Originally posted by: Lissadoc
I have a very different take on this. Since it's an open forum I think I can share it with u.
OK u just said Abhira and Armaan had a deal marriage and that's why he was not obliged to tell her the truth.Fine enough .Marriage was not normal but atleast it was a deal right..A deal between Armaan and Abhira.So under every damn circumstances,he was obliged to keep the integrity of that deal.Did he ? If I make a deal with a certain person, I also have the responsibility to never allow a third person to barge into that. Its that only .Yes he had a relationship or infatuation with Ruhi or whatever. That's his problem na.He was very well able to see how Ruhi was continuously coming in btw them and demeaning Abhira for just being a deal wife.Either he should have kept Ruhi in boundaries or he should have let Abhira know the reason of Ruhi's over interference in their life. If he had done that then things would not have been so complicated right?..Ok I understand how he was bounded by family,Ruhi's manipulations etc.But still all I am saying is when u make a person a part of your family,u shd also have the responsibility to keep transparency with that person.
Abhira was overexpressive??? And what about him? Did he not tell Abhira that I know you better than anyone else.Did he not have strong emotional attachments with her? Esp during that hospital track and yuv track? Armaan always wanted Abhira to share each and every single thing about her daily life..So vahi expectations agar Abhira rakhe to over expectations kaise?? Their marriage was only a deal in paper na..For me it seemed so .Apart from not having a physical relationship they were legit behaving like a husband and wife. Becoming each other's comfort zone, support system,solving problems together etc .Isi reason se hi to Ruhi bar bar interfere kar Rahi thi. She had to remember AA time and time again that their marriage was only deal one.
She had no problems with Armaan's past life .But the chitwali being Ruhi made all the difference..And meri perspective mein vo bahut badi baat hain.
Ok that's it. Its just a different take and no way trying to have a fight with u
@first paragraph just want to give my pov here.
The deal was made for abhira. Armaan did not got any benefits from that deal. The deal will only give benefits to ab as she will complete her education and move on. Armaan has every right to keep others in confidence so that they don't leave him because of this deal. It's his wish whom he wants to reveal it to.
For eg if it was not his bhabhi just his ex. Then will she wait for him forever and ever ? She will marry within one year. So he has to tell her truth that it's a deal marriage so that other person do not mu him.
If ab wants this deal to be hidden from everyone then it will just prove her hypocrite as she wanted ti be act like bahu fight with poddars and after 1 year she will just leave by saying who are you. Uske jaane ke baad it's armaan who has to clear this mess. Armaan should have even informed his family about his deal that way atleast they would have not expected her to act like bahu and would have shown her place when she interferes in family matter and she could have concentrated on her studies..
Why will armaan think a girl who is in deal marriage will fall in love with him as for him his family and ruhi was more important at that time than his zimmedari. Why will he think ab will get jealous that ruhi knows truth. As she also knew ruhi was friend of chitwali. Toh kya chitwali ko dhoka dene ka idea tha ab ka 😂
Who asked her to make her real marriage a deal? Who asked her to marry as they could have very well prentended like husband and wife without marrying. Who asked her to marry without asking him about his past? It's like mummy ko dhoka bhi nahi dena hai,real shadi bhi nahi karna hai aur shadi bhi karna hai 🙂
Ar can very well could have left ab post marrying as ak is not his mother that he has to fulfill the promise he made nor ak saved him as ar came to save ab and ak. So in a way he would have died for them that day which ak prevented by sacrificing herself. So he is not indebted to ak or ab. Since he was a good human being he decided to abide by his promise made. But that does not mean he should sacrifice every relation and wait for her to leave 🙂
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