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Originally posted by: shootingstar.xx
hmm, thanks for sharing your opinion! I am surprised that you think uzma is trying to separate hadi and mahnoor. to be fair, even if uzma wasn't involved in their lives, hadi and mahnoor would have separated at some point. No matter how much hadi loves mahnoor, he also wants love in return. mahnoor may love him deep down, but actions speak louder than words. and mahnoor's actions clearly show that she doesn't love hadi. she loves his attention, not him.lets say you're right and uzma is trying to destroy hadi and mahnoor's relationship. if that were really true, she wouldn't have stopped writing those love letters. she wouldn't have put so much effort in avoiding him in the morning, during breakfast, at night, etc. why did she throw the key out the window when hadi was locked out of the house? she could've given it to him herself. she won't even touch his box of mithai because she doesn't believe she has the 'right' to do so. this doesn't seem like a girl who wants to destroy a relationship. if she wants to separate them, she is doing a bad job 😆yes, mahnoor represents a lot of women in the real world. that's why mahnoor's character is so great. she is very real. and like real people, she also has her flaws. she seeks attention selfishly. hadi gives her all his attention but she gives him none of hers. he puts more effort in the relationship and that's not how relationships work. both need to give love and attention to one another. both need to put effort. yes you're right, if uzma didn't give her advice, hadi would very pathetically be running after mahnoor (like he ALWAYS does) at some point, a person needs to have some self respect. the 'false advices' that uzma gives hadi is actually very good advice. why should we give importance to people who give no importance to us at all?we can't really know what uzma's real intentions are but I still think mahnoor is wrong and she is hurting hadi too much. hadi deserves better honestly.how much is hadi going to do to prove his love to her? I remember that scene when mahnoor wanted gol gappe and he had gotten into an accident and was completely bruised. she just stood there and laughed at him how much patience and love does he have to give her for her to understand? especially considering that they have probably been together for a very long time.you know what mahnoor's biggest flaw is? it's not her selfishness, it's her hypocrisy. hadi was so faithful to her by keeping his distance from uzma. mahnoor was suspicious of him and didn't trust him. but mahnoor sits in a car with another man, who looks into his eyes while he tells her how beautiful she is and she shows no discomfort or shame. she calls him to pick her up. she makes excuses to go to his house or to see him outside his door. but when hadi becomes suspicious of her, she says she can't be with a man who doesn't trust her? 😕even if uzma has bad intentions (we don't really know that. giving advice doesn't mean she is trying to destroy their relationship), she is still a much better person than mahnoor because she respects hadi and loves him wholeheartedly. whereas mahnoor only loves his attention.also hadi doesn't have to listen to uzma's advice. no one is forcing him. I think deep down he knows that uzma is right!
And that's how you disagree with a point of view adequately, in a discussion mode, with respect. :))
I agree with you, uzma's respect for hadi does seem quite genuine. Unfortunately some of us girls have a weak heart - once we fall in love, whether the guy is with another girl sometimes doesn't seem to do anything for us - we continue having those feelings. That's what I think they are trying to show with uzma... we can control our actions though to a certain extent - which they did show here. But sometimes it takes much longer for us to decide to back off - as beautifully shown with uzma , for whom it took a bunch of letters and being dissed by hadi to have some sense knocked in.
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