Originally posted by: bips
Salaar needs to leave. He doesn't need to talk or explain anything to sitara. Forget a wife, if any person doesn't have basic decency to not hurt someone who is already hurting from the death of family, you need to kick them out of your life
Sitara is probably one of the worst female leads i have ever seen.. no one should be forced to spend the rest of their life with her. ... kuch logon ko mohabbat raas hi nahin aati
I don't think that is how life works unfortunately. Sitara is dumb, no doubt about that, but she is also a good person. In fact, a far better human being than many or most around her. Salar understands that and that is why he is in love with her and is supporting her by ignoring or tolerating her extraneous behaviour. But also, he himself needs support. He is a human and like Sitara, he is also very young. He is supposed to be around 24 years old right now. That is a young age to get married. It is clear that neither of them have enough maturity to handle real life and emotions right now without any external guidance or support.
Sitara is grieving because she feels like she has lost the one elder in her sasural who has accepted her unconditionally. Especially so in a sasural which is hostile to her. Not surprising because she is only around 20 years old and what she had craved for most is a family particularly the love and blessings of an elder.
But here is the thing. Now is not the time to make it about you. Considering the fact that she has seen death and grief even prior to this, it is very immature of her to behave like this. Your husband is handling it much better than you.
It is good that Saba admonished her and redirected her because she really needed to step up as Salar's wife right now. He needs support. She needs to learn to set her own grief aside and support him. Getting up and leaving is all that Salar had been doing prior to his marriage. If he couldn't deal with something, he used to run away.
Unfortunately, adults do not have the luxury to run away. They have to face the world even if they do not want to. And both Salar and Sitara need to do that. That being growing up. Salar can not pack up and leave just because he can not handle things any more and Sitara can not become so wrapped up in her emotions that she forgets that she is no longer a child anymore.
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