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I know the hate for Pakhi..... actually I haven't watched surrogacy in the flow but later for knowing major areas and as what I say leap changed everything for me.....

I didn't have problem with Holi at that time Virat was drunk so his real soul came out.....bahut pyaara tha woh

But losing womb, and suicidal stuffs wrt child or husband felt hard.....I used to always dislike her but they should have shown few months leap instead of years and years.....where she became maid.....

I agree on Virat's love I was laughing on him one time that ye ladka kisi aur ko pasand kya hi karega......after going through 1000 things even after 7years he was searching Sai in every moment.....

I can't blame writers because not even a single means not even a single time there was any kind of guilt from Sai's side -about always seperating Virat from children......in the end when Virat started accepting his pain then she started giving him some respect as father otherwise toh main iss ko tv mein aake kha jaata.....

Virat had a beautiful side and I wasn't understanding Sai's pain after leap kya kya non sense dikhaya inhone......

I reiterate saying I didn't cared for Pakhis pain a bit ..no matter how much sympathy the makers wanted to give it for her I didn't give a damn...still do...yes I used to be angry on Sai but my anger subsided with the genius minds who were writing all stupidity in the name of drama...

I decided to stay aloof and stop searching answers and focus on Sairat and their end journey....that's how I made myself ready for all garbage getting thrown post leap...

My take on didi from the beginning to when she thankfully disappeared -- (using P for didi and V for Virat, S for Samrat)

Firstly, Virakhi met in that yoga retreat for a day or 2, actually 1 and a half days.. I will not accept anything more no matter what the dialogues later were. They both "felt" something which "could" lead to marriage, ok fine. P felt a little more for V than the other way, may be. P was the one who decided to get married to the first guy her parents showed w/o waiting for V, doesn't matter how she felt about it. If S wasn't V's brother, she would have forgotten about V on the day of her marriage. So she was ready to put V behind and move on with S. She was a normal girl until she met V again in haldi.. now she knew he was her devar and V making that wierd promise which made no sense anyway, she married S. She kept lusting over V all the time after her marriage and as we all know it continued forever. Imo, S should have stayed and handled the situation differently rather than leaving everything for V to handle. P had no one to control her lust with S gone, and she made Sairat's life very

She kept giving that lust for V, the name of love. Now, ff to the leap. They showed that she changed before leap, I understand but she only changed from the criminal during the surrogacy track (where she even attempted murder, I think..not sure) to that lusty bhabhi she was! Her lust for V always remained till the end. She was bidding her time after her "marriage" to V thinking that since Sai was out of the equation as she was dead, V will come to her at some point and she was ready to wait for him to get over Sai because there was no threat.

She knew very well that V had absolutely no feelings for her except gratitude for taking care of Vinu and his family in Sai's absence. V never allowed her near him and even resented when she even spoke a little like a wife. If she ever actually changed, cared or loved or understood V, she would have expected nothing from him after Sai came back. She would have willingly cleared the MUs between V and Sai and brought them together because in love we want the other to be happy. Her insecurity resurfaced as soon as V started paying attention to Sai and Savi because she only wanted V and did not care about what V wants. That is not love! That is sadism!

About Vinu, P was playing a mother with the intention of pleasing V more than for Vinu. I always felt she used Vinu to stay close to V. I agree she was a mother and took care of Vinu but the underlying motive for everything has always been to 'acquire' V. She kept Vinu away from V and Sai by poisoning his mind and that is not what a mother does! A mother doesn't let her kid be scared. A mother wouldn't leave her child when he needed her the most even if V wanted to divorce her. It clearly shows that P was in Chavan Nivas till the end because of V only and when V made it clear that he wanted a divorce, even Vinu did not matter anymore to her. She even wrote an instigating letter to Vinu against V before leaving.

In my opinion, P was a person who could never move on from V not because she loved him or she changed at any point but because she was obsessed with him!

I am not supporting Sai or Virat here, just giving my views on Pakhi didi and her shenanigans

Originally posted by: Dihiva

My take on didi from the beginning to when she thankfully disappeared -- (using P for didi and V for Virat, S for Samrat)

Firstly, Virakhi met in that yoga retreat for a day or 2, actually 1 and a half days.. I will not accept anything more no matter what the dialogues later were. They both "felt" something which "could" lead to marriage, ok fine. P felt a little more for V than the other way, may be. P was the one who decided to get married to the first guy her parents showed w/o waiting for V, doesn't matter how she felt about it. If S wasn't V's brother, she would have forgotten about V on the day of her marriage. So she was ready to put V behind and move on with S. She was a normal girl until she met V again in haldi.. now she knew he was her devar and V making that wierd promise which made no sense anyway, she married S. She kept lusting over V all the time after her marriage and as we all know it continued forever. Imo, S should have stayed and handled the situation differently rather than leaving everything for V to handle. P had no one to control her lust with S gone, and she made Sairat's life very

She kept giving that lust for V, the name of love. Now, ff to the leap. They showed that she changed before leap, I understand but she only changed from the criminal during the surrogacy track (where she even attempted murder, I think..not sure) to that lusty bhabhi she was! Her lust for V always remained till the end. She was bidding her time after her "marriage" to V thinking that since Sai was out of the equation as she was dead, V will come to her at some point and she was ready to wait for him to get over Sai because there was no threat.

She knew very well that V had absolutely no feelings for her except gratitude for taking care of Vinu and his family in Sai's absence. V never allowed her near him and even resented when she even spoke a little like a wife. If she ever actually changed, cared or loved or understood V, she would have expected nothing from him after Sai came back. She would have willingly cleared the MUs between V and Sai and brought them together because in love we want the other to be happy. Her insecurity resurfaced as soon as V started paying attention to Sai and Savi because she only wanted V and did not care about what V wants. That is not love! That is sadism!

About Vinu, P was playing a mother with the intention of pleasing V more than for Vinu. I always felt she used Vinu to stay close to V. I agree she was a mother and took care of Vinu but the underlying motive for everything has always been to 'acquire' V. She kept Vinu away from V and Sai by poisoning his mind and that is not what a mother does! A mother doesn't let her kid be scared. A mother wouldn't leave her child when he needed her the most even if V wanted to divorce her. It clearly shows that P was in Chavan Nivas till the end because of V only and when V made it clear that he wanted a divorce, even Vinu did not matter anymore to her. She even wrote an instigating letter to Vinu against V before leaving.

In my opinion, P was a person who could never move on from V not because she loved him or she changed at any point but because she was obsessed with him!

I am not supporting Sai or Virat here, just giving my views on Pakhi didi and her shenanigans

And I absolutely love you my Jaan for this...bang on...just Bulls eye....bas ..that proves my hate for Pakhi even more....yayyy...I am dancing

Originally posted by: Resham

And I absolutely love you my Jaan for this...bang on...just Bulls eye....bas ..that proves my hate for Pakhi even more....yayyy...I am dancing

There was a dialogue when V was after Sai where Sai says to P, "apne pati ko apne pas rakho, mujhe V mein koi interest nahi hai , tum bas mujhe Vinu dedo aur mein usse leke chali jaungi"

Didi says, "tumhe mein pagal dikhti hun? Tumhe lagta hai Vinu ke bina Virat mere sath rahega?"

It was clear that if it wasn't for V, P would have easily given up Vinu. She did the same thing when she was pregnant with Vinu(surrogacy track).. she put his life in danger every time she didn't get V's attention.. because that is what she is after.

Originally posted by: Ashane25

I know the hate for Pakhi..... actually I haven't watched surrogacy in the flow but later for knowing major areas and as what I say leap changed everything for me.....

I didn't have problem with Holi at that time Virat was drunk so his real soul came out.....bahut pyaara tha woh

But losing womb, and suicidal stuffs wrt child or husband felt hard.....I used to always dislike her but they should have shown few months leap instead of years and years.....where she became maid.....

I agree on Virat's love I was laughing on him one time that ye ladka kisi aur ko pasand kya hi karega......after going through 1000 things even after 7years he was searching Sai in every moment.....

@bold - well, karma is a B, isn't it? Didn't she cause havoc in Sairat's life when they lost a baby during abortion track and then everything she did to become the surrogate of V's child. Just because she is pretending to have changed post leap, karma sudhar jayega kya? She reaped what she sowed! Even though I feel bad when such things are shown, everything is clear in the big picture. No sympathies whatsoever

I have no sympathies for Didi...that's it....nothing can defend her

Long note:

Tbh I can understand and actually what all you wrote I had already discussed or know views- a lot about didi with other buddies too.....In this note I am nowhere trying to feel for her just stating her end as what I can write for Sai's sins too......

For me as what I think Pakhi was never vile she became toxic in the course of approaching Virat....she got attracted to Virat (his overall personality and family oriented side) as what she described in picnic trip too...... and she was really crying many times until Samrat came because Sairat were getting more and more attached that's why her hatred towards Sai increased with time( PL was never a criminal, if you remember that's why CN elders didn't involve her in Pulkit kidnapping), when Samrat got back after cafe incident where she got rejected by Virat (even after showing all her pain) her toxicity rose to next level..... if she had imagined Virat as her future husband or whatever vanished, left with just negativity towards Sai......biggest evidence is Shruti track where she had no problems with Virat's EMA ......

They haven't shown this but I think after rejection she already got the habit of living with Samrat and immediately after Sairat's second marriage......she was able to move on from her negativity towards Sai too and got conscious of her love towards him......

Again drama in the show- she lost Samrat, this time she had no one to call as true support before she had in the name of Virat and Kaku gang as ideal bahu- when Samrat was missing and after he came -Samrat's hidden love or presence.......now as she lost her love second time and the hope of having family indirectly because of Sai......all her pain transformed into negativity which led to even crimes ( I don't think so she wanted to kill Sai it was goons who hurted her, she just gave pain what she got, snatching her husband and child- failed in both- because plan was baseless)......

Now coming to leap: she clearly repented in jail to herself what all she did in surrogacy and that's why the woman who was lusting over a man by losing all her morals and even went for crimes in surrogacy......never tried even once to trap Virat in 7years, when actually it was the best time as she was free from all the obstacles and lived in deal marriage only for Vinu.......after Sai came she knew very well Virat never moved on and he still loves Sai then also she supported her even for deal wala dad after Savi's exposure but when she lost womb, at one side clearly lost husband after a long sham over to it Vinu came out Sairat's son- she left......after picnic wala accident that's why she decided to leave- first life and when she got saved- Virat......Virat stopped her because of what all she did for him and family plus Vinu....

(Love isn't an ideal term- Sai used to be hurt with mere Pakhi's presence when Virat was giving all the importance to Sai only(in deal marriage) and the same goes for Pakhi's case after leap ....imagine I snatch Sai's husband, ability to conceive and over to that her only adopted child.......when she lived in namesake marriage for so many years expecting nothing in return......)

Originally posted by: Dihiva

@bold - well, karma is a B, isn't it? Didn't she cause havoc in Sairat's life when they lost a baby during abortion track and then everything she did to become the surrogate of V's child. Just because she is pretending to have changed post leap, karma sudhar jayega kya? She reaped what she sowed! Even though I feel bad when such things are shown, everything is clear in the big picture. No sympathies whatsoever

If I see the bigger picture(whole ghum) ,Sai was dam lucky (she was herself a reason for what all she got other than Pakhi) and Virat was dam unlucky(if I keep aside some of his wrong areas) and Pakhi was vile so she got her karma but time and position got me sympathy for her.......I am not justifying her but maine kabhi sahi waqt pe bura hote pasand nhi kiya......