Stop abusing kid adhya - Page 12

And anuj is a bad father? Where he left anu for her daughter so many times , was ready to do a loveless marriage for her infact gave her so much freedom didn't control her despite working in a top company he tried spending time with her made her noodlee even after she disrespected his love or did anything wrong he tried correcting her on her mistakes but never raised his hands....... He's been nothing but loving and understanding to adhya

11 pages on, Wow.

Now that ALL other narratives are either debunked, the discussion is focused on adoption and gratitude thereon. Wonder where the gratitude went for Anuj, who by the way, was himself, adopted. Or Anupama who lives because someone sacrificed her life to save her.

The child never asked these two unstable obsessed humans to adopt her, did she? One wanted a Trophy child to keep the Mahaan Maa Tag high without putting any effort towards the girl and another wanted a child of his own to call a family.

Together, they destroyed a happy, content child who was left out in the orphanage by fate, by a mother who protected her from a horrible life.

When CA was introduced, her constant yayy yayyy was irritating.. little did I know that her unstable and unfit adoptive parents would make her so depressed that she would never yayy again ☹️

Originally posted by: Nhikia

And anuj is a bad father? Where he left anu for her daughter so many times , was ready to do a loveless marriage for her infact gave her so much freedom didn't control her despite working in a top company he tried spending time with her made her noodlee even after she disrespected his love or did anything wrong he tried correcting her on her mistakes but never raised his hands....... He's been nothing but loving and understanding to adhya

He maybe a very loving father but he is a bad father in that he has not raised Adhya properly. It is a father’s responsibility to teach his child right from wrong, teach her limits, teach her coping skills, get her medical care that can heal her mental trauma, teach her that just because you are hurt or angry does not give her the right to behave atrociously. That is a father’s duty and he has failed in that. Yes, he has showered Adhya with love, given her everything she asked for, including agreeing to marry Shrew, that is dumb of him.

Originally posted by: Nhikia

And anuj is a bad father? Where he left anu for her daughter so many times , was ready to do a loveless marriage for her infact gave her so much freedom didn't control her despite working in a top company he tried spending time with her made her noodlee even after she disrespected his love or did anything wrong he tried correcting her on her mistakes but never raised his hands....... He's been nothing but loving and understanding to adhya

He is a bad father because he doesn't care for his kids trauma and wants to come back to the same selfish evil woman who abandoned his kid. He is a bad father who stands there when someone else slaps his kid, I would break the hand of some outsider who slapped my kid.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

He maybe a very loving father but he is a bad father in that he has not raised Adhya properly. It is a father’s responsibility to teach his child right from wrong, teach her limits, teach her coping skills, get her medical care that can heal her mental trauma, teach her that just because you are hurt or angry does not give her the right to behave atrociously. That is a father’s duty and he has failed in that. Yes, he has showered Adhya with love, given her everything she asked for, including agreeing to marry Shrew, that is dumb of him.

Every kid should behave atrociously to a selfish woman who left her and ran away. A good father will always teach their kid self respect and to never ever tolerate such a woman and give her second chance.

People here are hilarious, they want kid to.be taught to be doormats and have no self respect so they can be used and thrown away by selfish people like Anupama

Really wish this sub had troll reaction smileys for posts like these.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

11 pages on, Wow.

Now that ALL other narratives are either debunked, the discussion is focused on adoption and gratitude thereon. Wonder where the gratitude went for Anuj, who by the way, was himself, adopted. Or Anupama who lives because someone sacrificed her life to save her.

The child never asked these two unstable obsessed humans to adopt her, did she? One wanted a Trophy child to keep the Mahaan Maa Tag high without putting any effort towards the girl and another wanted a child of his own to call a family.

Together, they destroyed a happy, content child who was left out in the orphanage by fate, by a mother who protected her from a horrible life.

Also.the new narrative that Adhya is a bad person for behaving badly with someone who abandoned her and ran away.

No one is fooled, these people literally think you can abandoned and abuse a kid and the kid should be polite and respectful. Wanting kids to behave normally with someone who abandoned them is another form of abuse.

Notice how these posts pretending to be talking of Anuj are still indirectly attacking a little kid just because she stood up to the selfish woman who abandoned her? Post after post attacking a kid from different angles but not one word against the real reason, that an evil selfish woman abandoned a kid and never faced any consequences

In real life abuse shelters always teach people to stand up against those who abandon them.

Originally posted by: Harish111

Every kid should behave atrociously to a selfish woman who left her and ran away. A good father will always teach their kid self respect and to never ever tolerate such a woman and give her second chance.

People here are hilarious, they want kid to.be taught to be doormats and have no self respect so they can be used and thrown away by selfish people like Anupama

Really wish this sub had troll reaction smileys for posts like these.

Lol, wish there were troll reaction emojis for people who cannot politely agree to disagree with others who don’t kowtow to their opinions.

And who is talking about the teenager (not a kid in diapers btw) being rude to her mother here. Adhya locked Pari in the room, she would have been sent to juvenile detention if something had happened to Pari. Her behavior towards Bapuji and Ba in the U.S., her adult like manipulation of her father to marry a woman of her choice, none of that is “kiddish” behavior.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

Devika n everyone is behaving like Anupama had a fight with Anuj n she left for few days and now it’s Adhya who is showing tantrums. It’s 5 years. Just because they had not shown us Adhya’s suffering it doesn’t mean she doesn’t suffer. It was clearly mentioned in initial episodes of after leap why Anuj sold everything n moved to USA.

Shruti’s entry in their life is also blamed on Adhya. If Anuj wanted some help with Adhya he can ask his sister to come back or sister zoned Shruti. In initial days He could have made Adhya understand that he don’t love Shruti n she deserve someone who loves her. We don’t have the right to destroy her life. He could have broken up with Shruti because he don’t love her not because of Anupama.

How can Anuj expect from Adhya that she will accept Anupama. He was not even ready to talk to her about it.In India he was just leaving her at the hotel n roaming around Anupama.

And So called Anupama knows that her relationship with Anuj suffered because of shahs. She knows Adhya don’t want her n she is planning to take Baa Babuji with her to US. Why she is behaving like Vanraj has thrown them out from shah house. Babuji are ready who was not ready to sold SH because of memories but ready to leave their homeland with Anupama.

Even if Adhya was ready to give her chance but with her extra n unnecessary baggage of Baa Bapuji she will have time for them again.

They are all flawed characters - Anuj, Anupama, Shrew, Aadhya. If they were reasonable and behaved normally, we would have no story and no serial.

But I do agree with you on the point that instead of making Adhya understand why her mother saved Pari first, Anuj has only fueled the fire of hatred in his daughter by talking about the past and asking her in a way to let bygones be bygones. No one has addressed the elephant in the room, except for Devika at this late a stage with Adhya.

Understood that Adhya was upset her mother saved Pari, instead of explaining to the kid, Anupama ups and leaves, Anuj uproots the kid and takes her to Amerika, doesn’t try to explain and lets the hate fester in the child. Fast forward to Shrew, the kid now an teen inappropriately forces her dad to marry her friend/mother figure. The dad instead of setting his daughter straight plays along with her wishes, plays with Shrew’s emotions and gets engaged to her.

All said and done, while Aadhya may have every reason to hold a grudge against her mother and hate her, she has no business being impudent even to her mother who to all intents and purposes now is a stranger, Anupama Joshi, to her. To extract a promise from a stranger and to walk off saying she will have her dad invite Anupama to Shrew’s and her dad’s wedding smacks of insolence.

As for Ba and Bapuji going with Anupama or not to Amerika, that is none of Adhya’s business. If she is a child (like most vouch she is), then she should let the adults handle such business.

Originally posted by: Time_to_move_on

No matter what other members on the forum think about Aadhya, her hatred for Anupama is to the extreme. As a mother, I find her behaviour too difficult to digest. But I also agree that neither can Aadhya force Shruti on Anuj nor can Anuj force Anupama on Aadhya.

At least, Shruti exited MaAn's life gracefully. But this new leap is to simply guilt trip Aadhya and make her the reason and driver of MaAn's reunion. Showing a kid with intense hatred and then making her repent and live with a totally unrelated Kavya is utter nonsense.

Hopefully, Aadya's character is shown dead leading to Anuj's bad mental state. As far as MaAn is concerned, every reunion of theirs is temporary. DKP will keep separating them and eventually kill off Anuj by 2025-26 or earlier. I am very sure Gaurav will one day get tired of playing this hopeless character though Rupali will never feel exhausted playing Anupama.

As a mother, I find Adhya’s behavior difficult to tolerate too. Shrew did not unfortunately leave the serial gracefully, in my opinion. There was a last minute about face to make her look good again. The creatives could have kept her good and reasonable all through but whatever, she had a lapse out of jealousy and recovered.

Didn’t know Adhya was going to be left with Kavya as caretaker. What is with Anuj playing the bansuri while Vanraj has become a tycoon? Is Vanraj caretaker of Adhya’s millions inherited from Anuj? Crazy show, no rhyme or reason.