Now everyone says adhya reacting misbehaving wrong with anuj anupama. But every child requires a safe and happy environment to live
From age of 6 when adhya was adopted shes never lived one day peacfully in secure environment. Either anupama is never there in kapadiya home and family busy in shah home or problems. Or some shah taunts and misbehaves with adhya or anuj or humiliates them. Or anyone makes adhya insecure that mom dad will leave her and run off and she go back to orhanage
Till 13 years only this has happened with adhya for 3 plus 5 years 8 years and this 9th year too same repeating. Anupama came to anuj house only because vanraj shah left toshu home and toshu gave her bill saying pay 3000 USD for staying there
Hence anupama had no place to go so agreed to come to anuj house. Imagine if vanraj was still in usa will anupama leave him and her kids and come to anuj house never. Because shahs and vanraj not here in usa anupam ahad no option but to go to anuj house for rent free accommodation
So adhya is highly insecure that after 5 peacful years without bati hui aurat ma anupama and abusive shahs she will be forced to go live with anupama and shahs again. That is causing her panic attacks and anxiety and she behaving violent. What if shahs abuse her again what if anupama neglect her unlike shruti who loves her.
Every kid has this fear not only adhya? Why kid observe a dog if one dog sits by owner second dog runs to push it off and sit himself. Its not jealousy they are scared they may lose owner love forever. Adhya is scared to lose her only family her father to anupama and shahs and being abused.
Also i do not agree kids have no right to interfere in parents marraige
Many parents divorce only because their spouse character affecting kids mental health. Kids have every right to say they do not want live with an abusive and irresponsible parent like anupama(or anuj too)
Because husabnd wife do not live in isolaion they live with kids - if their behaviour drives kids to depression, anxiety may be suicide later on is time to foot down by law authorities and tell parents to behave or action must happen
Problem in india is no one gives a damn for kids rights, kids can be hit and abused and forced like anuj is doing to be with her abusers yet no law will say this should not happen or else?
Because anuj kind of humans are sick minded hes obsessed with anupama and can keep quiet even if shahs abuse or rape malvika or adhya in vulnrable mental state. What was vanraj doing taking Malvika out alone 1 week to mumbai saying business trip? I wonder what happened in that trip with Mlavika given vanraj narcissit machivellian nature. Has anuj ever bothered to check what happened to Malvika etc no he will not bother what happened to adhya too later if someone does something to her
In such a situation any other father would not allow his daughter to go to shahs house or allow his wife to take her there. She would be kept away ideally from so called wifes mayka by any other dad but not anuj kapadiya as he has no maturity to be a father or brother in life es only bothered about anupama and whoever she likes like shahs none else
A child requires safe and secure atmosphere not they type that shahs or anupama create at home or in public actually. But sadly neither anupama understands how to treat kids neither anuj both were and are unfit to be a parent by nature.
I for one truly think kids have ever right or say who their mom dad should be and how they should be treated even as 6 years or 13 years or 18 years. After that kid do not require a parent they have college friends or colleagues for support in life than marry and have spouse and kids. But till than every kid has right to say if they have abusive parent i do not want them near me.
Asa society and world we humans have decided to treat some humans as having no rights like kids or elderly or disabled or woen or poor or widows or single woman or divorcee women etc and anyone can hit or abuse or ill treat they must be quiet thinking its their fate
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