Originally posted by: Goddy2010
finally, we got a side hug of Janak and Ani when she was fainting 😂.
I think Makers have made us as delusional as Appu di, J to properly bhola aisa kuch nahi hai
Originally posted by: Goddy2010
finally, we got a side hug of Janak and Ani when she was fainting 😂.
I think Makers have made us as delusional as Appu di, J to properly bhola aisa kuch nahi hai
so true he can’t hear those words what he wants to hear she’s not telling that & except that all the things she tells him.. he’s acting like she is his lover & she broke his heart to marry someone rich & used & threw him to the curb
Exactly.. Ani acts like a Man scorned.. thankfully his gf is so stupid to notice that she is in her own world making wedding plans
in his anger over Jhanak he may go ahead also for marriage… that girls has no grip over her would be husband who’s harassing another girl & singing songs for her .. he’s now even not bothered if people will see him & Jhanak alone in the room.. he wants to break the marriage in that way
Exactly.. Ani acts like a Man scorned.. thankfully his gf is so stupid to notice that she is in her own world making wedding plans
Originally posted by: Anusha16
Okay, my community in as exception then. Im not Hindu so cannot speak for Tamil Hindu customs
Maybe the married ladies of the forum can better answer my question lol
Married Tamil Hindu woman here! Our weddings are 2.5,.sometimes 3 days long - we have a viratham ritual where the bride and groom cannot eat until this is completed but this is usually the first rasm of the marriage (to kickstart the wedding and to invoke god's blessings for the marriage Nd to bless the couple). This is mostly held early morning on day 1, so no fasting per se. My viratham got completed by 9:30 am so had brekkie at 10 that day!
Coming to the actual muhurtham (day 2 of the wedding) yep, the bride and groom do not eat until thali kattu and the first meal together as husband wife after that. Now it depends on the time of the muhurtham whether the couple fast or not. Muhurthams are usually early morning - early afternoon. :)
My muhurtham was around 10:30-12.00 ish. my cousin's was very early morning 5-6.30.
We can drink juice or tea or coffee.
My strict Amma poured all her love for me in the cups of juices she constantly kept giving me during my muhurtham. 🤣🤣
You are all kidding me or what?? I said the thread is closed I opened the thread No2 I had given the link but still the discussion is continuing here.
that’s really nice to hear about diff customs… During my wedding we only have 2 rituals one is Haldi & 2nd day marriage… for boys they on Haldi day they have janayu ( thread) ceremony where they leave their youth & enter as man to be married.. then Haldi for boys.. then second day marriage…we don’t have mehndi ceremony.. we just apply it a day before our haldi ..but after Haldi the bride & groom r not supposed to go out of house as it’s inauspicious for them…as we r from coastal region Konkan area.. our marriage rituals mostly r like Maharastrian people
Married Tamil Hindu woman here! Our weddings are 2.5,.sometimes 3 days long - we have a viratham ritual where the bride and groom cannot eat until this is completed but this is usually the first rasm of the marriage (to kickstart the wedding and to invoke god's blessings for the marriage Nd to bless the couple). This is mostly held early morning on day 1, so no fasting per se. My viratham got completed by 9:30 am so had brekkie at 10 that day!
Coming to the actual muhurtham (day 2 of the wedding) yep, the bride and groom do not eat until thali kattu and the first meal together as husband wife after that. Now it depends on the time of the muhurtham whether the couple fast or not. Muhurthams are usually early morning - early afternoon. :)
My muhurtham was around 10:30-12.00 ish. my cousin's was very early morning 5-6.30.
We can drink juice or tea or coffee.
My strict Amma poured all her love for me in the cups of juices she constantly kept giving me during my muhurtham. 🤣🤣
Originally posted by: ALUJNA21
You are all kidding me or what?? I said the thread is closed I opened the thread No2 I had given the link but still the discussion is continuing here.
Sorry, missed that! 🙈
@Ashu - let's continue this discussion in the other thread!
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