Stop abusing kid adhya - Page 9

To the best of my knowledge human beings are not born adults they grow into being one.

So, a child's behaviour is "ACQUIRED" through upbringing, environment, circumstances and experiences.

Till such time that the child grows up to be an independent adult, every action, everything the child does IS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE GUARDIAN. The successes, failures, politeness, rudeness, their good and the bad are ALL on the Guardian.

lol they could have both lived the married life without the adoption drama. Why did they even bring a child into the mix? Stupid Anuj

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

Sorry, this is extremely prejudiced and gross. Upma not taking meds isn't some sort of achievement, and Adhya allegedly having psychotic tendencies isn't a condemnation. Even if Adhya has those issues, she deserves treatment instead of being manipulated by adults around her.

Upma perpetuated the cycle of abuse and is a literal enabler and abuser to Dimpy and Kinjal.

Adhya lacks empathy and consideration for others which can be corrected through treatment and corrective parenting. Adults around Adhya are responsible for her moral values and healthcare. Upma is responsible for her own actions.

Adhya is a kid; Upma is an adult

I haven't seen Anupama abusing anyone. Usually she gets abused by other chars in the show and here in forums as well.

Adhya is a kid but acts like a manipulative scheming adult and abuses her foster parents.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

To the best of my knowledge human beings are not born adults they grow into being one.

So, a child's behaviour is "ACQUIRED" through upbringing, environment, circumstances and experiences.

Yes, Aadhya locking Pari in the room was very wrong. She needs to be counselled to not hurt anyone else especially a child. That she needs help is undisputed.

There have also been ample moments in the show during the past month where she always takes charge of the younger kids and shields them when the adults are fighting. She has been shown to be responsible, caring and protective on many instances as well in the same show.

Haven't seen a single pathetic online Anupamaaa mention that though. People can have different reactions to different people and circumstances. Not everyone is a one dimensional filthy doormat like Anupamaa

Panic attacks, Stress eating, dizzy spells ever so often, where have we seen this before? 🤔

Oh yes, Anupama, ofcourse.

Which couples have faced adultery in marriage?

1. Anupama in Vanraj-Anupama marriage.

2. Vanraj in Kavya-Vanraj marriage.

3. Kinjal in Paritosh-Kinjal marriage.

4. Rakhi Dave in Pramod-Rakhi marriage.

5. Barkha in Ankush-Barkha marriage.

How many of them have any of the above symptoms?

So, Kanta Joshi was responsible for the aforementioned symptoms?

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

To the best of my knowledge human beings are not born adults they grow into being one.

So, a child's behaviour is "ACQUIRED" through upbringing, environment, circumstances and experiences.

Till such time that the child grows up to be an independent adult, every action, everything the child does IS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE GUARDIAN. The successes, failures, politeness, rudeness, their good and the bad are ALL on the Guardian.

Undoubtedly. We are mere byproducts of our upbringing and by extension the surroundings we grow up in.

Originally posted by: Paru...

I haven't seen Anupama abusing anyone. Usually she gets abused by other chars in the show and here in forums as well.

Adhya is a kid but acts like a manipulative scheming adult and abuses her foster parents.

Leaving a little kid and running away is 100% abuse. You can check any country's law and this is classified as child neglect and abuse.

And a kid who is abandoned should 100% disrespect that evil selfish mom who abandoned her.

Indian Penal Code, 1860 (IPC)

Section 75 of the code provides for punishment for cruelty to a child, while Section 76 provides for punishment for abetment of suicide of a child.

Indian Penal Code, 1860 (IPC)

• The abandonment of a child below the age of twelve years is dealt under Section 317, Punishment for abandonment is imprisonment up to seven years or fine or both.

Originally posted by: Paru...

I haven't seen Anupama abusing anyone. Usually she gets abused by other chars in the show and here in forums as well.

Adhya is a kid but acts like a manipulative scheming adult and abuses her foster parents.

shes abused barkha, adhya, malati devi, ankush bhai

Indirectly shes abused anuj too

Shes meeti churi does not directly abuse

She cries and does innocent drama so anuj abuse on her behalf usually

shes like ITV bahu who acts good in front and makes hubby do all dirty job on her behalf at least at kapadiya house

with adhya and shruti she did same innocent becahri drama crying etc in public and misbeahving behnd which made anuj and yashdeep fight for her

Prolem with adhya is she talks openly on face so gets abused by anuj and shahs

she must become meeti churi like anupama than anuj will side with her and blast anupama

usually men love meet churi types who act coy and innocent and shed tears and do not confront directly like adhya

Originally posted by: Paru...

I haven't seen Anupama abusing anyone. Usually she gets abused by other chars in the show and here in forums as well.

Adhya is a kid but acts like a manipulative scheming adult and abuses her foster parents.

Anupamaa slapped Dimpy for being rude to "bade" a few weeks before Samar died. That is domesyic violence. Yes, upmaa gets abused a lot. But victims can also be abusive in different contexts. Cancel out nahi ho jaate.

Adhya definitely is manipulative and doesn't respect boundaries. However, she is a minor. It is her legal guardians responsibility to correct her behavioural issues. Which they don't.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

shes abused barkha, adhya, malati devi, ankush bhai

Indirectly shes abused anuj too

Shes meeti churi does not directly abuse

She cries and does innocent drama so anuj abuse on her behalf usually

shes like ITV bahu who acts good in front and makes hubby do all dirty job on her behalf at least at kapadiya house

with adhya and shruti she did same innocent becahri drama crying etc in public and misbeahving behnd which made anuj and yashdeep fight for her

Prolem with adhya is she talks openly on face so gets abused by anuj and shahs

she must become meeti churi like anupama than anuj will side with her and blast anupama

usually men love meet churi types who act coy and innocent and shed tears and do not confront directly like adhya

Why the heck are adults in romantic space being compared to a literal kid?

Wtf is "men love x and not y like adhya?" How did you even manage to compare a 50+ y/o woman being allegedly conniving with two romantic partners to a child being age-inappropriate? Any remotely normal human being would "love" a "meethi chhuri" over Adhya in that context. Because, y'know, she is a kid?

Adhya is age-inappropriate and doesn't flinch before physically hurting and bullying others. That is not "calling it like it is"; she is not old enough to be discerning. It's called behavioural issues which any good parent would address in their child.

Wtf does it have to do with men?

Ew.