Originally posted by: Mysticaldivine
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Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike. Every relationship stands on trust and honesty even friendship. Without using words if someone out there understands you, that is something itself a blessing. You can talk with someone for years, every day, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel like you have known the person for forever.... connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.
Entitlement is the root cause of all the chaos. It is easy, when you are young, to believe that what you desire is no less than what you deserve, to assume that if you want something badly enough, it is your God-given right to have it. But it is not true. The first slap is all it takes from the brutal reality and it depends on when you get it. The moment that slap lands on your face to shake your grounds, you realize that instead of making the amendments, now the minds take a different and negative path.
Again, it is all about how you resolve it and you can't as you are not training these minds properly. Dangerous minds are on a rise.
The abusive mind’s high entitlement leads it to have unfair and unreasonable expectations so that the relationship revolves around its demands. The attitude is: “You owe me.” "This is my right" "This is mine"
For each ounce anyone gives these days, he/she wants a pound or I must say gallon in return. He/she wants his/her partner to devote himself/herself fully to catering to him/ her, even if it means that his/her own needs or his/her children’s get neglected. You can pour all your energy into keeping your partner content, but if he/she has this mindset, he/ she’ll never be satisfied for long. And he/she will keep feeling that you are controlling him/her because he/she doesn’t believe that you should set any limits on his/her conduct or insist that he/she meet his/her responsibilities.
Well, we can write as much as we can but until we stand up and do something about it, it is useless.
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