Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 04th Aug 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 14

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Madhav is sensible..he’s had two women in his life who loved him immensely..so he knows what true love it..he doesn’t want his younger son stuck with an immoral woman who never respected their marriage and was and is still lusting after his older son.. Madhav should rather insist that the family find another girl for rohit..but dkp won’t hire another actress for rohit.,.he’ll only get his brothers reject 🙄

If DKP 's plan is make Abhira sing ek hazaron meri behna hain song for Ruhi after all these ,if that's why storyline is stuck at Ruhi,then I am done with this show

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

He is a sweet guy but his bad he got such horrible family who r forcing a women like Ruhi into his life knowing she is still obsessed with Armaan. That guy definitely needs a women who loves and respects him genuinely. This women will use Rohit as mohra to achieve her immoral goals now. Only a day back she said to V she won’t be happy in that marriage,signed DV when Abhira asked to think and to Armaan am going to AMRIKA and this is final goodbye ,at the airport peeche dekhne ki waqth nahi aage badna hai , next day morning begging Rohit to accept her as wife ? Kya beshamram aur disgusting hai . Rohit doesn’t deserve such cheap women.

He would be fine in few days and move on if she’s gone but now she will ruin his life staying with him.

Vidya saying she knows Rohit is sad from inside.In Armaan time,she said He is afraid of losing Ruhi when he was clearly sad on marriage functions.She is the best mother ,she knows her both sons very well.what a mother she is

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

bold - ruhi had dismissed her feelings as infatuation but it was Armaan who “convinced” her about their deep feelings at mandir… love at first sight or getting instantly attracted to someone isn’t impulsiveness, thousands do so... impulsiveness is without knowing the whole truth considering someone guilty and breaking their items like Ab did during Saraswati Pooja..

Ruhi is dumb and delusional, no one’s denying it, but you need to understand a major chunk of the mess created is due to Armaan.. you don’t gift wrap your love and give it to your brother while promising to love her all your life and never give her place to anyone.. that’s horrible.. Armaan’s hollow promises created this… he promised Ruhi that she will always be his first priority.. he told Rohit, toote dil ke sath koi khush nahi reh sakta which made him sacrifice his love and waste an year..

Armaan is a fickle minded weak man who never realised the gravity his words carried or seriousness of the situation but does that make Ruhi wrong in trusting him? Maybe or maybe not? If blindly trusting others is a crime then even Ab is guilty of it.. she was trusting Ar but the moment Manisha fed her ears her insecurities kicked in… Armaan never revealed what all he said to Ruhi or Rohit but she has a basic idea… so if after all this nonsense, Ab can forgive Ar and accept him as her love then I am sorry she doesn’t have any right to question Ruhi..

Bold 2 - I don’t remember a scene in recent episodes where she wanted to touch him.. so no comments.. it’s not Illegal to not move on in life.. many take years.. even Ab didn’t move on, any sane person doesn’t become a wedding planner of their ex… and despite being the wedding planner she crossed her boundaries and confessed her feelings to the groom… is it morally and ethically a right thing to do?

Despite all the shortcomings you stated, if Ruhi accepts the relationship, dadisa and Vidya will give her queen treatment.. Rohit will eventually accept her as he madly loves her.. toh jab miya biwi raazi why is Ab being a kaazi? And tell me what exactly is she going to achieve by poking her nose? Dadisa already hates her.. any mature sensible person would try to mend the gap and make the family accept her but Ab not being one will do the exact opposite and create problems for herself and her love and then play the victim card ki haaye mein toh bhala karne gayi thi mere sath bura hogaya.. toh behen kisne kaha tha dusro ke phate mein taang adao? Degree mili hai cases lo, romance karo lekin shakhi jagga jasoos bana hai toh kya bole?

Bold - according to this definition also Ruhi is impulsive. Like she considered Ar cheating on her, like she blamed Ab for hiding divorce papers and invaded her privacy by going through her stuff and making mess on bed. I am not denying Ab is not, but stating Ru is too.

I still believe that Ar did mistakes and coz of his dumbness many issues started, he did wrong to Rohit and deserves the treatment he is receiving from Ro, he was 100% wrong in asking Ru to marry his brother and his promises were also wrong.

But if Ar is wrong then so is Ru, she could say no to wedding but she didn't. She could go to her house after Rohit's death but she didn't. She could have stop interfering in Ab-Ar lives but she didn't.

I agree earlier Ar gave her enough reasons to continue her umeed but she is still after him. Now he is not looking at her, he even left her at mandap.

Red - It was during kabaddi match.

And it's true one cannot move on immediately, just like both Ru and Ab didn't. But repeating same mistake again and again makes it her fault only. When she married Ro and Ar came with Ab, then her not moving on and feeling upset seeing them was ok but now also she is repeating same after getting humiliated. And just missing him or imagining him is not wrong but everything has certain limits.

If you'll watch all those episodes you could see she was penniless and nust got one job offer so she accepted, initially she wanted to refused but then joined. Even I didn't liked those episodes and the way things unfolded and Ab confessing to Ar at that time was undoubtedly wrong and disrespectful as he was someone's fiance. But if Ruhi can get your support after confessing again and again to someone else husband and boyfriend just because she cannot move on like normal person then why can't Ab?

Dadi and vidya are gone case for me so would not waste my time on them. Rohit always liked Ru and gave her care and respect, so he will definitely accept her if she genuinely apologises and will forget about Ar. Is Ab manipulating Ro against Ruhi? No. Ru-Ro are getting divorce and this is their own decision. It's not like Ab is zabardasti interfering between the couple like Ru used to do.

I find every character flawed be it leads or side characters and they do mistakes but accepting them and redeeming them makes them likable to me as it is ITV. Just like Ar. I always had hopes on Ruhi (much more then Ar) but now instead of feeling guilty she is blaming Ro for their failed marriage.

Entire family (leaving fufasa)accepted Ab as their family, except dadisa who will either one day started praising Ab as she is the fl or will always dislike her. They are 2-3 tracks left and then only marriage will happen otherwise abhi tak dadi bhi maan jaati aur shaadi bhi ho jaati.

Vaise I think writing this super long essay is a waste as our opinions do not match and we have different favs but still.........

One thing I completely agree with you is the fact all 3 characters are flawed… for me Armaan has an upper hand in Ruhaan fiasco.. his mistakes are more.. yes, Ruhi unnecessarily interfered, never respected ab Ar privacy but then Armaan never stopped her.. he never drew the line.. who asked him to give unsolicited explanations and information about their personal life and fuel her hopes… imo Ruhi’s actions are no doubt wrong but somewhere they are just the reaction to Ar’s actions (or inactions)..

Ab didn’t just miss and daydream about Ar.. she dreamt of being pregnant with him.. proposed someone’s fiancé.. but still never saw a single comment calling ab lusty or desperate for Ar.

Ruhi had left ph after Rohit’s death.. Ar brought her back promising to give her first priority in his life.. who had asked him to do so? He could’ve been rigid said no, but he didn’t… but then it’s ab’s fault as well as she did deal jaap all the year only to fall in love and go back on her words… all 3 are gadhe.. no one stuck to their words.. toh vamp sirf Ruhi kyu? I want ab to focus on her life and career, instead from tomorrow she will make proving Ruhi wrong her life sole purpose and in this process dadisa will end up hating her more…