So the Bachchans made huge statement, that Abhi-Aish are separated - Page 11

Originally posted by: Clochette

What if Aish didn't want to have SRK (and/or Hrithik) at her wedding??? Not everything is the Bachchan's 'fault' (if even one want to label it as 'fault'). And it had been in a long ago past...

It was Aish. Jaya said it herself that she loves SRK and wanted to have him and would have even changed the wedding dates for him but what can she do when Aish didn't want it?

Anyway, she can invite whoever she wants. Nobody was dying to attend in the first place.

Originally posted by: Chingaari

This thread is more interesting thn whole ambani wedding .

Han yar sachi

Originally posted by: hotchoco

It was Aish. Jaya said it herself that she loves SRK and wanted to have him and would have even changed the wedding dates for him but what can she do when Aish didn't want it?

Anyway, she can invite whoever she wants. Nobody was dying to attend in the first place.

I have always gotten vibes of Aishwarya being problematic. I have read how she used to pretend in front of her parents as if Salman was forcefully keeping her in relationship & with Salman she used to be a different person acting all cool & attending his family gatherings. She has always been a double face person. Abhi bhi people are trying to portray her as some Cinderella who is stuck in the claws of Jaya & family, when in reality there is no truth to it. You seriously think someone of her stature will take shit from her flop husband & in-laws? She can easily go for a divorce & take shit tons of alimony but won’t do it coz she is stuck with the influential Bachchan surname & won’t give up on that no matter what

Originally posted by: BhataktiJawani

I have always gotten vibes of Aishwarya being problematic. I have read how she used to pretend in front of her parents as if Salman was forcefully keeping her in relationship & with Salman she used to be a different person acting all cool & attending his family gatherings. She has always been a double face person. Abhi bhi people are trying to portray her as some Cinderella who is stuck in the claws of Jaya & family, when in reality there is no truth to it. You seriously think someone of her stature will take shit from her flop husband & in-laws? She can easily go for a divorce & take shit tons of alimony but won’t do it coz she is stuck with the influential Bachchan surname & won’t give up on that no matter what

I somewhat agree to this

I have seen Abhishek's interviews he gives good vibes & Aish is very intelligent

More than ash & abhi it's more likely that the clash is with in laws

Wich Heroine stays with in laws---and why to stay even common people like to stay seperate

even most cricketerss stays seperate

RK and Alia are buying new house

Saif-Kareena dont stay with sharmila tagore

Shilpa shetty ka to atta pata hi nahi hai

Bipasha basu---gharjamai---kSG

Kiara and SId--stays sepearte

AND i gurantee forum people will also do same

We can go and help when they need HELP

its common----everyone needs SPACE

Originally posted by: Novarieaa

Jaya B invited Rekha over to dinner and told her she will never leave her husband. That is a well known fact. If she really wanted to move on, she would have. Rather they all acted out their real life in Silsila. What grace, not!

AB sr's patriarchy is such a well known subject. God he said his daughter's husband should decide if she wants to work in BW! Google if you need more.

If you think Abhishek never had a relationship besides Karishma, well good for you

Of course Ash married for the Bacchan name because she was being hounded by an abusive ex and was a victim of DV, but pre-marriage, she was a bigger star than Abhishek could ever dream of being. She always, always overshadowed Abhishek.

Ash married Bachchan name to become Bollywood royalty and she secured her place in the industry by playing her cards smartly. She was already very famous but adding Bachchan to her name made her more popular. Being Bachchan Bahu increased her status in Bollywood because even though she was the Miss World once upon a time and a self-proclaimed Global Icon, she's not from a film family and she didn't have the status of Bachchans, Kapoors, Bhatts, Johars, Chopras, Khannas, Khans, Deols, Mukherjees, Samarths, and Oberois.

She led on Vivek Oberoi for 2.5 years because he was an eligible bachelor from a film family. He was also touted as the next Shah Rukh Khan. Ash dropped him as soon as she trapped Abhishek whose father is the biggest fish in Bollywood. Abhishek was the most eligible bachelor in Bollywood from 2000-2007. He had finally started to give hits after his initial flop years. Aish saw that Abhishek was the most eligible guy + he was giving hits and she saw Abhishek as her ticket to Bollywood legacy. Back then, Ash had the reputation for dating guys who were delivering hits and dumping them when they flopped.

Many actresses tried their luck but Ash was successful in becoming Bachchan Bahu because she directly coaxed Amitabh who was more excited to make Ash his Bahurani than Abhishek was to get married to Aishwarya.

Ash should really stop cashing on her perpetual victim drama of being harassed and hounded by abusive ex and her being a victim of DV. That's all a pretense to cover up her dating men for her advantage. The list of her ex's is long but if you're hinting at Salman then it's baloney because Salman didn't contact her after 2003 so the sob story of bechaari Ash forced to marry the son of India's biggest superstar in 2007 just to escape one of her ex-boyfriends who had no contact with her for 4 years is just being a sympathy-seeker which she has always been. If you're hinting at Vivek, then it's sad how she discarded Vivek after she found Abhishek. She two-timed both Vivek and Abhishek and didn't bother to inform Vivek that she broke up with him. When Vivek saw it on the news that Abhi-Ash were a couple, he called Aishwarya. Aish didn't take his call and sent a text "I don't owe you anything!"

Ash used Abhishek just like she used Salman and Vivek.

Originally posted by: FatalFlaw

None of them are at fault. Sometimes marriages don't work out, and it's better to separate than stay unhappy.

However, Aish benefited more from the marriage in the early years than the Bachhans did. She was sidelined by Bollywood, and marrying into an influential family like the Bachans helped her combat that. Sure, she could have married any wealthy man, but it wouldn't have given her the same advantages as being part of a big Bollywood family. Actresses who marry outside the industry often have to give up their careers, which she clearly wasn't ready to do in 2007.

Aish is the only one who benefited from the marriage. She extended her film career by becoming a Bachchan and got the front seat at every Bollywood event. She used to accompany Amitabh everywhere. She was at every award ceremony, every Bollywood event, every film party, even political events. She got movies (Sarkar Raj, Umrao Jaan, Dhoom 2) because she was Abhishek's girlfriend. She got all possible awards she could get from 2007-2011 because she was Bachchan Bahu. Jaya and Amitabh presented her with specially created awards at IIFA. Amitabh organized The Unforgettable Tour for his beloved Bahurani. He even announced a girl's college named after Bahurani Aishwarya (and not for his daughter Shweta).

From 2007-2011, Bachchans were busy pampering and supporting their Bahurani. She was seen more with Amitabh than with Abhishek and she didn't let Jaya stand next to Amitabh. Jaya had a lot of patience for dealing with a daughter-in-law who clearly overstepped the boundaries.

But did she thank them? Did she ever acknowledge their support? Instead of reciprocating their warmth and support, she started saying only her daughter and her parents matter to her. She started calling Rekha Maa in front of Jaya. What's worse is that she has portrayed them as toxic, misogynists, regressive, and patriarchal.

Bachchans didn't get anything by making Ash their Bahurani. They have more wealth and properties than her and they certainly don't need each other's moneys. The only thing Aishwarya could have given to Bachchans were grandchildren and she didn't give them this joy. She kept her daughter to herself and didn't let Bachchans and even the father Abhishek bond with her daughter. She only let her parents bond with Aaradhya. This is the reason Amitabh and Jaya brought their daughter Shweta and her kids to Mumbai and started pampering them.

Now after cashing on the benefits of being a Bachchan for 17 years, she acts like she doesn't need Bachchan surname....just like she says that Salman ruined her career (even though he boosted her dead career by giving her HDDCS) and that Vivek did the press conference for himself and not because she instigated him too.

Enjoy precious memories of Bachchan Parivaar from happy days

Aah the classic ‘Aish did Abhi favor’ chats. Rich but kind Aishu, poor and bechara Abhi.

One thing I read here and wonder is - Aish could get anyone and everyone, within and outside the universe. Just one question. Why didn’t she ? What was stopping her.

Huh what’s with huge statement, this is how they go everywhere for few years now

Originally posted by: MrChatVsNorway

It’s the same Ash and her fans who could not stop flaunting the bachchan heir once

Now that the things have gone sour .. they are quick to villainize the entire family ..

as if their own ex beauty queen is doodh ki dhooli hui .. she has no friends and practically everyone hated her when she was active in the industry.. she literally had problem with everyone .. not a surprise that she turned out to be a kaleshi bahu .. too self absorbed.. too self obsessed to have a good relationship with the in laws .. but the fans are fans lol .. forever delusional

You are one to talk considering your fav is a homewrecker and has broken up at least two marriages and is even seeing a married woman on the side now as her appetite knows no bounds. While her husband prefers the company of Vaani Kapoor over your favorite lol.

You conveniently fail to remember this truth. As well as the fact that Aish is close friends with Preity, Rekha, Kajol, Ajay, Manish Malhotra, and Sridevi when she was alive. Aish/Preity is considered one of the purest friendships in the industry since Preity (as well as Kajol) both valued Aishwarya whereas your favorite did not hesitate to throw Aish under the bus for film roles...while crying crocodile tears about how mistreated she was when KJo didn't offer her Kal Ho Naa Ho but gave it to Preity instead.