Sexual infidelity is not a deal breaker - Karan Johar advice - Page 7

Originally posted by: Fantus

Cheating is a very basic human trait. We all cheat others for something or the other all the time. If anybody says they've never cheated consciously or subconsciously they are A grade liars.

I don't think it should be made into such a big deal. Laut ke ullu ghar hi aana hai end mein toh why disturb peaceful set up? Like i said Learn to live and live..you have to give enough space to your partner for him or her so that they feel suffocated. If they wanna take a break from you for a while without taking divorce, nothing wrong! If they don't wanna tell you why, it should be their choice. Understand that they care enough to not want to hurt your feelings by telling all. I don't think it's necessarily to share everything once you are married.

People are being too senti here when it comes to fidelity. I think they need not be. Like I said it's basic human nature to like and feel attracted to more than one person during such a long life span.

Stop projecting your lack of morals onto the entirety of humankind, hombre

Originally posted by: Supari_khala

Stop projecting your lack of morals onto the entirety of humankind, hombre

I don't think anyone can stop me, not on an online portal atleast😆

Originally posted by: Fantus

I don't think anyone can stop me, not on an online portal atleast😆

But don’t cheat 😂

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Burn the house down

But don’t cheat 😂

I think cheating is fun😆

Originally posted by: Fantus

I think cheating is fun😆

What if you live in a nice neighborhood. An your partner sleeps w everyone in that neighborhood.

Is that still fun ?

Originally posted by: infinity101

No wonder BW is a sh*thole. With people like KJo giving such pathetic advices to their friends.Now I can understand from where Alia’s emotional infidelity crap comes. And hey so good to see you after so long. Where have you been?❤️🤗

Hey you! 🤗 It has been a long time! ❤️ The offline world had beckoned so wasn't visiting IF. Any drama happening on here that I missed and should know about? 😉

To each their own but KJo needs to stop giving unsolicited advice. A person can't help the way they feel, if sexual infidelity is a deal breaker for someone then so be it. The safest way to live is to stay single and make sure all your partners know where you stand whether you consider it casual, exclusive, committed, open, etc. and then be on the same page.

yeh sab baatein sunne aur kehne mein posh lagti hain, in reality if somebody says something about your favorite film star ppl can't take it and will go beserk, a star whom you probably never saw or will see in your real life and then preach detachment from the person you are most spending your life with

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

What if you live in a nice neighborhood. An your partner sleeps w everyone in that neighborhood.

Is that still fun ?

I said cheating is fun. Never recommended to be cheated on, did I?😆

Cheating (emotional, sexual, mental , financial blah) essentially means ur selfishly looking after ur own needs while not giving a crap abt ur partners …and lying to them abt it

That’s the ultimate disrespect to your partner and there can’t be a healthy relationship there…

A person with integrity would realise their existing relationship isn’t working out and come clean to their partner ….and if breaking it off makes more sense atleast u were honest with ur partner and respected their right to find themselves a partner they love aswell …

I’m old school so I don’t get open marriages but atleast there is some respect there because you and partner are both clear abt ur intentions to each other …one of them is not being kept in the dark while the other does whatever they want

ok open relations are fine, why expect fidelity, be open and make it applicable to both partners

but then why marry, marraige legal, as a social or sometimes religous construct (not always) is about fidelity

why not just live together and make a will for whatever financial neccessities

why marry