Originally posted by: Solitudelover
I am not saying that she is trying to guilt trip.. My point was somewhere inside she still holds him responsible just like the way she had spoken immediately after Ak death, trying to push him away during cremation etc... Irrespective of whether to Ar she has said not to hold himself responsible.. Else it would not have come out when she was broken today 10 months after the event... And nothing Ar do can change the circumstances of Ak death.. How can there be a true relationship when you hold the other person responsible for the death of the person you loved the most somewhere in your heart.. And the other person also hold guilt for the same
There was a true relationship between Kartik and Naira where Kartik held Naira responsible for Shubham's death (which was due to drug overdose) but he never stopped loving her. Here Akshara's death was an accident. Armaan wasn't responsible for it but Akshara died saving him. Whether saving him was her responsibility or not she died saving him. Abhira words "If Armaan didn't came there that day her mom would be alive" more than a blame it was a yearning if her mom didn't die, she would never have to face all those circumstances she faced, but how she is imagining Akshara would be alive? Akshara was fated to die that day, she could've died saving Abhira leaving literally nobody by her side.
Abhira and MG tho waise bhi follow up karna bhool Gaye after Ak's birthday photo exchange.. tho ab Armaan Ki baari 
I think whatever Abhira said is what she wished happened, not blaming Armaan and his action/inaction as the direct cause and effect
How many times do we think of the if only, kaash yeh aisa hota, yeh aisa nahin hota. As they say the hindsight is always 20/20. That is what I saw Abhira saying. She did this very calmly, as she herself was breaking from the inside. I felt that she is entitled to say whatever she felt to the one person whom she feels attached to, in a moment when she lost everything including her very own identity
How many times do we snap at people who love us and be there for us when we are stressed? Because, let us face it, we know they will take these outbursts
I felt that was the root of all of her hurt. Maanaa ki their's is not a real marriage, but she didn't know the existence of a 3rd person in that marriage. So when you think about it she made a fool of herself as she sparred so many times with Ruhi about her interference between her and Armaan. She thought she was replying with all rights to Ruhi, little did she know that Armaan put her in a position of ridicule.
Aise humiliation se koi bhi, kaise normal ho sakte hain? Unfortunately, these acts of Armaan are very difficult to reconcile with and forgive. She didn't know the vulgar kaand of him going on to try and write on the temple walls, what explanation or justification can he give to that kaand? But he still dared to say " hum aisa kuch nahin kiya" which is a total lie at that time
. When you think about it, that is one of the worst things he has done, actually planning his future with Ruhi waiting for Abhira to finish her term as his wife and leave
. He brought a sincerity and honesty to Armaan
Something in that guy's body language was so off
Call me petty, but I hated it
. Ruhi is taking a moral high ground of a bechari, jilted woman and the whole blame is on Armaan
while both of them played their roles in the mess they created in Rohit and Abhira's lives
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