Originally posted by: xZoyax
This one blue line is what is all about accepting other being no matter who he/she is. The arranged marriage is all about that. People and for god bid new generation has no idea how beneficial is this concept is. They see one side of the mirror and like Arnav two people can't live for a lifetime. This is absolutely not correct.
Any relationship needs some effort, Love, and fantasy come down from its edge in a week or so after marriage, and there starts the real love and challenge with patience and consistency. I think Khushi showed Arnav from every angle from her ways and her patience.
Beautifully explained faiqa👏
Zoya, every scenario of life has two sides. It is how you perceive and see and then thinks and act.
Anything can work if there is consistency in trying to work on relationships. No one can stand the other person and his/her attitude and way of living when you don't even know each other or have seen or spoken like in an arranged marriage in which most people think and yes, in a majority cases women do sacrifices. Life is full of sadness. It’s part of being a woman. Our lives are lived for the sake of others. Our happiness is never factored in. Do I want this life? Living here and seeing our husbands in different roles rather than just being a husband, raising our kids alone? I don’t know what it was like for you in other countries, but this is how life is. This is reality. But the advice around makes it more meaningless.
two people and their level of relationship work on consistency and lack of which brings lack of interests. Now the new generation thinks that they are entitled to be fully in charge of that person either husband or wife and the parents or siblings or the other people have no right whatsoever.
Wrong thinking, upbringing, and social media have destroyed the entire infrastructure of relationships. not only husband and wife but every other relationship as well.
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