I have a very different take on this. Since it's an open forum I think I can share it with u.
I don't feel he was oblidged to tell her about his past...
She was anyway going to leave after one year whats the need to drag her into the mess...
That should not be her problem ki he didn't tell..
If she is an over-expressive person thats her issue not armaan's..
I also don't tell many things related to my life to my best friend..
Becoz I don't like over-sharing whats the big deal.
I never ever seen her questioning armaan once that why he and his ex gaslighted her and used her as a way out when they both get caught while planning their future.
Her issue is childish that how come armaan had a love before her or that he is a playboy who will keep on jumping from one girl to another and this is coming when just the day after he put his life on line while saving her not to forget he left his family....so this question on his love was a below belt blow...she should have listened to him and than questioned his intention based on replies, becoz reasons were so strong that she cpuld still corner him... but madam take a stupid rant you lived ruhi now me tommorow someone else🤷♀️
And biggest issue is her clean chit to ruhi and taking her as a victim as she thought herself to be..
And if she don't want to address the actual cat in the room herself..
I can't close my eyes and say okay thik hai jo bhi hai.
Her reasons were so strong and valid for making armaan cry but the track she chose and herself made a mockery of heartbreak..what to say...
I sometime feel sad sometime angry sometime irritated...
A guy , according to her a two timer and she should be running away as far as possible( aaj mile ho.dobara mat milna thats what she said right) and going back to same guy's father and saying him that she don't know anyone with name armaam,its aughable to me, and had hi ho gi ab toh she is living in that same guy's house( take note its not in a way to call.her freeloader thats not the issue), its being near and face to face with same disloyal man and above all saying maa mas to a lady who was equally partake in armaan's ema crime by hiding it and not to mention enjoying and partying with same guy's family....
See you can ignore these things I can't.
So lets be agree to disagree becoz very respectfully dear I can't argue..
I got your viewpoint..
I mentioned mine..
Our perspectives are way different...
OK u just said Abhira and Armaan had a deal marriage and that's why he was not obliged to tell her the truth.Fine enough .Marriage was not normal but atleast it was a deal right..A deal between Armaan and Abhira.So under every damn circumstances,he was obliged to keep the integrity of that deal.Did he ? If I make a deal with a certain person, I also have the responsibility to never allow a third person to barge into that. Its that only .Yes he had a relationship or infatuation with Ruhi or whatever. That's his problem na.He was very well able to see how Ruhi was continuously coming in btw them and demeaning Abhira for just being a deal wife.Either he should have kept Ruhi in boundaries or he should have let Abhira know the reason of Ruhi's over interference in their life. If he had done that then things would not have been so complicated right?..Ok I understand how he was bounded by family,Ruhi's manipulations etc.But still all I am saying is when u make a person a part of your family,u shd also have the responsibility to keep transparency with that person.
Abhira was overexpressive??? And what about him? Did he not tell Abhira that I know you better than anyone else.Did he not have strong emotional attachments with her? Esp during that hospital track and yuv track? Armaan always wanted Abhira to share each and every single thing about her daily life..So vahi expectations agar Abhira rakhe to over expectations kaise?? Their marriage was only a deal in paper na..For me it seemed so .Apart from not having a physical relationship they were legit behaving like a husband and wife. Becoming each other's comfort zone, support system,solving problems together etc .Isi reason se hi to Ruhi bar bar interfere kar Rahi thi. She had to remember AA time and time again that their marriage was only deal one.
She had no problems with Armaan's past life .But the chitwali being Ruhi made all the difference..And meri perspective mein vo bahut badi baat hain.
Ok that's it. Its just a different take and no way trying to have a fight with u
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