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Posted: 3 months ago
#61

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

True, the lack if empathy towards the trauma of a child is truly astounding. To the extent that people wish ill for them.

It is truly astounding that the other adult's actions as a consequence of a similar trauma have resulted in lifelong damages which is not even recognised.

The extent of support for the lead is astounding that despite knowing how bad the character has grown and impacted every other character, every other character will be bashed unabashedly with a consolation line for the root cause of ALL these.

she wished adhya to be a thief, criminal, murderer and the next day toh-sue stole the necklace and MAA was arrestedsmiley36

The ironysmiley37

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Posted: 3 months ago
#62

Originally posted by: Harish111


Any kid should curse a bhagodi evil woman who abandoned a little child and ran away. Any kid should curse a simp father who is going back to the bhagodi woman.


In fact in any other show or movie a woman who abandoned the kid would be an evil vamp.

In the show it was the divorce between the couple which separated Anu from Adhya. she didn't abandon her, But allowed to hand over child's custody to Anuj.

If Adhya has so much hatred for Anu ,Then why she is eating all the food prepared by Anu? She has no problem in taking services from Anu when she needs her.smiley44

This child is definitely portrayed as a villain in this show. There is no doubt about it and no one can justify it.smiley14

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Posted: 3 months ago
#63

Originally posted by: Harish111


Let her, all the truth will come out how her adopted parents abused and ignored her and she will be let off because she is an abuse victim.

Here parents r getting abused by their daughter. Once Adhya opens her mouth ,every investigating officer will understand who is the villain and who is not???smiley37

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Posted: 3 months ago
#64

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

When Pakhi physically abused Adhik didn't Anupama shielded her by stating that she is "mentally unstable" as she has gone through a lot during her childhood?

When Toshu cheated Kinjal and kidnapped Pari didn't Anupama sent him to Rehab by declaring him "mentally unstable" as he was suffering so much in life?

To inko bhi pagalpan Anupama Devi se virasat mein mila tha kya? Plz bataiye Paru ji.

These accusations doesn't refrain Adhya or her mom Maya from being pagalsmiley29. Adhya and Maya had mental illness and they were under medication and that is the truth.smiley14

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Posted: 3 months ago
#65

Originally posted by: Paru...

These accusations doesn't refrain Adhya or her mom Maya from being pagalsmiley29. Adhya and Maya had mental illness and they were under medication and that is the truth.smiley14

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So were Anupama, Vanraj, Pakhi and Paritosh and that is the truth.

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Posted: 3 months ago
#66

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

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So were Anupama, Vanraj, Pakhi and Paritosh and that is the truth.


We must know by now that the person always ignores logical questions and keeps repeating their point in every comment because they come with the sole purpose of instigating the other members.


There’s no point of discussion here, see all posts in past pages, the words mental illness are commonly used in every comment with a purpose to troll.

And now calling them pagal, just shows their own understanding level!

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Posted: 3 months ago
#67

Originally posted by: Paru...

These accusations doesn't refrain Adhya or her mom Maya from being pagalsmiley29. Adhya and Maya had mental illness and they were under medication and that is the truth.smiley14

And this whataboutery wont change the fact that Anupama was pagal too and her bio kids inherited that pagalpan from her. So yes now it's established that Anupama is a pagal aurat. Don't u claim her to be the "best person" ever. Stand your ground!
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Posted: 3 months ago
#68

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Adhya was an adopted child. That in itself comes with a LOT of insecurities, fear of abandonment. She faced abuse and neglect immediately after entering their life (which was, but a Trophy child for Anupama). Infact her own parents did not know that she was suffering panic attacks and it was Barkha who noticed and notified her parents but even then, her adoptive mother prioritised a child who had an army of people to look after amd neither parents to give her the assurances and peace she needed.

The child was constantly exposed to drama, fights, scheming so much so, that her father was forced to send her off to a "summer camp" during New Years where her adoptive mother never bothered to call and neither adoptive parents knew that she had fallen sick. The adoptive mother let her be manipulated and did not bother correcting the perception she was fed with that she is the reason for fights between her adoptive parents.

She found and lost her birth mother in trying to save her adoptive mother leaving her like a lost soul. The adoptive mother continued to ignore and neglect her trophy daughter while she was subject to constant abuse and manipulation and made to feel that she would be "discarded" from her adoptive parents' life and BOTH PARENTS NEVER BOTHERED TO PROTECT HER OR assure her leading to constant insecurities.

A series of incidents occur culminating with the dreadful accident where she was left alone in a locked car, she saw her fears coming true. Although she was saved by GOD'S grace, the fear lingered. This was followed by the mother ABANDONING her without backward glance or assuring her leading to a deep etched trauma, so much so, that they are forced to leave the country.

She undergoes treatment for the trauma and with the unconditional love and care from Shruti she blooms into a happy athlete. Then she comes face-to-face with the source of her trauma and despite her pleas, she is FORCED to interact, associate with the family that abused her and live with the woman who is the reason for her distress. Despite ALL this, she shows immense bravery and presence of mind to save herself and Pari (who she feels was more favoured) only to witness, the only mother she had ever known, Shruti being shot and on the verge of losing her making her traumatised and suicidal.

She sees her father and his ex-wife betraying Shruti, the only mother she had and when she confronts them, she is recounted of the favours done on her followed by being subject to constant harsh and rude behaviour every time she tries to remind her father of his commitment, so much so, that she now understand that neither promises made to her by her father hokd any importance in his life nor what she thinks, says, feels matter to him.

The only symptoms we see is her rudeness and raised voices, which is perhaps, the least degree that one would display.


Having gone through so much at such a young age, must say, she is holding up pretty well, even so called parents and fully grown adults on the show haven't.

Shruti, who is using and manipulating an underage, allegedly traumatised child, to make her mid-life, one-sided love /sex life with a middle-aged cheater work, is somehow the best, most selfless thing that happened to the said child? smiley37smiley37smiley37

Bhai, do adults in this fandom just dump their very adult relationship woes on their children and think it's okay or good parenting? How do people in this fd just have such a massive blindspot regarding a literal child being preoccupied with her budhao father's love life instead of, I dunno, focusing on her studies, hobbies, friendships, crushes?

And someone said that some viewers lack empathy for Adhya's trauma. Well, believe it or not, trauma doesn't justify endangering someone else's life. If some serious harm had come to Pari, Adhya would have been tried under juvenile justice laws. No judge in the world would equate having trAumA from parent's divorce to another child's life. Because, y'know, Pari's life is ethically as important as Adhya's. Divorce is not a gen z fad. There are thousands of people who go through parental separation, alienation and even worse trauma without harbouring such utter apathy and cruelty towards others. Trauma is resolved by therapy not by giving someone a free pass to harm others.

Heck, if someone else's traumatised child purposefully locked someone's child to punish them— thereby risking their life, no parent would think twice before reporting them.

Adhya is failed by every single adult around her lol.

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Posted: 3 months ago
#69

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

And this whataboutery wont change the fact that Anupama was pagal too and her bio kids inherited that pagalpan from her. So yes now it's established that Anupama is a pagal aurat. Don't u claim her to be the "best person" ever. Stand your ground!

I haven't seen a single episode in which Anupama consulting psychiatrists or taking medicines in any of the episodes. She seemed depressed post her divorce with Anuj and after knowing about V's betrayal.But got got recovered quite fast like normal people do. But both Maya and Adhya are portrayed as psycho chars in the show.smiley29.Pakhi needed just counselling when she came to know about her parents divorce. Also T was shown in a hyper state when Kinjal refused to accept him,T his was only for a brief period. But Maya and are Adhya are shown as mentally ill people who hasn't recovered from the disease till the end.

I love char Anupama. Otherwise i wouldn't have watch this show .For me this is the best female lead on ITV,smiley10

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Posted: 3 months ago
#70

Originally posted by: Muskie

adhya was a happy chirpy child, it was shah's (mainly baa and pakhi) who used to treat her the worst. Adhya do have panic attacks coz she saw her mummy leaving them without any justification and explanation, she doesn't even know why she left them, she had (wrong) doubts in her mind against her mother which could have been cleared but... No she choose to tear a pic and run away. Her trauma, panic attacks, withdrawal symptoms aren't because her mother was "mad" or "mentally ill" It's because of her environment which she was brought up it.

If you are responding to someone else, please quote them. I dunno why eugenics are brought into this thread? I did not absolutely anywhere to eugenics.While yes, certain mental illnesses have genetic predesposition, so does cancer or coeliac. People do not become imperfect or defective because of having illnesses, be it physical or mental.

Anyone can have mental illnesses for x number of reasons. Making it about "no Maya genes bad– no no Upmaa genes are badder" is gross and nauseatingly ableist. Anupamaa, Shahs, Adhya's bio parents could have passed on genes that make their children vulnerable to mental illnesses. Or, may be they didn't. Anyone being a happy kid isn't a medical prognosis for anything.

The fact remains that mental illness is a clinica), scientific issue and people deserve healthcare irrespective of genes and DNA etc. That includes Adhya, Pakhi, Upma, Vanraj, Maya, Mukku whoever. Mental illness is not an insult. Neither is it a free pass to harm anyone. I stand by that.

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