Originally posted by: sweet_tania
@bold : Agar ap IVF child/children ki insult nahi karna chahte the toh yeh kyun project kiya ki IVF kid biological nahi hota?! IVF kid bhi hota toh apne maa baap ke genetics ka ansh he hai kyunki yaha donor egg/donor sperm ka scene tha nahi.
Thik hai na yaha forummai bahot se log middle class and upper middle class hai so it's not a thing lekin ap udd=haari par udhaari karo , udhaar chukane ka paisa bhi na ho tab yeh jutha jutha project karo ki hum bade self respect wale hai issue waha hai. Jutha jutha project na karo self respect jaap. Duniya mai bahot log loan lete hai,car loan, home loan, education loan, wedding loan lekin woh log har dusre line mai bina head tail ka yeh bhi falunt nahi karte ki hum bade self respectwale. As you said har koi ambani nahi hota and ofcourse this forum is full of middle class people.
Akshara was catalyst of manyyy deaths and there is no denying in that. Unborn bacche tak ko nahi choda tha. As a mother, mai toh usse kabhi maaf nahi kar sakti. Mere liye wah bahot he bekaar waahiyat maa thi. Yaha tak ki apne 6 saal ke marre hue bacche ki photo tak ko haar chadha kar apne ghar ke kisi kone mai jagah nahi diya, woh chahti toh apni adult beti ko apne 6 saal ke marre hue bade bhai ka sach bata sakti thi lekin apne bade bete ko itna bhi respect bekaar maa ne nahi diya.
Aap meri baat ghuma rhi hai... I never said that IVF kid isn't the biological child. Science student hu... 1950's ki saasu ma nhi. I questioned about the fact ki Aarohi pregnant nhi thi. She then goes into an IVF centre... Without Neil jaisa ki aapne khud kaha... And then we know she is pregnant. Yaha pe Abheera ke conceiving process ki discussion hui... Maine Ruhi ki karli... Big deal?
I never said Akshara bohot achhi sacchi thi... No she wasn't. But she wasn't completely vile either.. Jaisa usko yaha project kiya jata hai... You said catalyst. Right word to use.
Bachpan me Sirat usko bachaate hue mari. Point was... Akshara waha kyu gayi. Aarohi ko bhi mana kiya tha na bahar jaane se... Ghar se bhaagi Aarohi thi na... Sirat ne paath padhaya tha na... Behen ko akela mat chhodna. Vo chhoti hai... Mera bhai aaj bhi even though he lives in a hostel and is in 8th std.... Jab ghar aata hai aur das minute ke liye bhi bina bataye jata hai to mai uske piche jaati hu... Bhale hi vo mumma ke paas ja rha ho... I see to it ki vo unke paas pohch gya hai... To mere liye Akshara did the same... Yes it was bad ki Sirat died. I do understand the kid Aarohi's anger but for people here to justify that... It's beyond me
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