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Originally posted by: Hiral_Halwa
Il defend Haya a bit here..
so haya right from the start..has been "not the ideal character"..she makes mistakes, she was brash and immature and even selfish for her love for hadi in the past..but she is also someone who is no filter..not some sacrificial queen..u get what u see..her actions are impulsive whether its admitting to loving hadi in front of uroosa, leaving her house, missing out on faiz's intentions by a whisker and also asking rameez around 1384263473821 times to not push the envelope to their relationship..she only ever wanted him to be her friend..that too not for her own convenience..but because rameez was persistent..despite haya's consistent reminder and pushing him away.and how she behaved with hadi in the last episode..does that mean she was cheating on rameez? she loves hadi unconditionally, and even if we take that part out, she always had a soft spot for hadi as a friend, as a childhood buddy, I mean she has grown up with him..so seeing him happy would have made her happy..and she knew it before marriage itself that hadi is just hiding his emotions, in the numerous confrontations there..hadi has limited himself in his own goodness, he doesnt want to wrong farisa and ruin the peace or the show of it, but he wronged himself and haya both in the process.going in line with that, there wasnt going to be a 360 degree change in haya just becoz she got married, I would hate to see her suddenly emerging as a perfect wife..it had to come with a jhatka, which happened towards the end of last epi..and rameez..he subtly forced haya to marry him..she never admitted to love, she even refused for marriage on skype for once, but for fulfillment of his own whims and fancies, this guy brushes hints and even clear cut No's aside..and now finds fault with haya-hadi relationship..its creepy..was it not evident to him beforehand itself? hadi's protectiveness for haya, haya's avoiding his calls..?and I believe even if haya would have told rameez about her love for hadi, rameez would have still not left her alone..and tried to uproot hadi out completely, harm him or something..going in line with his character sketch..
Originally posted by: starstruckk
I agree, Haya isn't an idealistic character..but the writer specifically had HER get married out of HER own free will because she wanted to prove a point..yet she completely forgot about it all as soon as she got married.
No one forced Haya to do anything..she married because she was stubborn..she married Rameez to prove to Hadi how she doesn't need him and how she'll go ahead and do whatever he tells her not to because Hadi was against this marriage initially. Let's keep that in mind while looking at her character here. So, what happened all of a sudden? she couldn't even last a FEW HRS without Hadi.
I don't expect Haya to have a 360 degree turn, but what's her character graph? I personally think she has the worst characterization in this entire show. She's neither consistent and neither inconsistent..😆..she's just all over the place. I don't expect her to stop talking to Hadi, neither do I expect Hadi to stop talking to her..but what I found incredibly weird is how it hasn't even been one day since she got married and she's trying to literally lure Hadi...😕 There are WAYS to show a bond. Hadi and Haya's bond is not shown in the best way possibly in my eyes. They don't have boundaries..and I as a viewer find that cringeworthy. I understand that they unconditionally love each other..but that doesn't mean you have to act like a child and act all clingy. That to me is not unconditional love..but rather, childish behavior and more like the character in question being somewhat ridiculous.
Haya should have started to back off from Hadi the minute SHE decided to get married because SHE wanted to. It would've showed growth in her character. Backing off does not mean ignoring him or behaving badly with him..but in fact means, her trying to grow up because she's not a kid anymore..and someone elses wife. Haya only backed off once Hadi told her to...everything about her is dependent upon Hadi...had Hadi not told her to grow up, the writer would have probably shown Haya spending another week at his home. 😆
I find Fareesa and Rameez annoying as hell..but, I don't like the way the writer has shown Hadi and Haya's relationship. There's a lack of respect between the two. You can love someone unconditionally, even when you're married yet respect their space and show mutual bonding. Haya is too obsessed with Hadi and her character has absolutely no growth.
Originally posted by: starstruckk
The only thing here is that Fareesa and Rameez are ridiculous themselves which allow the viewers to root for Haya and Hadi even more..had one of them been normal then the possibility of Hadi and Haya ever reuniting would've just been wrong. That's where Shukk was criticized...and this is where I feel Sameera Fazal seems to lose the plot midway.
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