If AbhiMaan are happy together

Ruhi's definition of Armaan and Abhira

Abhira is immature, kid-like, girl from fictional stories whereas Armaan is simple, serious and family-oriented person. 

What they truly are

Abhira

Firstly Abhira is not immature atleast she is mature enough not to marry one brother to stay close to another or is mature enough not to beg and plead for love from the person who repeatedly clarified that he doesn't love her the way Ruhi did. Abhira isn't a kid who would emotionally blackmail her family or Armaan with something as stupid as running away and doing suicide drama if her demands aren't met like Ruhi. Regarding her being a girl from fictional stories, well Abhira's traits are most relatable she is girl of today's generation who doesn't hesitate to voice her opinion, give back to in-laws if they are mean and unfair  (minus her comeback in PH as a wedding planner), she is passionate about her career and her mama's dreams. Is Ruhi's character relatable? Maybe for the ppl who think being obsessive in love to extent of vengeance and wishing bad for others is normal.  

Armaan

Secondly, Armaan is serious? When, where and how??  Armaan was never a serious kind of person. That's why he had those silly, funny banters with Abhira like "stationary ki dukaan" regarding him being simple, he is by far the most complex character. So, Ar is family-oriented according to Ruhi but wasn't his biological mother his family? If he is family oriented man then he is neither close to his biological mother (as he never even once defended her or tried to find her side of story) nor to his biological father Madhav. If he was family-oriented he wouldn't feel "alone" living with his extended family of 14-15 ppl who are related to him by blood. He would try to help his family members when they needed him. He would have tried to mend strained relationships, specifically relationship between his adoptive mother and father, his grandmother and father, him and his father, would have stood upto Sanjay Bansal for his cousins and bua long back. But he didn't try to extend his unconditional support to anyone in his family. He did nothing beside accepting Dadisa's orders and giving unconditional support to Vidya because of their ehsaan ka bojh. What efforts he did to find Rohit or his dead body? As Ar mentioned infront of Dadisa all their familial issues were present even before Abhira's presence. He never tried to resolve them which a family-oriented person would do. Only Manoj-Manisha their kids and Krish are family-oriented among Poddars and Bansals others are just puppets of Dadisa/Sanjay.

Why Ruhi is hell-bent on proving Abhira is a misfit for Armaan and his family? She even addressed Abhira as a gold-digger previously though Armaan defended Abhira that time but still...It's been 2-3 months of her repeating those sariyal monologues here and there now as her nightmare (Armaan loving someone other than her) turned to reality. Is she going to spread her pearls of wisdom as if she is the most mature and compatible girl with Armaan? Ruhi with Armaan means recipe for disaster, why doesn't she accept that? Ruhi is behaving like a kid who will break the toy she couldn't have, if she doesn't get her happiness with Armaan she won't let Ar-Ab embrace their happiness with each other. I'm sure if she saw them happy together, getting romantic or intimate even once she is going to break their door or glass of their windows or hurt herself as she is always outside their door eavesdropping 

Ruhi's name ink was darker than others as her impact on their relationship was/is greater than others.

Abhira is far more matured than Ruhi is, who herself behaves like a petulant child. 

Originally posted by: barbieflora

Abhira is far more matured than Ruhi is, who herself behaves like a petulant child. 

Ruhi is completely delusional in her thinking and approach. If being shrewd and manipulative is maturity then Abhira is better off that maturity.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

Ruhi's definition of Armaan and Abhira

Abhira is immature, kid-like, girl from fictional stories whereas Armaan is simple, serious and family-oriented person. 

What they truly are

Abhira

Firstly Abhira is not immature atleast she is mature enough not to marry one brother to stay close to another or is mature enough not to beg and plead for love from the person who repeatedly clarified that he doesn't love her the way Ruhi did. Abhira isn't a kid who would emotionally blackmail her family or Armaan with something as stupid as running away and doing suicide drama if her demands aren't met like Ruhi. Regarding her being a girl from fictional stories, well Abhira's traits are most relatable she is girl of today's generation who doesn't hesitate to voice her opinion, give back to in-laws if they are mean and unfair  (minus her comeback in PH as a wedding planner), she is passionate about her career and her mama's dreams. Is Ruhi's character relatable? Maybe for the ppl who think being obsessive in love to extent of vengeance and wishing bad for others is normal.  

Armaan

Secondly, Armaan is serious? When, where and how??  Armaan was never a serious kind of person. That's why he had those silly, funny banters with Abhira like "stationary ki dukaan" regarding him being simple, he is by far the most complex character. So, Ar is family-oriented according to Ruhi but wasn't his biological mother his family? If he is family oriented man then he is neither close to his biological mother (as he never even once defended her or tried to find her side of story) nor to his biological father Madhav. If he was family-oriented he wouldn't feel "alone" living with his extended family of 14-15 ppl who are related to him by blood. He would try to help his family members when they needed him. He would have tried to mend strained relationships, specifically relationship between his adoptive mother and father, his grandmother and father, him and his father, would have stood upto Sanjay Bansal for his cousins and bua long back. But he didn't try to extend his unconditional support to anyone in his family. He did nothing beside accepting Dadisa's orders and giving unconditional support to Vidya because of their ehsaan ka bojh. What efforts he did to find Rohit or his dead body? As Ar mentioned infront of Dadisa all their familial issues were present even before Abhira's presence. He never tried to resolve them which a family-oriented person would do. Only Manoj-Manisha their kids and Krish are family-oriented among Poddars and Bansals others are just puppets of Dadisa/Sanjay.

Why Ruhi is hell-bent on proving Abhira is a misfit for Armaan and his family? She even addressed Abhira as a gold-digger previously though Armaan defended Abhira that time but still...It's been 2-3 months of her repeating those sariyal monologues here and there now as her nightmare (Armaan loving someone other than her) turned to reality. Is she going to spread her pearls of wisdom as if she is the most mature and compatible girl with Armaan? Ruhi with Armaan means recipe for disaster, why doesn't she accept that? Ruhi is behaving like a kid who will break the toy she couldn't have, if she doesn't get her happiness with Armaan she won't let Ar-Ab embrace their happiness with each other. I'm sure if she saw them happy together, getting romantic or intimate even once she is going to break their door or glass of their windows or hurt herself as she is always outside their door eavesdropping 

Ruhi's name ink was darker than others as her impact on their relationship was/is greater than others.

Ruhi will do what the other PL's/ex's of ML's in others TRP topper shows with triangle are/will do as Starplus all triangle show follow same script 

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Ruhi is still blind n dumb Girl really don't understand common sense 

How can a man who is simple n serious Lead 2 women into thinking that he is interested in them so effortlessly He is a great example of two timer

Man didn't feel guilty for having ambiguous relationship with his brother's wife Yeah very Family oriented 

Ruhi might as well keep focusing on her family's loss-making business Instead of decoding This so called simple serious family oriented Man who is Always Manipulated by this or that person Why poke her stupid nose into other people's business 

We as audience know that Love story confession consummation separation n repeat is what happens in ITV for leads but Ruhi as character doesn't know this so she should just mind her own business which is in loss Instead of interfering in leads relation otherwise she'll have her this quite peaceful n resourceful life ruined soon She should Look around n see that the people who don't care about what happens to Abhira n Armaan are the happiest people n have a good life n anyone who cares n loves or creates problems for them their own life is also affected 

@Bold This

As I always say Abhira is the best because she is atleast not like Ruhi The PL/delusional stupid vamp etc etc 

Armaan is fanily oriented in that he will sacrifice everything for them, take the scraps they offer him in the name of apnapan, will strive  to be "worthy" of their love, he will always put their khushi first and be obedient. He has never been given enough haq to feel like he has a say in speaking up or mending things between VM or anyone else's dynamics for that matter

In old episodes, Ar thanks Ab for standing up for V and taking the punishment offered by Kv to stand outside and he said I have not been able to stand up to Dadi for V . So he never had a voice in that house. 

Kaveri essentially is the dictator there and no one can ever question her. 

I think for your poll - multiple options apply. She will create MU, triggers both Ab and Ar insecurities - esp Ab. Because she has more reason to be insecure. She's evil AF. 

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Armaan is fanily oriented in that he will sacrifice everything for them, take the scraps they offer him in the name of apnapan, will strive  to be "worthy" of their love, he will always put their khushi first and be obedient. He has never been given enough haq to feel like he has a say in speaking up or mending things between VM or anyone else's dynamics for that matter

In old episodes, Ar thanks Ab for standing up for V and taking the punishment offered by Kv to stand outside and he said I have not been able to stand up to Dadi for V . So he never had a voice in that house. 

Kaveri essentially is the dictator there and no one can ever question her. 

I think for your poll - multiple options apply. She will create MU, triggers both Ab and Ar insecurities - esp Ab. Because she has more reason to be insecure. She's evil AF. 

He never had a voice but Abhira gave him that voice that's why their bond was special even before falling in love with each other. He prioritize his family even above his ownself because he thinks he will forever be indebted to them not because he has unconditional love for them. What he gives them is more like a payback. If dadisa put forth condition like him handling their lawfirm but living away from PH with Abhira he will accept it. Infact he himself must consider about staying away from PH with Abhira.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Armaan is fanily oriented in that he will sacrifice everything for them, take the scraps they offer him in the name of apnapan, will strive  to be "worthy" of their love, he will always put their khushi first and be obedient. He has never been given enough haq to feel like he has a say in speaking up or mending things between VM or anyone else's dynamics for that matter

In old episodes, Ar thanks Ab for standing up for V and taking the punishment offered by Kv to stand outside and he said I have not been able to stand up to Dadi for V . So he never had a voice in that house. 

Kaveri essentially is the dictator there and no one can ever question her. 

I think for your poll - multiple options apply. She will create MU, triggers both Ab and Ar insecurities - esp Ab. Because she has more reason to be insecure. She's evil AF. 

And Armaan and serious 

Woh banda pehle bhi serious nahi dha...Ab toh bilkul bhi nahi hai 

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

He never had a voice but Abhira gave him that voice that's why their bond was special even before falling in love with each other. He prioritize his family even above his ownself because he thinks he will forever be indebted to them not because he has unconditional love for them. What he gives them is more like a payback. If dadisa put forth condition like him handling their lawfirm but living away from PH with Abhira he will accept it. Infact he himself must consider about staying away from PH with Abhira.

I don't think he will leave even if dadi asks. He will want forgiveness and to stay with them. But i am hoping that he is agreeable to actually moving out if she remains adamant because now Abhira is not just a deal now. He loves her so i want to see him be ok with the idea of even moving out if needed. 

I'm sorry I didn't read any of the posts but if abhimaan are happy , phir toh rs ko show bandh hi karna padh sakta hai