Originally posted by: Nhikia
Bhai ppl need to understand she suffered 25 yrs of abuse from her in laws kids *except samar* and ofc husband since her youth she barely completed her studies and got married off she had been taught this vo waise nahi behave karegi jaise tum log soch re hon her decisions will not be independent of her past Anuj was a well educated man he should have assigned her a therapist and then get married or adopted adhya
This is quite complicated but ppl expecting her to simply cut her relations and draw healthy boundaries ... it ain't possible at that time she needed a therapist 100% she would have started slowly detaching herself from that house
Plus mujhe ek baat nahi samjh sabka background dekhar unke conditions samjh aati par ye Hasmukh iske paas toh power thi paise the ye toh jo bhi galat hota use hone se rok sakhta tha ya abhi bhi rok sakta hain par ye kuch bolta kyu nahi har sameh itna clueless kyu rehta
Most indian women and asian women are treated like anupama ta home by hubby and in laws
If they get divorced no one goes back to ex hubby place everyday that too when own kids dis like her
My maids hubby had betrayed like vanraj and married another woman. This lady left house with her 3 ids 3 year old 14 year old 16 year old. Only 19 year old son stayed with father. Her parents did not allow her back her brothers in fear she will ask share in dad property ok. So she did maid job in 10 houses and still doing till all her kids finish college etc and have better life. One day she never went to in laws place ok. Even though elder son there. There has been no legal separation as hubby do not want to give her or his ids any compensation. Even she never asked for it because her hubby is middle class not so rich(but he works and is college graduate in 90s like anuj or vanraj only) . She has self respect only 10th pass she cook in 10 houses and wash clothes and vessels to make money to feed kids pay rent send them school. Shes same age as anupama 45-48 may be.
What i want to say is woman similar to anupama situation in 40s but have never gone back to hubby house again even if kid there in home. Not all need therapy if they have self respect no one goes back to ex hubby house at all. Anupama lacks self respect so keeps going to vanraj house although even pakhi and toshu do not want her there
Edited by myviewprem - 17 days ago
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