Originally posted by: Mysticaldivine
👏Absolutely
She broke his self created walls of the castle. For him Love was TOXIC
Instead of shunning and disassociating, love looks like accepting and including. Instead of withholding or giving with strings attached, love looks like giving to those in need and doing it in such a way that you do not place expectations on the recipient to give you back something in return. That is where Arnav was standing. He never shunned his sister or Mamiji or Nani's love. He was always there and even for people who were needed as we have seen he did help Khushi and that little girl with pigeons...in his way of loving things of doing things was ... Instead of crusading and proselytizing, love looks like accepting people the way they are, respecting their personal boundaries, and not trying to change who they are to become more like you. Unfortunately, society and religions don't have such norms.
Arnav never wanted love but he always wanted respect as we have seen in the beginning. Love implies empathy. If Khushi couldn't understand why he had no belief in God, then time made her understand it knowing him better and what happened she started doing the same. She started accepting him the way he was.
Arnav was always less expressive and hardly did talk but after meeting Khushi he started it. Though it was just spitting fire in the beginning slowly with time he found his way to her. Payesh wedding is the best example though he had no idea what was going on in a complete sense.
If we really care about people we love or have a soft corner and not as notches in our belt, we started focusing on building a relationship around those things and set aside our compulsion to make ourselves be something other than what we are. Regardless of what, or maybe we do all just to protect someone who we love so much. That is what Khushi did. She started building something with Arnav to save Payal. But during all of this time after her forced marriage, she started changing Arnav and herself too. She changed into a woman who he never could forget.
Both started to judge themselves too and many times accepted their own faults in return. Big step for Arnav and that melted her heart too.
This one blue line is what is all about accepting other being no matter who he/she is. The arranged marriage is all about that. People and for god bid new generation has no idea how beneficial is this concept is. They see one side of the mirror and like Arnav two people can't live for a lifetime. This is absolutely not correct.
Any relationship needs some effort, Love, and fantasy come down from its edge in a week or so after marriage, and there starts the real love and challenge with patience and consistency. I think Khushi showed Arnav from every angle from her ways and her patience.
Beautifully explained faiqa👏
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