Adhya and her persistent hatred

Why doesn’t Adhya remember that Anupama saved her from the homeless man that chased her and was about to assault her? Why didn’t Anupama remind her of that in today’s episode? Only the car accident and the school shoot out were mentioned.

The end goal of this show is to invoke sympathy for Anupama and one of the ways to do it is to show all her kids, including Aadhya in bad light! These type of sadistic tracks are indeed creating the kind of impact makers intend to leave on the minds of viewers. Unfortunately, there are many viewers who are gullible & have a one-dimensional perception about the show!

Do these small events matter? It's like if a spouse cheats in a relationship, you can remind all the good incidents and do more, but that won't save the marriage, the cheating is a deal breaker.

Similarly nothing forgives a mom leaving a little kid and disappearing for 5 years. No amount of counting these small deeds will ever matter, that relationship is forever ruined. That kid is never going to forgive the "mom" and rightly so.

Originally posted by: Harish111

Do these small events matter? It's like if a spouse cheats in a relationship, you can remind all the good incidents and do more, but that won't save the marriage, the cheating is a deal breaker.

Similarly nothing forgives a mom leaving a little kid and disappearing for 5 years. No amount of counting these small deeds will ever matter, that relationship is forever ruined. That kid is never going to forgive the "mom" and rightly som

Moreover why is there a need to "remind" or recount the deeds done on their own child?

Why has none ever bothered recounting ehsaan done on themselves or their biological kids?

Sabse pehle toh yeh ehsaan jatana samajh hi nahin aata. Bachche kisike paas nahin aaya tha adopt hone. Mata-Pita apne poore hosh me bachchon ko adopt karte hain apna pariwaar banane ke liye. 13 saal ki bachchi ko ehsaan ginate hain, huh.

Today when Anupama was reprimanding Adhya, she said "Kya hoga jab bachchon ko malum hoga ki unki super ishtar phui ne use kamre me band Kar diya?" Wahi phui jisne uski jaan bachayi.

Yeh toh bina rishte ke jaan bachayi but isse Adhya ki galati kam nahin hogayi.

Usi tarah se ehsaan jatana se ki gayi galati kam toh nahin ho jaati na?

For the makers:

You indeed have created a masterpiece where EVERY character HAS TO be butchered (including children) to elevate the leads.

It’s sad that only car incident and school shootout were reminded.

Anupama should learn something from Toshu and make a list of all that she did for Aadhya ever since she adopted her and maybe ask for compensation like Toshu had ask from his biological Mother?
All ehsaans, hospital visits, singing lullaby, number of times she went to her school, cooked for her and the number of times she saved her life.

Btw I just recalled, Anupama had saved Choti Anu’s life when once CA was running on the street, Anupama screamed her name and CA stopped - this is one more time she had saved her life by screaming her name so this should be reminded too!

And I guess all parents should get inspired seeing this and start noting down on a daily basis whatever they are doing for their children and keep reminding them. That’s how the kids will turn out to be decent like Anupama’s biological kids Toshu and Pakhi.

What is use of telling that Incident

Whether anupama save choti many tmes or

whether anupama left choti or anupama was bound to leave Kapadia choti will always hate anupama and choti will always be jealous person ( if anupama love other children ) and choti Wil always play trauma card and will act as psycho

And why doesn't Anupama remember the times when adhya was mistreated by shah's, especially baa and the times when pakhi used to misbehave with her almost slapped her??

She's saying you are not CA but she doesn't want to remind herself why she became adhya

Originally posted by: surabhi01

What is use of telling that Incident

Whether anupama save choti many tmes or

whether anupama left choti or anupama was bound to leave Kapadia choti will always hate anupama and choti will always be jealous person ( if anupama love other children ) and choti Wil always play trauma card and will act as psycho

Why would choti hate Anupamaa for no reason? Why would she “play” trauma card? She was happy and content when she was first introduced. She appeared to love her mummy (Anupamaa) a lot initially. What changed that she now hates Anupamaa? 🤔

Upma doesn't remember that devika called CA a bojh,Baa called her gand khoo n didn't allowed her to touch that Pari,Pakhi slapped her yet Adhya was the one who saved Pari from terrorist attack but only Adhya should remember that Upma saved her.Point is not that accident but the ignorance of upma towards CA n making a kid adjust to an abusive life because that 50 yrs old bebli used to find satisfaction n happiness in it.Why should a kid be allowed to make sacrifices or adjustments for the sake of elders happiness ? Did Upma made her bio kids do the same thing which CA was made to do so ? CA was an adopted kid who always felt that her mummy would leave her n her fears turned out to be true when Upma abandoned her n left her only when CA showed disappointment for 1st time in 3 years.Why did she left if she loved CA so much n kept her above herself..Upma is nothing but a disgusting narcissistic woman..

When Adhya is persistent in her hate, it behooves a mother to set her straight by explaining that what the mother did was not out of a lack of love, and to point out other instances where the mom has put herself at risk to save her daughter so as to reassure the girl that her mom does love her beyond measure.