Originally posted by: prerna4rishav
Life is not a warfield. You cannot go on a warpath over every little argument that you have with your partner especially when you have a kid in the picture. That’s why there’s a considerable period taken to ‘plan’ the family, but once you start it, there’re very little room for errors. A child’s needs triumph most of the things in life. And providing justifications to a partner’s allegations with examples (the ones Anuj had time and again) is not losing self-respect. One IS answerable to one’s family. That’s how a family works. Providing explanation is PART of it. Except for parents’, there’re no unconditional love in the world. Period. That doesn’t mean anyone tries to deliberately berate one’s partner. Questioning each other and providing justifications make a relationship healhier, only if one has the intention to stay in it and work on it, else yeah, we can go on warpath very well and lose everyone in life and stay alone.
P.S. - Just realized in Adhya’s case, even her parents’ love is not unconditional. Comes with so many criteria.
P.P.S. - I absolutely love the idea and people’s decisions to stay alone by CHOICE. And my statements above do not include them who stay alone by CHOICE. My statements are for those who chose to have relationships and then screwed them over with their own versions of ideologies and ended up staying alone against their initial preference and finally adjusting to it with a ‘grapes are sour’ attitude.
Funnily, Anupama walked out of the relationship never to turn the last 5 years, broke off the marriage because she was questioned, what happened now that she wants to get back together?
So, even Anupama is maintaining a relationship of convenience, isn't it?
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