Originally posted by: Pinecone
I am loving the light hearted stuff and also the manaoing and Armaan being majnu sa and romeo walking around his juliet, standing in rain, basically living outside her current home etc doing all these grand things for her.
But at some point the convo from Armaans side/introspection from his side needs to be- How to actually earn her trust, how to make her feel secure about her place in his life. he is admitting his faults, he is sorry about everything and hurting her which is all great. but simply saying ILU and standing outside her door is not gonna convince her that anything has actually "changed" circumstantially when he still says- I'll manaofy Dadisa about us. Dadi ko nahi manayega toh kya woh phir seh zillat seh kar bhi uss ghar mein rahein ya phirseh he'll dump her saying Kaveri comes before Abhira. thats the question he needs to answer. he already knows how spiteful his dadi is. she literally HATES Abhira and he even asked her- koi kisi insaan seh itni nafrat kaise kar sakta hai. so he needs to be realistic and address the elephant in the room- what is his plan when Kaveri adamantly refuses Abhira and him getting married again and her being bahu and returning to PH. which is VERY likely to happen. Infact the only way it wont happend and she agrees to Abhira being back is if she wants to use that as a ploy to prove once again Abhira is a misfit and show Armaan that pyaar vyaar is BS and BREAK Abhira like she already tried to do with hiring her as planner for Ar-Ruhi shaadi
Vidya will just toe the line to what Kaveri says. she is inconsequential
because pyaar Abhira karti hai- he already knows that. infact pyaar hai- yeh bhi pehle Abhira ne hi kaha, and even now twice she has clearly acknowledged- "main bhi pyaar karti hun, bahut karti hoon , humesha karungi but I cant trust you" . its that simple. Abhira fell in love first and she wanted him to love her back but she could have dealt with it if he simply didnt reciprocate her feelings. but what has hurt her, is that he threw her out harshly, beizzatified her, forgot about how she has no one and isnt really financially secure, didnt check on her even out of courtesy for the promise made to her and her dying mom, and let his anger over his "family" not liking her (specifically Vidya and Kaveri) cloud his judgement so much that he just lashed out. That means his legally wedded wife is really not seen by him as family and only as deal/bojh/etc. so if his feelings have really changed or he has finally realized what his true feelings for her are- then he needs to do more than just ask her to get back with him
She is dying to run into his arms and be with him forever, she just needs something concrete that she can actually hinge her bets on- to see that he really will not put anyone over her. It cant be lip service of I promise I will be there, I will not let you cry etc etc. It has to be something tangible.
I think she may melt way more easily if Armaan even just says something like- "worst case if Kaveri/Vidya dont agree to our relationship, I will leave that home to be with you. because even if I love my family but I cant lose you just to live with them. I can be a good son even without living with them under the same roof. but you are my first priority". a guy like Armaan even suggesting leaving his family and moving out of PH to be with her is a big deal and if he says that- it will immediately make Abhira melt i think. If she hears that he will choose her if he is left with no option then thats all she needs. She has no one except him. thats why she needs that assurance
uska sirf itna kehna hi kaafi hoga Abhira ke liye. she will NEVER actually make him leave his family because she knows not only how much he loves them and is used to his joint family setup but she herself has craved this- she loved the whole family and not just him and she has wanted this always- a whole bunch of people with named relations- maa, papa, dadi, chacha, chachi, fufa, bua, siblings etc.
sherwani dekh dekh k meri ankhin jal gyin thin
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