Originally posted by: Dee-Dee
Still doesn’t answer my question.
Your points are quite hypocritical tbh, Anupama’s betrayal should be forgiven?
Anuj was wrong in questioning her priorities 5 yrs back? Why? Which sane husband after so much everyday drama by his wife’s ex in-laws won’t question her self worth and priorities and their place in her life?
I don’t like the current Anuj, but he was absolutely right 5 yrs back, on the day the accident occurred and it was not just the outburst of accident but collective outburst of a series of events that occurred after their marriage.
Why should a woman walk out with the child if the husband doubted her intentions for once? Does the child not belong to him? It can happen between any couple, a fair chance & understanding and a mature conversation is needed, else am sure no marriage can survive. Difference of opinion is there in between every couple from what I understand.
Why should Anupamaa only set Aadhya straight by reminding her of all Favors and not Toshu and Pakhi whom she didn’t even abandon, and they still hate her? All rules for the adopted child only?
This is a forum and I am entitled to my opinion, if you call me hypocritical, I can say your take is one sided and opinionated.
Please re-read what I wrote, I stated clearly that it is upto Aadhya to forgive her mother or not, but her mother owes an explanation to her daughter.
Anuj was wrong in doubting Anupama’s love for Aadhya, he married a woman with children and a grandchild, she cannot cut her relations with them, he knew this going in, talking about that over and over is like beating a dead horse. If he wanted someone to romance and be only his, he married the wrong woman. He was no saint either (again the Maya incident). If he claims to love Anupama and know her so well then doubting her love for their child was wrong. I don’t care if you think that is hypocritical, that is my opinion.
We are not talking legality here, I was saying if my husband dared to doubt my love for my children, I would leave him as it would signal a lack of basic trust in my character and my role as mother. Also if you would care to re-read what I wrote and not be in haste to point fingers - I said BOTH parents were wrong and that the child suffered, that Anuj was wrong in doubting Anupama and Anupama was wrong in abandoning her child. I also said instead of referring to the incident as that “haadhsa” Anuj (and Anupama) should have addressed the issue with the child.
Lol, no one said Aadhya gets a special set of rules because she is adopted. Anupama HAS listed all that she has done for Toshu (didn’t she write it all down?) and I am sure if we look at all the prior episodes, she has told Pakhi off too similarly.
Plus I did not mention that Anupama should remind Aadhya the homeless man incident as a FAVOR to the girl but to reassure the girl and point out to her that as a mother, Anupama will always care for her daughter and try to save her from dangerous situations.
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 4 months ago
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