What's pathetic abour him?
I liked his reaction in contrast to all the other egoistic chest beating gorilla husbands shown in other shows.
Like I said, he's the male equivalent of the mazloom women in every other drama. The mazloom female is a pathetic character because she never takes a stand despite knowing she's being taken advantage of. Danish's character is exactly like that.
Chest-beating gorilla husbands are disgusting, but pushovers (be they husbands or wives) are extremely irritating. Neither is desirable. There's a middle ground, Danish can be a loving husband who worships the ground his wife walks on whilst taking a stand for his own rights. That doesn't mean lashing out, and being abusive. All it means is pulling back and having some self-respect, like 'I really love you, but you're clearly no longer invested in this relationship so I'll let you go', not begging her to stay when you know she's had an affair and doesn't want to stay, or saying 'shall I get you something to eat' after she insults you. Danish's mantra seems to be 'you can walk all over me, treat me like dirt, I'll happily deal as long as you don't leave me'. That is by definition, pathetic. And to top it all off he refers to the man his wife is having an affair with as 'saab'...
Faakhir from Khaas is an example of a loving, supportive husband, who also has a strong personality and self-respect.
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