Stop abusing kid adhya - Page 6

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

You explained it so well. Being mentally ill is not a stigma and if Aadhya does suffer from mental illness (it is shown she does), then she needs help and support, medical intervention ie. But that said, it does not give her carte blanche authority to unilaterally decide and determine her father’s life. That is shitty behavior.

It doesn’t give her authority to dictate Anuj but what Anuj did to made her understand it. Anuj is literally pushing her to accept Anupama. He could have broken up with Shruti because he can’t love her not because of Anupama. At the first place he should have never gone for an engagement with Shruti. He could have sit and talk to Adhya that even if Anupama never get back in their life he will never love Shruti. This marriage will put Shruti in loveless marriage and Shruti deserve better. She would have understand but he was counting favour he did for Adhya.

After breakup he could have take time but he was pushing Anupama to get back with him. He knows Adhya don’t want her n she is hurt but he discarded everything. He could have wait n do something meaningful to mend Anupama n adhya’s relationship.

Anuj can forget everything n forgive Anupama but Adhya needs time for it. There should be real effort from Anupama’s side.

With Anuj relentless persuasion of Anupama destroyed everything. He is the one who pushed Adhya further away from Anupama.

In the beginning Adhya was angry with Anupama but now she hates her.

When Pakhi physically abused Adhik didn't Anupama shielded her by stating that she is "mentally unstable" as she has gone through a lot during her childhood?

When Toshu cheated Kinjal and kidnapped Pari didn't Anupama sent him to Rehab by declaring him "mentally unstable" as he was suffering so much in life?

To inko bhi pagalpan Anupama Devi se virasat mein mila tha kya? Plz bataiye Paru ji.

Originally posted by: Paru...

How can anyone like a char (adult or child)who always abuse his/her parents and curse them??At least I can't. and I am sure many others also feel the same way..

Any kid should curse a bhagodi evil woman who abandoned a little child and ran away. Any kid should curse a simp father who is going back to the bhagodi woman.

In fact in any other show or movie a woman who abandoned the kid would be an evil vamp.

Originally posted by: Paru...

In the present situation Anu can file case against Adhya for purposefully locking Pari inside store room which made her unconscious could be fatal. Adhya's behaviour comes under Juvenile crimes.

Let her, all the truth will come out how her adopted parents abused and ignored her and she will be let off because she is an abuse victim.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

It is truly sad that mental health is taken so casually and in such a light vein. Not just this but every social cause for that matter.

Really, if this is how we are going to be discussing sensitive topics and this is going to be our treatment of a child character, nothing wrong in concluding that the show is turning out to be a menace by giving a wrong message.

I will also blame the blind bhakts who show this kind of mentality, the poster in question who brought the mental illness thing has been abusing adopted kids from day 1. This is way before adhya showed any bad behavior. They brought up that adopted kids can never be same as bio kids multiple times, pretty sure the term bio kid was first used by them, They said that parents did ehsaan by adopting a kid. They used the bad blood line.

It's a clear case of having 18th century mentality about adopted kids and adoption. Some people thing adopted kids should behave like slaves just because their parents adopted them. Adopted kids are worse than servants and have no rights or feelings.

Originally posted by: Paru...

She tried to commit suicide when she got panic attack after Shruthi got shot. This shows that she is mentally unstable,

Well in that case even Pakhi and Anupama are mentally unstable as both namuni maa beti laid in the middle of the road. Not quite a "nurmal" behaviour and yes one more thing,going by your logic Pakhi INHERITED this mental disorder from her bio mother Anupama.

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If Mental instability is not a social stigma and should be accepted and treated as any other illness, why is there a hesitation in accepting that Anupama, Anuj, Pakhi sab sab sab are mentally ill amd need treatment, why is Adhya's condition being singled out.

Originally posted by: Harish111

I will also blame the blind bhakts who show this kind of mentality, the poster in question who brought the mental illness thing has been abusing adopted kids from day 1. This is way before adhya showed any bad behavior. They brought up that adopted kids can never be same as bio kids multiple times, pretty sure the term bio kid was first used by them, They said that parents did ehsaan by adopting a kid. They used the bad blood line.

It's a clear case of having 18th century mentality about adopted kids and adoption. Some people thing adopted kids should behave like slaves just because their parents adopted them. Adopted kids are worse than servants and have no rights or feelings.

Adoption as a topic itself is butchered like no other.

Looks like a track written by someone who themselves do not believe in it. About people talking lightly of it, well. 🤷🏻‍♀️, kya bol sakte hain GOD BLESS us ALL.

They give such divine parlance. Our history has so many examples against their skewed perception, but, I guess history as a matter of fact, is used as per convenience by them.

Aadya got her very first panic attack when Anupama as usual was busy in Shah house affairs and puppy was lost in her thoughts. Barkha witnessed her condition and raised the alarm but instead of acting swiftly, taking medical intervention, understanding the crux behind this and keeping her away from toxicity aka Shahs both Buddha Buddhi played a prominent role in furthering her insecurities.

When Pakhi was trying to instill fear of abandonment in Aadya,what recourse the "besht Maa" took? Pakhi was given a free hand to continue her ways with "shallow warnings and comic stern looks". On top of it Anupama made her worst nightmare come true when she abandoned her so casually and Anuj claiming to love her more than anything else in this world kept nudging her to FORGET the past and MOVE ON by counting numerous favours he did to her. Both drove her to the edge of madness. It's appaling how a kid has to bear the brunt of the horrific choices her parents made.

I will solely blame Anuj for this mess. On what account was he reassuring Aadya that things will get better this time? Did Anupam apologized for walking out over an argument? Did she drew healthy boundaries with her ex and his family? Does she wants to reunite? The answer is a BIG NO. Infact till today she justifies her stance by subtly shifting the blame on Aadya. How can Anuj be so blind? He deserves to rot in mental asylum with 3 dosage of 440 volt electric shock everyday but why this 🐕 ruined the life of an orphan kid by adopting her? THIS SUCKS 😡!

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

Sorry but anxiety depressive disorder, PTSD, Partum depression all are mental illness and have clinical correctives. Like fever is a symptom of a physical illness, panic attacks are a symptom of a mental illness

It is not at all shameful to be mentally ill in any which way. It is not an insult. Don't understand the need to euphemise something so clinical. It just increases stigma around healthcare and prevents people from ever seeking clinical help.

Either Adhya is traumatised thereby going through the mental illness of PTSD that can be corrected by a doctor or she isn't. Both are acceptable states of being

Hurting people is shitty in either states lol.

adhya was a happy chirpy child, it was shah's (mainly baa and pakhi) who used to treat her the worst. Adhya do have panic attacks coz she saw her mummy leaving them without any justification and explanation, she doesn't even know why she left them, she had (wrong) doubts in her mind against her mother which could have been cleared but... No she choose to tear a pic and run away. Her trauma, panic attacks, withdrawal symptoms aren't because her mother was "mad" or "mentally ill" It's because of her environment which she was brought up it.