Originally posted by: Pinecone
Emotional baggage and trauma of Ruhi is an exaggeration. She got a decent enough upbringing and is always given long rope by all including sasural folks for no reason. she's responsible for her own crappy personality now. This crutch of baggage, upbringing, trauma,etc that she gets is not really fair imo. Yes her childhood hasn't been great but neither has Abhiras, or Armaans . Everyone has had something and lacked something. Even Rohit or Krish/Charu have had some childhood issues with things they wanted but couldn't get. Rohit had absentee father and was made to feel like he needed to one up Armaan always . So no one had baggage/trauma free childhood. But only Ruhi has turned out so stupid and pathetic.
I completely agree..and that's how they should show it.
No one is pardoned off their mistakes because of their sufferings. Its like saying if an abusive child turns out to be a pyscho because he was abused and mentally traumatised, does it mean we can pardon him for his mistakes. No. Our actions and the path we take despite our hardships in life truly makes us who we are. We cannot blame it on the world.
But the goenkas ll never realise this. That's the reason ruhi was given such a upbringing. Despite the fact she was born in a happy household, she held on to her past and snatched the only person in Abhira's life. And the fact that the goenkas especially swarna still keeps saying that armaan had ruined ruhi's life and Abhira has snatched ruhi's happiness proves it.
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