Stop abusing kid adhya - Page 10

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

Why the heck are adults in romantic space being compared to a literal kid?

Wtf is "men love x and not y like adhya?" How did you even manage to compare a 50+ y/o woman being allegedly conniving with two romantic partners to a child being age-inappropriate? Any remotely normal human being would "love" a "meethi chhuri" over Adhya in that context. Because, y'know, she is a kid?

Adhya is age-inappropriate and doesn't flinch before physically hurting and bullying others. That is not "calling it like it is"; she is not old enough to be discerning. It's called behavioural issues which any good parent would address in their child.

Wtf does it have to do with men?

Ew.

I think you are taking out of context

i aM saying adhya is direct if shes angry she shows on face and says directly

ppl not only men hate ppl who speak truth on face usually

asia is not a place where you can get away with speaking truth on face

you have to be diplomatic and meeti churi to be liked

straight forward does not work in asian countries (based on my exp)

yes but kids usually talk on face like adhya do

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I think you are taking out of context

i aM saying adhya is direct if shes angry she shows on face and says directly

ppl not only men hate ppl who speak truth on face usually

asia is not a place where you can get away with speaking truth on face

you have to be diplomatic and meeti churi to be liked

straight forward does not work in asian countries (based on my exp)

yes but kids usually talk on face like adhya do

Here's an example : When Shruti and Anuj were at the hospital, Upmaa nursed Adhya's fever. In response, Adhya shouted that she hates her and doesn't want her around— a perfectly valid response to a bad parent. However, then she told Anuj that "yeh sab woh aurat apko dikhane ke liye karti hai."

Is that an appropriate thing for a child to say about two adults who were in a relationship? Is it her place to say that? She can hate Upmaa as a mother. She can hate her for breaking her family too. And according to this fd, she can even endanger other people's life as a DeFenĆÉ mEcHAnIsm.

But what insight or nuance does a literal underage child in her early teens have into adult relationships to say such slimey things? Or, the audacity to call someone a "golddigger"? It's called parentification.

Maybe Upmaa should have left an unconscious child to burn with fever lest pops ki princess slùtshame karne lag jaaye, maybe Popsy the best should have called out his underage child when she slùtshamed someome for the first time. Maybe he should have hired someone else than his ex. Maybe he should have put him and his daughter in family counselling after his divorce

Ciao

Originally posted by: Harish111

Leaving a little kid and running away is 100% abuse. You can check any country's law and this is classified as child neglect and abuse.

And a kid who is abandoned should 100% disrespect that evil selfish mom who abandoned her.

Indian Penal Code, 1860 (IPC)

Section 75 of the code provides for punishment for cruelty to a child, while Section 76 provides for punishment for abetment of suicide of a child.

Indian Penal Code, 1860 (IPC)

• The abandonment of a child below the age of twelve years is dealt under Section 317, Punishment for abandonment is imprisonment up to seven years or fine or both.

She left the child with her father according to mutual agreement. (i have already mentioned it in the thread)It was part of the divorce that the custody of the child went to father. If Anuj hasn't got sole custody of the child ,the he wouldn't have been able to leave India as the child was adopted from India.

Originally posted by: Paru...

Anupama slapped Dimpy for creating Kalesh at SH and abusing Baa Bapuji.If u felt that was domestic violence ,then for me it was a very satisfying scene as she needed that for her toxic behaviour..If Dimpy had complained it to Police Anu would have got only Rs 500 fine as it wasn't using any weapons. The same Anu fought for Dimpy when she got gang raped and gave justice to her by imprisoning the accused ,gave her shelter, gave her job at her dance Academy and allowed her to get married to her son .

Adhya needed to be send for counselling /or correction centre as I doubt her guardians could manage with her present behaviour.

Slapping someone, especially a daughter-in-law, is domestic abuse by law

Originally posted by: Paru...

But it has to be proved. Who will give her evidence? Anu can only be co-accused. Samar who supports her will be the main accused if she files a domestic violence case.

That doesn't stop Upmaa from being an abuser, and I don't need a court case on fictional character to call her an abuser.

What she did falls under every moral and legal definition of domestic abuse still.

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

That doesn't stop Upmaa from being an abuser, and I don't need a court case on fictional character to call her an abuser.

What she did falls under every moral and legal definition of domestic abuse still.

I doubt as Anu had divorced V and stays in another house ,whether DV act is applicable for her??.

U were the one who was talking about domestic violence case against Anu. Then whey did u change ur opinion suddenly??

Originally posted by: Paru...

I doubt as Anu had divorced V and stays in another house ,whether DV act is applicable for her??.

U were the one who was talking about domestic violence case against Anu. Then whey did u change ur opinion suddenly??

Yes. Being a divorcée has nothing to do with her children and in-laws. She will always be legally related to them. Hitting someone is assault. Hitting your bahu is domestic violence.

And, yes, Dimpy should have filed a DV case against her instead of simping for her.

Originally posted by: Paru...

She left the child with her father according to mutual agreement. (i have already mentioned it in the thread)It was part of the divorce that the custody of the child went to father. If Anuj hasn't got sole custody of the child ,the he wouldn't have been able to leave India as the child was adopted from India.

nothing like that was shown

anuj went to shahs and kanta to look for her she was not there

in divorce case only takes 1 year with counselling for hubbby wife and kids

But anupama was in hidding somewhere, anu had no idea where

Most probably since she was absconding court decided anuj gets custody

Or in real divorce they have to attend lot of counselling etc in india

usually kids below 10 are handed to mother not father especially girl kids unless mother dos not want that responsibility(like anupama)

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

Slapping someone, especially a daughter-in-law, is domestic abuse by law

True but on sm and this forum too all are clapping whenever anupama slaps dimpy or rakhi or kavya or toshu etc

If woman only start supporting act of violence against other woman in public forums how can we expect better world for women

No woman or man has right to beat an adult woman or kid girl even if they are wrong

You should explain in words and they are other ways to get your view point across

anupama cannot keep hitting or throwing ppl out of house in name of them being rude

anupama is herself highly rude and misbehaving - so should ppl throw her out of home or slap her punch her to teach her manners and values

What sort of training is this - no human has right to raise hand on another adult or kid

Its called assault and they can go to jail

what anupama did to dimpy was assault and domestic voilence as dimpy is her bahu

Will anupama dare raise hand on kinjal no? Why because she has rakhi as mother?

Has anyone slapped anupama any time? No right not even vanraj has raised hands on her in life or leela

Why in this show Fl raises hand on everyone? in name of teaching them a lesson or manners

Toshu has been hit many times by anupama and vanraj too has he become better? No hes become more worst

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Yes, Aadhya locking Pari in the room was very wrong. She needs to be counselled to not hurt anyone else especially a child. That she needs help is undisputed.

There have also been ample moments in the show during the past month where she always takes charge of the younger kids and shields them when the adults are fighting. She has been shown to be responsible, caring and protective on many instances as well in the same show.

Haven't seen a single pathetic online Anupamaaa mention that though. People can have different reactions to different people and circumstances. Not everyone is a one dimensional filthy doormat like Anupamaa

Adhya has anger issues

If a kid is abused by parents it goes and hits other kids in school

Most bully kids in school are hit and abused at home by parents, grandparents

Most serial killers have highly abusive parents

Not only their brain chemicals are different but childhood trauma plays role in ppl turing to become serial killer or highly voilent

These serial makers have no idea what impact parent and family abuse has on kids in adulthood

Kids become big and remove anger of abuse their parents did to them on others

These kids have deep rooted anger against parents they will remove it on others later on in life

Like adhya locked par in dark room

or recenlly medical students were throwing puppy from top in india video etc

its all deep rooted anger that they remove on other innocents like pets or starys or kids

Without understanding all this serial ppl are showing stupid reasons for abuse, anger, trauma, anxiety etc and showing kid as villan

mental trauma and disease is a taboo subject in india as shown in anupama serial - makers have no idea ta lal what all this is and making adhya villan

while anupama who goes around slapping others throwing rakhi out of door emotionally blackmailing hubby and showing knife etc are all heroines to be worshiped