowadays
parents before 22000s had time for kids as job was only 9 to 5 now its like 12 hours work or calls from home etc its a messed up family life
Kids suffer most in all this
Its not only about adhya trauma
Many kids are not getting parents love care and attention like before
So mocking adhya or balming her will not solve this grave issue adhya faces
In this show parents are unfit to father or mother a child be it anuj or anupama both are immature self centered narcissit who abuse kid and threaten her or blame her for their faults
Sadly in india or asia abuse of child not taken seriously by law or govt no protection for kids- parents can abuse and hit, teachers can hit and abuse, grandparents, uncle, aunty can ht and abuse no one acts
Hence many kids grow up with lot of trrauma
Its not only adhya problem
Its becoming a problem in many cities and family
Unlike parents till 2000s(our parent gen) , nowadays adults are not mature to do parenting or not ready for the role. They are not prepared for the responsibility and remove all anger on child at home. They fight each other or in laws or boss and remove anger on kid at home. Anupama is prime example of this. Being 55 years old she have no idea how to behave in front of own kids and grand kids screaming shouting threatening slapping is this how you behave with kids or grand kids?
Anuj is another immature abusive father who threatens child to bend as per his wish.
Parents like anuj anupam ais what is called toxic parenting and determintal for child mental growth
Not that others are great parents but they are much better than anuj anupama in way they treat their kids
Only vanraj treated samar badly till divorce than he also became better father to samar
Edited by myviewprem - 3 months ago
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