Good morning, Charu
Should I answer this or not?
The atmosphere here is very hot
but answer kar leti hoon. I don't know when I will have this kind of free time again
Waise, you and I have always heard each other's view points, agreed on some and disagreed on some
So, we should be fine sharing this
From what Abhira has been told- Armaan and Ruhi have been in love waaay before the wedding. The gehra love of aaaall 2 days was not revealed. She made it sound as if Armaan proposed that she marry Rohit so they can stay close together and engage away from Rohit's and family's eyes
She didn't say it in so many words, but that is what she implied and that she couldn't say no to Armaan because of whatever the depth and height of that " love story" is. While the pristine Ruhi tried to be a good girl and tried to move on with Rohit, he ditched her by disappearing
And then she was shown a video recording of how Armaan is planning his life with SIL, post Abhira.
, while the deal was still very much on. She also bore with the humiliation of being served divorce papers by a SIL and for which he didn't react much and somewhat patronized her. She knows how he behaved all through those 10 months and while serving her the divorce papers and thereafter, cruel and crass
Then, she was told that he broke the wedding because Abhira sashayed in front of him as a wedding planner and confessed her love for him. Ruhi didn't mention the latter part, but that is the only thing Abhira did differently during the wedding planning time which would have made him change his mind.
Kaveri then gave her the ugly interpretation of Armaan's character as a two-timer
. In the midst of all of this confusion, if Armaan tells her that his engagement with Ruhi is just an infatuation, it sounds like a very lazy cop out
So, Armaan has to address the elephant in the room- his engagement with Ruhi and why?
Again, koi answer dedo mujhe, how did they convince Abhira that Armaan and Ruhi are childhood BFFs and not that they only met 2 days ago?
Good to talk to you so much today, Charu
Oh no need to ask. I love to engage in discussions such as these ..many times I get a diff perspective which I may have missed ..N u know how much I value yours .
There is no reason why abhira believed ruhi and dadi over Arman...she just believed them.....she didn't ask him or let him explain ..in one way it was good arman owned it ..he never tried to justify it..anyways..
The divorce papers and his engagement to ruhi and why.....
.I didn't watch all epis but I remember arman was very much against it ...he was yelling at abhira n constantly asking her why she lied in court, and that they still have 3 months for deal ..there were fights in family after deal revelation & he asked her to forget all of that and focus on studies n that he will handle the matter on his own.....
so he never forced divorce on her , abhira made a deal with dadi which was hidden from Arman..Arman was made to believe abhira wants to end the shadi , he let her go & agreed to marry ruhi for family sake..he didnt propose shadi , ruhi planted the idea in vidyas head .....however , .he made it clear to ruhi that things have changed in 10 months , he never said he loves her , he was indifferent to her & anyone can tell he was conflicted , he wasn't happy ..
Frm his reactions pre divorce, one could guess that he was trying to sort out his feelings when the deal bomb went off & situation spiraled out of control..I think he needed time to assess who he will choose...ruhi or abhira..or may be trying to assess if abhira also feels the same way as him..but when she insisted on divorce ( I remember he questioned her why she lied ) , he may have believed she doesn't love him...n went with ruhi only bec his family insisted & he past guilt ...
I agree, two timer idea was planted by dadi & abhira copied it verbatim.
It nullifies her own judgement of arman , what she's seen of him in 10 months. But woh chodo..
I think ruhi was cent percent correct when she described this situation ..they were in love (Arman thought he was in love but later he said infatuation, his feelings changed I dun blame him ) . He insisted on ruhi rohit marriage & promised to love her (this is the worst ) , he married abhira ..abhira did come in between ..they divorced , n when abhira confessed , he flipped...yes..
1. Arman did not keep the sanctity of bil sil relation .
2. Arman didn't draw boundaries
3. Arman didn't let her meet manav
4. When ruhi convinced him tht after divorce they can marry , they have a chance , he went with the idea n shiv shakti scene happened
5. At one point it did seem like he was keeping ruhi as a second option incase things don't work out with abhira.
I don't blame ruhi for her obsession ..she was nuts but arman is more to be blamed ...he cud have just told her it's over between them , before rohit and ruhi shadi..here , dadi is not in the picture but in his story with abhira , she played both of them..strangely madhav papa only termed abhira as a victim and not arman.
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