Ruhi vs Armaan

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Armaan didn't backed out from marriage for Ruhi...He did for himself....

Ruhi is wrong then Armaan is wrong now to bring till marriage...

.everyone  has their share of wrongs due to which they are in this situation.. 

Ruhi is Def not a bechari & Arman is Def not a victim of manipulation ...ruhi had it coming & Arman may have refused shadi with ruhi but he will flip at any given moment for his family..he is his family's slave , he will see what they want & hear what they want . Abhira will be forever unhappy with him . 

We want ruhi to be slapped but her family doesn't know how she manipulated situations. Arman agreed to marry her and varmala tak aa gayi baat , obviously they will believe her claim that they were in love but sacrificed for rohit. Plus her never ending dukhi atma jaap with mujhe sab chod ke chale jaate hai , never ending self victimization , guilt tripping arman, it makes her a bechari for the families,  not the audience.  

Edited by Krinya - 22 days ago

In india leaving a girl on mandap is still considered as terrible thing. Irrespective of what could be the scenario. Many parents save lots of money just to see their daughter getting married and settling down.  These things can make parents to end their life too. 

In this season they are trying to use poverty to represent poor families as for rich families shadi tootna is not a big deal. Goenka's had no money still they put all their money just to see their daughter marry and settling down. If armaan wanted he could have cancelled it beforehand. 

Ruhi continuing with her marriage i do not think ppl will treat it as big deal as many families in india who come from poor background marry for their families by keeping their love aside. 

Yes ruhi going behind armaan post marriage is wrong but armaan is equally part of that as taali sirf ek haath se nahi bajthi. If ruhi was dancing armaan was holding her. If ruhi was touching him armaan was letting her to touch. If ruhi was destroying rohith's life armaan let her to do that. When armaan was irritated with ab for hiding charu truth tbh it looked funny to me. If Ab was destroying charu's life by hiding charu's truth then armaan destroyed rohith's life by hiding their truth. All three are equal in that sense. 

If he had gathered some courage during ruhi time atleast multiple lives would have saved. But he kept on playing with multiple lives.

He is only thinking about himself not about anyone else. He left his family and a person whom he promised and kept in delusion for a girl he met 1 year back. 

So there is no guarantee that if tomorrorw something happens he may leave ab too. He is just a people pleaser. 

In reality think about it..that groom would have been beaten and forcibly married to the bride by all relatives ..Groom cannot just escape  we see such news daily..

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

In india leaving a girl on mandap is still considered as terrible thing. Irrespective of what could be the scenario. Many parents save lots of money just to see their daughter getting married and settling down.  These things can make parents to end their life too. 

In this season they are trying to use poverty to represent poor families as for rich families shadi tootna is not a big deal. Goenka's had no money still they put all their money just to see their daughter marry and settling down. If armaan wanted he could have cancelled it beforehand. 

Ruhi continuing with her marriage i do not think ppl will treat it as big deal as many families in india who come from poor background marry for their families by keeping their love aside. 

Yes ruhi going behind armaan post marriage is wrong but armaan is equally part of that as taali sirf ek haath se nahi bajthi. If ruhi was dancing armaan was holding her. If ruhi was touching him armaan was letting her to touch. If ruhi was destroying rohith's life armaan let her to do that. When armaan was irritated with ab for hiding charu truth tbh it looked funny to me. If Ab was destroying charu's life by hiding charu's truth then armaan destroyed rohith's life by hiding their truth. All three are equal in that sense. 

If he had gathered some courage during ruhi time atleast multiple lives would have saved. But he kept on playing with multiple lives.

He is only thinking about himself not about anyone else. He left his family and a person whom he promised and kept in delusion for a girl he met 1 year back. 

So there is no guarantee that if tomorrorw something happens he may leave ab too. He is just a people pleaser. 

This!!!

He will ruin everyone's life because of his confused nature...

Also leaving at mandap is the worst thing one can do....When he had multiple chances from after realizing his love but he woke up at Mandap...Also , there is no garauntee that he will stand by Abhira

Originally posted by: Sushma_00

This!!!

He will ruin everyone's life because of his confused nature...

Also leaving at mandap is the worst thing one can do....When he had multiple chances from after realizing his love but he woke up at Mandap...Also , there is no garauntee that he will stand by Abhira

if ruhi was criminal or someone whom he had informed in advance that he does not love her or if ruhi shown some evil signs of marrying him it would have not got much highlighted as galath intention dono sides tha. So equal hojatha hai but here armaan kept on giving her hopes that he wants her she is best suitable person for him and then doing this will be considered as worst. 

Armaan is spineless, and got courage only at the last step as wahan kuch aur nahi ho sakta tha. 

Though this is still better than marrying and then realising feelings for other girl and pinning on that other girl (probably fl) while his wife is besides him. This is shown in many serials and is the most pathetic track ever.

Ar aur ruhi almost same situation mein the but ek ne apne spouse ki aur khud ki puri life barbaad kari aur dusre ne kuch din. Galat dono hi the.

Ar ne ek baar himmat ki par ek do din mein vo fir palat jaayega.

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Roohi wanted to give one chance to her marriage but Rohit never came back so there is a possibility her marriage would have worked if Rohit was there. 

Just like Armaan and Abhira who took 10 months to fall in love, Roohi too would have fallen in love with her husband if he was there because Rohit was actually very good.