oh its heartbreaking for sure. she did love him, infact still does. she dreamt of a family with him and their 2 kids. its not easy to see Vinu call P mumma and to leave him be. its not easy to let go of the man she loved and dreamed of a family with. but she needs to be real, practical and not carried away by emotions especially with his track record. if we look at the totality, V has really been butchered beyond redemption by makers sadly. so now the love Sai has is secondary. her respect and her not being taken for granted again is more important. even after she left she had hope for a while that he'd look for her, he'd come for her. but it didnt happen. Even when he met her post leap she may have had hope that beyond the immediate angst, pain etc that he had suffered in her absence like she did. but no, he married P. he may have not forgotten Sai entirely but he didnt stay true to her. his moving on was not the issue, the fact that he did with P was the problem. yes she'd have been hurt even if he married another woman but P- thats a low blow. the woman whom he should have got punished is the one he bailed out and married. that level of disrespect and taken for granted-ness should not happen to any woman
Despite it all, Sai's love for V and her ability to see his good- the past where he did support her education, gave her a roof, etc etc is the reason she is being civil, cordial and still trying to see some good in him. more than what anyone of us could do as audience.
She is being mature. she wants to coparent. she wants to let go of bitterness and move on and I think thats fair
Love isnt everything.
Theres things beyond love- respect, trust, companionship, freedom, space. things V can never give Sai.
Even now, if you forget P for a second and just look at Vs approach- its SO selfish. he just wants to brush things away rather than talk. if he is so confident he can make Vinu accept Sai as aai, why hasnt he done so already irrespective of P or Sai's decisions and statements. Even without reconciling doesnt Sai deserve to be called aai by her son?!
Look at his reaction when Sai raises P, instead of guilt and pain , shame, he is scoffing at her as if Sai is making a big deal out of nothing. he cant acknowledge that YES, P has been a third person in theri marriage because of HIM. HIS bad decisions. Repeatedly.
look at how he behaves seeing satya Sai. its not a healthy jealousy. its vicious. he is acting like a teenager. Sai was hurt to see VP together but see how she reacts with them vs how V behaves with Satya.
if he vouches so much for P being a reformed soul and having stuck by him in his adversity and being such a good mother to Vinu, doesnt she deserve a closure before he jumps to propose to another woman. the least he can do to end a farce namesake relationship also is to be dignified . first get divorce papers signed, talk to her, and figure out what will be her role in Vinu's life post their separation and then go to Sai WITH solutions.
Sai should see how he treats P now and see that as a huge red flag of him having learnt no lessons. first he treated her badly for P and now he is least bothered to talk to P before he confesses love to Sai. he uses and throws people at will. he changes his mind on a whim. yesterday P was yashoda, devki. and Sai was asked to leave Vinu with P coz P would die without Vinu apparently and she has Savi and now because he wants both kids with him and a conventional family, he says- oh I'll convince Vinu and make him call you aai always.Wont P do something rash now?! wont she commit suicide now? wont she flee with Vinu again? how will Vinu deal with all this? he is just making offhand statements that I will handle it. but how?!
he doesnt even know that P has heard his full confession yet. itnaa cluless hai yeh banda. if he had seen his phone he'd realize from call records what has happened.
he is literally behaving like a teenager who is just driven by heady emotions of lust, love and no sense of maturity. hes a DCP, a father of 2 kids but he has no responsibility.
Aise aadmi ko trust karna that he wants to fix things is bewakufi.
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